I'm fairly new too so they'll probably be better advice to follow, but here's what I thought when I looked at your site.

You have a lot of conditions that might put people off - emailing a few times before giving them your number, visiting hotels before you see them at home, etc.  It makes you sound difficult.  Also, the line about 2 to 3 appointments a week and needing to be well-rested is too much info. No one needs to know how many appointments you take, nor do they care about your sleep schedule!!!

The tone of your writing sounds cautious - it makes it seem as though you're not new and excited, but new and uneasy. Even if you do give a great GFE, it sounds like a lot of hurdles to get to experience one! 

So that's my perspective, whatever you wish to make of it.

Good luck and hope it picks up for you!

Amber Im sorry you havent met as many clients as you have desired yet. Your gallery is stunning so there doesn't seem to be anything wrong with that. I'm in a similar situation, these past 2-3 weeks have been shit! I think its putting a damper on my mood along with the recent 'surprise' I got earlier this week also. Eventually it will pass and things will get going. But may I comment on one thing please? I notice in your ad you say...

I love to pamper and please a man, and I find the thought of catering to a mans every need quite a turn on!
im not afraid to admit I have always had strong desire to fulfil a mans every fantasy!

You sound very nice...but a tad bit too eager. Remember, escorting usually involves them catering to your every need, not vice versa. Maybe some of the others here could give a bit of an advice to make you sound desired by all the guys around. You dont have to say you want to cater to them and fulfill their needs...they want to fulfill your every needs, which is partly why they are paying you. Oh and one more thing I didnt see..

I guarantee you wont want our date to end In any sales industry the word 'guarantee' should be avoided at all costs, unless its something you know 100% you can guarantee.

Sorry UA.  Feel like im constantly disagreeing with you lately but im not doing it on purpose.  however.... i disagree.  Men arent spending ?140 an hour to please me they are paying to please themselves otherwise they would stick to wives and girlfriends.  Most of them like to know you are getting pleasure from it also but from the minute i have my security call done to the minute i leave i do my best to make it all about them and finding out what they want and how they want it.  They love a bit of pampering and knowing your doing everything in your power to please them... some of them anyway.  So i wouldnt say you need to change that but dont over egg it and maybe add something that lets them know you are virsatile and are happy for them to please you too.  Just play with the wording but dont be affraid that telling a guy your going to focus all your attention on his sexual pleasure is a bad thing lol


edit: oh and the thinkg about having a domain name rather than the moonfruit.com thing (im no techy so im sure someone else can explain it better than that) i didnt really understand the importance of this until i changed my web address to lexienight.co.uk but now i have im sure it has made a difference.  its hard to tell how much but for the ?5 it cost me im sure it was worth it.  i think the thinking behind it is that guys dont always think you are genuine if you have a free site?  im not sure but it might be worth considering.

i think the thinking behind it is that guys dont always think you are genuine if you have a free site?  im not sure but it might be worth considering.

I have to disagree with you on this one. Seems like we just cant to get along anymore    I've been listed on free sites in the past and have gotten pretty good business. Dont think it matters  But if someone is listing as an ultra-high end courtesan from a heir of a billion fortunes, then yes...it wouldnt give off such great impression

Quote from: lexie on 04 December 2008, 02:38:32 am

i think the thinking behind it is that guys dont always think you are genuine if you have a free site?  im not sure but it might be worth considering.

I've been listed on free sites in the past and have gotten pretty good business. Dont think it matters 


But if someone is listing as an ultra-high end courtesan from a heir of a billion fortunes, then yes...it wouldnt give off such great impression

I dont understand the first sentance maybe someone else mentioned it but i never said she shouldnt be on free sites.  infact i would say the opposite, get on as many as you can.  i dont pay for any of my advertising and i dont plan to anytime soon either.

i do agree with the second bit but in this case i dont think amber was trying to advertise as a courtesan and didnt mention high class, just as someone who aims to please and enjoys it.  At least thats how i read her site anyway.  i dont think there is anything wrong with that, some men love it.  And when we show up to a booking and get asked to lay back and take all the pleasure... well thats good too    thats why i said not to over egg it but not to think its a bad thing and to show she can be versatile.  Its a matter of showing you can deliver whats required.  For me its about making sure the service i offer on my site is the service i deliver when I am there.  i only offer services i know i can deliver.  i wouldnt offer domination or humiliation because i know id be shit at it (im no actor) but i can offer a gfe where the pleasure is all theirs because its something i enjoy doing and im honest enough to mention other services that im happy to partake in but admit that its not my speciality.  i try to be honest about it and it seems to work for me, i think thats all you can do really.

Someone told me when i started to think more about what im NOT prepared to offer and go from there.  it helped me because untill then i hadnt really thought about my limits.  i think i thought i would just have to do whatever men wanted me to do and put up with all sorts but you dont. so if for now you want all the pleasure to be theirs thats fine and as you get more confident you can add more services.  its about being comfortable with what your offering and what your doing and who you are doing it to/with.

Right to me your site looks fine, hadnt seen it before the changes, but right now I like it 

The only thing is, your an outcall only escort, that will limit your bookings a great deal unfortunatley, im sure i read here or somewhere that it can be as much as a 70% difference, or maybe i dreamt that.

Regards the domain name, do get one, longer term it will prove invaluble and you can take it with you if you decide to get a site built, so you dont have to spend many hours changing directory links, trust me on this, its a pain in the arse

Regards the free/paid site, personaly i think if your charging ?100+ an hour then have a site that costs nothing, it does look a bit..... but at the same time they are a great launching point, and it doesnt seem to put many off, and thats the important thing.

Hope that helps

although the figure given there was 90% rather than 70, but the message is the same

Not always the case. I had my own studio in Miami and only got 2 incalls the entire time I lived there (4 months). Any other time I had to jump into my car. Glad I had a car before I escorted because I took the bus for 8 months. Most people, paranoid with boyfriends and nosy neighbors still wanted me at their place.

And even now, I cant do incalls at all unless I have money to get a hotel, which right now I dont    Outcalls are much more popular. I almost  when I read that link, but remembered my own experience.