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So in my city let’s just say there is plenty of sex workers from a certain South American country. I’ve been asked on many occasions by clients if I offer bareback as these girls and guys offer the service as they’re on “medications”. Whatever the fuck that means. I said by no means and I mean absolute no means am I letting anyone inside me or penetrating anyone without a condom.

This kind of behaviour pisses me off and I’m seeing it from girls and guys from this particular country constantly now and seen it advertised too before. It’s disgusting and it’s lowering the bar for everyone else. There is no reason why you shouldn’t be using a condom for sex. You’re not only putting yourself at risk but you’re potentially passing on god knows what to clients who could be now at a higher risk of circulating it amongst other sex workers even with condom use. In my opinion why aren’t people offering bareback sex banned from sites immediately.  Like they should be banned from using any of the mainstream sites in my opinion if they’re having sex with guys with no condoms. They’re putting us all at a higher risk. God this shit irritates me.

I would honestly love to know if there’s a forum or platform to report sex workers who have this in their profile. It’s really not right at all I don’t care how desperate you are. Clients wouldn’t be asking for this shit in the first place if everyone just point blank refused to offer it. Which they should.

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"Medications" - PrEP. Protects from being infected with HIV, to my knowledge.

"Why aren't people offering bareback sex banned from using Sex Worker Websites" - because it's a legitimate, legal service and will always be around, whether out in the open or banned and under the table.


I think I might come across blunt there, not intentional, but it's gone 3am and my cat's been furballing  ::)
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I don’t think that they should be banned as it’s at your discretion which services you provide. I personally would never bareback but everyone asks so if some are willing to actually do it then sure go for it I feel. I just personally say no. Go make your coins any way you want guys!

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So in my city let’s just say there is plenty of sex workers from a certain South American country. I’ve been asked on many occasions by clients if I offer bareback as these girls and guys offer the service as they’re on “medications”. Whatever the fuck that means. I said by no means and I mean absolute no means am I letting anyone inside me or penetrating anyone without a condom.

This kind of behaviour pisses me off and I’m seeing it from girls and guys from this particular country constantly now and seen it advertised too before. It’s disgusting and it’s lowering the bar for everyone else. There is no reason why you shouldn’t be using a condom for sex. You’re not only putting yourself at risk but you’re potentially passing on god knows what to clients who could be now at a higher risk of circulating it amongst other sex workers even with condom use. In my opinion why aren’t people offering bareback sex banned from sites immediately.  Like they should be banned from using any of the mainstream sites in my opinion if they’re having sex with guys with no condoms. They’re putting us all at a higher risk. God this shit irritates me.

I would honestly love to know if there’s a forum or platform to report sex workers who have this in their profile. It’s really not right at all I don’t care how desperate you are. Clients wouldn’t be asking for this shit in the first place if everyone just point blank refused to offer it. Which they should.

As always, 'I would...' is fine here on SAAFE. 'You should...' is not, and we'll have no more of it.

Neither you nor anyone else gets to police how consenting adults have sex, and thank God for that; the only person whose choices can put you at risk is you and you have no way of knowing what any punter has been doing and with whom. Mind your own business - if you have enough time on your hands to worry this much about what other people are doing, you need a hobby.



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So in my city let’s just say there is plenty of sex workers from a certain South American country.

Tiny bit racist tone to this?

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Sex work not exactly regulated like other jobs. Doesn't seem to have health and safety. Just block anyone who asks for it that's what I do. Some say oral without is bad but I wouldn't get clients without it.

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Also I have bareback sex with my partner (when I have one) does that mean I should tell every client? The risk is definitely higher doing it for work and I wouldn't

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Focusing on what others are doing doesn't bring happiness is my piece.



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I didn't know there was medication to stop people from getting things from unprotected sex. This is JUST MY OPINION but if you are referring to Latino guys and ladies then bare in mind quite a few maybe being forced to do it (pimped) and have no choice and before anyone jumps in to tell me off for that comment I know first hand how hard it is to survive in Latin American Countries without money so also a lot may be choosing to do it to support their families back home. I meant I have seen first hand.

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I didn't know there was medication to stop people from getting things from unprotected sex.

There isn't.
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And therefore those sex workers should feel more welcome at sex workers sites, not less or be "banned". As well as the people who don't really want to do other unprotected services but feel like they have to for their business.

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"Medications" - PrEP. Protects from being infected with HIV, to my knowledge.

"Why aren't people offering bareback sex banned from using Sex Worker Websites" - because it's a legitimate, legal service and will always be around, whether out in the open or banned and under the table.


I think I might come across blunt there, not intentional, but it's gone 3am and my cat's been furballing  ::)

It does, but let’s say she has unprotected sex with a punter HIV positive and he cums in her, then another bareback with someone One hour later. She will not catch it but can pass it onto the next one. Plus it doesn’t cover her against any other crap like chlamydia in the slightest

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If punters don't want to catch anything from having unprotected sex, it's best not to have unprotected sex. We don't have the Sex Police, and nobody is going to tell me (or anybody else here, since I doubt any of us would appreciate it) what I can and can't do with my body - I'm nearly 50 and I'll shag whoever I like, however I like. I don't offer OWO or RO, but I'm not whinging about those who do.

It's.worth pointing out that a lot of people would think we were all pretty desperate for doing sex work in the first place, so pointing the finger and looking down our noses at each other is even less helpful. On the health side, I just assume they're all riddled.:D.

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If everything that was deemed distasteful or dangerous was banned from SW advertising platforms, the paid BDSM scene would pretty much disappear!

Just protect yourself.
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What a stupid thing to say, they can offer what ever service they like it THEIR body! Who are YOU to be saying they're lowering the bar??? We're all sex workers, we should be supporting each other it's such a shame to see fellow sw put down other sw. Icouldnt care less what others do with their body and neither should you
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