What makes you think it won't again, particularly if you continue to take what most of us would consider unacceptable risks?

Not even unaceptable, just plain dumb. 

Joey its exactly the kind of attitude that will get you in to trouble one day.  Dont for a second be fooled that the big cities dont have gay bashers, that is one of the dumbest things ive heard a gay man say for a long fucking time, and i frequent gay bars and clubs so i hear a lot of shit.  I also picked up the peices of a very good friend of mine 2years ago who was in london, camden in fact when he was attacked so get that bull shit out of your head immediately.

Your 'it will never happen to me' attitude is also what is going to land you in to some serious shit one day and good luck making people sympathise when that happens.  if you put yourself in shit situations no one will listen to you.  Wake up ffs.  Every weekend your here with another tale of your weekend antics and every weekend you accuse the ladies of saafe of blaming you.  there is a reason for that.  No more sympathy Joey.  Wake up, grow up and FFS stop thinking you are excempt from all the shit that can happen in the world.

   I wasnt implying that it doesnt happen in cities, sure it does. It happened in Miami a few years ago. But it was from a group of passer-byers and not from a man visiting another at his home. As far as that happening from meeting a random man from offline on a chatroom that is rare, atleast in this part of the country. I wouldnt be saying it if I didnt know. I have friends who do it all the time, there really isnt much other venues for gays to meet except for a club, and I will tell you the risks of that is even higher. Honestly, I know I take a risk visiting on their turf which like I said I very seldom do it, which is why I dont meet many guys off the chat because they realize I wont meet them at their houses. Besides thats boring, I like to go out and have fun.  C'mon, I've lived this life since I was 14 years old....I think I know a thing or 2.

I have to admit I am a bit of a risk taker. I'm wild, adventurous and every weekend there's always a different drama, different thrill. I love it and wouldnt trade it for anything. In fact what happens now isnt nearly as wild as how it was back home...When you combine 2 wild, adventurous men/women together you know you're in for a wild ride!

Anyway, enough about dating. I'm working on my website

you just like to 'put people in their place'. You know it, admit it 

I just tell it how it is Joey.  Who am i to tell anyone their place in life.  What i will do is suggest you take up bungee jumping or tight rope walking... they are safer than the games your playing at the moment.

Exactly    I appreciate you caring for my saftey but I've got it under control

I think control is a strong word to use.

If he were in the same room as me i would clip him round the ear 

Evie you are a cruel supporter of animal cruelty.      LOL, but thats so hilarious. Cats are mean!

Aww they're playing! Should see my lil kitten who used to attack my dog, was about the size of his paw and scrappy as hell

Ok, what about a rapist or serial killer or just a mugger? There are so many weird people around.

Ok, that noise you can all hear now... thats cassie banging her head against a brick wall this time    The same one she is talking to i fear 

Yes I know (lets not beat this poor, lame horse again   

You have to admit you do post about the same stuff just on different weekends.  Always about how your dates go wrong or you bookings go wrong or how you hate your city etc etc etc.  so its no suprise you get the same stuff told to you all the time.

If you dont want the lame horse beat, put it away and close the stable door!  (I prefer 'change the record' but you started with the horse thing so felt i had to use it for continuity  )