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HollyB

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Another escort causing trouble for me - Advice please?
« on: 21 December 2011, 12:00:38 am »
Hello everyone,

I'll start from the beginning...

Basically I've been escorting for over a year I used to only do outcalls but I've been doing incalls for the last 2 months, I would say I am doing really well out of it and I'm still getting the outcall clients.

Anyway in the summer a new escort popped up on AW in my area providing outcalls. She did car meets, 30 minute bookings and her hourly rate was ?80 (mine is ?120) so she gained a lot of feedback in a short space of time which I will admit kind of annoyed me especially as she advertised herself as "high class" but her profile is full of grammar and spelling errors.

I'm sure you're all aware of AW's great system that allows us offering services to see if seeking service members have aliases, well I get an email one day from a user with 4 aliases so I click on the little link and her username is one of the aliases! I also notice she'd left feedback for herself using her alias. I replied back saying I was too busy to see new clients because I thought that would annoy her even more than if I said I knew what she was doing. I get emails for weeks asking if I'm available so I reply the same "I'm too busy".

I put my number up on my AW profile for 1 day to see what sort of interest I got (I've since taken it down as I want to be ale to view the feedback for who I'm agreeing to see) and a guy books me over the phone then cancels me last minute. I thought nothing of it until I look at her aliases again and his 'name' is on there. I look at her profile again and see her first feedback was from him. This has annoyed me for weeks, but after seeing that I am absolutely raging.

I'm the type of person who HAS to say something so I ring her up as her number is on her profile and I tell her I know what she's been up to and I have the proof that she's been using other aliases and deliberatly time wasted me (I screen shotted the AW pop up that shows the list of aliases and I have all her emails under a different username) and threaten to out her should she continue. She says she has tried to book me for her husband and that the user names belong to 'other escorts on her books'. Yeah right!

I don't want to start a war with her, t the end of the day if she needs to do that then she obviously isn't getting enough business and feels the need to sabatage mine! It also proves something when she tells me she's sat with her husband and I reply saying I'm just on my way out (to an outcall which was true!). She did apologise but insisted I got the wrong idea about it so I took her apology and said that if she messed with me again I will out her on AW and to other escorts in our town.

Hopefully that has scared her into trying anything again, like I said I have actual proof that she's broke AWs terms and conditions by leaving feedback for herself and also proves that she's just a nasty person by trying to mess me around.

What can  do if she retaliates though?

I'm sorry if that doesn't make a lot of sense, it's difficult to put into words and I am typing as though I'm ranting as I am so mad!!

At least I've got it off my chest though!


MissThang

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Re: Another escort causing trouble for me - Advice please?
« Reply #1 on: 21 December 2011, 12:51:52 am »
Wait and see, personally I think it sounds like you've dealt with her quite firmly, and the 'booking an escort for my husband' line sounds like a woman panicking, not one ready to start a war. If any more comes of it, my next move would be to grass her up to AW. She clearly has too much time on her hands!

In a way, she's doing you a favour - decent clients will suss the fake feedback just like you have, and all the tight-fisted ones will go to her, leaving you with the cream of the crop.

I understand completely why it's winding you up, though! Why can't people just live and let live? Anyone can make money in this business if they put the work in, there's no need to try and take other girls down. If someone was doing similar but better than me, I'd be looking for inspiration from them, not trying to make petty fake bookings! I don't get the logic of that, unless she books tons of appointments, forever, it's not really going to affect your business to any great extent anyway. Balls to her  ;D


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Re: Another escort causing trouble for me - Advice please?
« Reply #2 on: 21 December 2011, 06:22:00 am »
let AW know exactly what she is doing , she is no friend of yours and has caused you problems  when you have  not even been bothering her. what an idiot she is. good luck and dont worry ....
Ruby x

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Re: Another escort causing trouble for me - Advice please?
« Reply #3 on: 21 December 2011, 04:08:17 pm »
Don't interact with her any more or you risk starting a war.  You've said your bit, now is the time to carry our your threat.

Collect all the evidence you can and if she kicks off, contact AW. 

 
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ladyofthemansion

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Re: Another escort causing trouble for me - Advice please?
« Reply #4 on: 21 December 2011, 05:33:26 pm »
You said"Anyway in the summer a new escort popped up on AW in my area providing outcalls. She did car meets, 30 minute bookings and her hourly rate was ?80 (mine is ?120) so she gained a lot of feedback in a short space of time which I will admit kind of annoyed me especially as she advertised herself as "high class" but her profile is full of grammar and spelling errors."

You were upset about her as soon as she arrived lol. I personally don't even look at other profiles preferring just to concentrate on me.xx

I do get a few no shows which could well be other escorts but feel I am better off for not knowing and just concentrate on what does come in. xx

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Lady_Lust_XXX

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Re: Another escort causing trouble for me - Advice please?
« Reply #5 on: 21 December 2011, 05:57:20 pm »

I also notice she'd left feedback for herself using her alias. I replied back saying I was too busy to see new clients because I thought that would annoy her even more than if I said I knew what she was doing. I get emails for weeks asking if I'm available so I reply the same "I'm too busy".

I had something similar with a female who is working in my area.  My sixth sense kicked in when I opened an email and I just waited for a few hours and the alias' showed up.  And like your 'friend' she had left feedback for herself saying 'oh thanks for the great afternoon and thanks for the lovely bottle of champange'  ............. she probably has never tasted champagne and more likely as not couldnt even spell it ............... so all I did was report it to AW and the fb was removed ........... so then she disputes it and puts against it 'Never happened' ............... which was really true ............ it had NEVER happened and the silly mare just made herself look stupid.

She has also tried from time to time to text pretending to be a client but her writing style and her really bad spelling ALWAYS gives her away.

At one point I actually got threatening texts from her (which I still have in my phone just in case she starts up again.) but I just let her get on with it ................ for she is the one making a fool of herself and definitely MUST have too much time on her hands. ROFL. ;D

Hope things sort themselves out soon.
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Kitty_of_Herts

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Re: Another escort causing trouble for me - Advice please?
« Reply #6 on: 21 December 2011, 07:52:09 pm »
Probably best to ignore her until she gets bored and decides to go bully someone else.

Even if you did manage to report her and get her profile taken down chances are she'd be back on AW within a day, and with an even bigger vendetta against you.

ladyofthemansion

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Re: Another escort causing trouble for me - Advice please?
« Reply #7 on: 22 December 2011, 07:50:25 am »
If you notice she's leaving feedback for herself so too will most of the guys. They're not all stupid. x
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