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Mafafomafafofo

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Why didnt I turn him on?
« on: 28 October 2013, 09:44:49 pm »
So I had my very first appt (did an easy one for 15 minutes since I was so damn terrified!)
Anyway, the guy was actually a little good looking and only about 30 years old. Since it was a short session, when he got to my apartment, I suggested we go to the bedroom right away. I figured I needed to hurry so I took off my clothes and then he took off his. He didnt have an erection though! It took a while into the blow job before he actually got hard. He told me several times after the session how gorgeous I was, but then why wasn't he turned on enough to get an erection?
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sammy s

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Re: Why didnt I turn him on?
« Reply #1 on: 28 October 2013, 09:58:31 pm »
Some clients will get hard just at the sight of us naked and some will need stimulation for a few minutes to get hard. Everyone's different and some will be more sensitive than others.
It's normally the older clients who have a raging hard on before foreplay has begun. It's the younger ones who tend to be harder work.
Sounds like he was happy with the booking. I'm sure he wouldn't have been dishing out the compliments to you if he thought you were awful. Also perhaps he could sense you were nervous (seeing as it was your first booking) which might have made him nervous and unable to perform without stimulation.
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HollyH

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Re: Why didnt I turn him on?
« Reply #2 on: 28 October 2013, 10:15:21 pm »
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« Last Edit: 15 December 2013, 09:40:52 pm by TheH »
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happyhappyjoyjoy

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Re: Why didnt I turn him on?
« Reply #3 on: 29 October 2013, 01:30:10 am »
I have never seen my regular with a raging hard on ever and he deffo enjoys our sessions. My other half tells me that he has had a big hard on with a girl and not been particuarly turned on.

Basically what I'm saying is the penis is half of the stry.  :)
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xw5

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Re: Why didnt I turn him on?
« Reply #4 on: 29 October 2013, 07:33:05 am »
Lots of men need physical stimulation to get an erection, feeling horny or not, especially in the somewhat unusual setting of a paid for quickie with someone they have only just met.
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Nikitamids

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Re: Why didnt I turn him on?
« Reply #5 on: 29 October 2013, 08:55:10 am »
can be difficult some need a warm up to be honest I find if I make my room warm and toasty it helps them relax but you do get clients who lets say exercise it before the do visit and it can cause them to take a long time .....
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xxxhollyxxx

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Re: Why didnt I turn him on?
« Reply #6 on: 29 October 2013, 06:55:47 pm »
It could have been his "first time" aswell... You never know.  I had one guy first time to escorting a few weeks back going flacid halfway through because he felt guilty on his wife!
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