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Luvmylips

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Re: Do you actually like this job ?
« Reply #45 on: 28 February 2022, 08:25:55 am »


When a client is good, this job is appealing.  I like the cash and the social aspect of the job; meeting a stranger holds less of an appeal as sometimes you never know who you are letting into your proximity and personal space.


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Re: Do you actually like this job ?
« Reply #46 on: 28 February 2022, 11:31:57 am »
I was on a dating site, surprised myself how many men I slept with.

Via escorting I am in more control.

Lushblossom

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Re: Do you actually like this job ?
« Reply #47 on: 28 February 2022, 02:28:15 pm »
It can be stimulating when bookings are plentiful or even just steady.

Meeting people from different sectors is also usually fairly stimulating. Especially when they are fairly relaxed and appreciative. Makes all the difference when they are pleasant.

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Re: Do you actually like this job ?
« Reply #48 on: 03 March 2022, 02:13:32 pm »
If I could earn the same money in my other job I'd stop sex work in a jiffy. I'm not the type to have a relationship while doing this so it stops me having love in my life.

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Re: Do you actually like this job ?
« Reply #49 on: 03 March 2022, 09:18:23 pm »
It can be stimulating when bookings are plentiful or even just steady.

Meeting people from different sectors is also usually fairly stimulating. Especially when they are fairly relaxed and appreciative. Makes all the difference when they are pleasant.

Absolutely. I enjoy meeting new clients  I find them very interesting, usually.

Femme fatale

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Re: Do you actually like this job ?
« Reply #50 on: 06 March 2022, 10:52:10 am »
At least the clients didn't talk about religion or ram that crap down my throat during their bookings .in my civvy job I unfortunately work in a big organisation where there is too much of that. I've returned to escorted as I'm broke !
I'm overweight but trying to conceal that with sexy dresses got to the point where I too try to switch off. I'd rather now do a days whoring than kill myself doing overtime at the other job


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Re: Do you actually like this job ?
« Reply #51 on: 06 March 2022, 11:16:27 am »
I used to see a punter a churchgoer who after we finished be reading parts of stuff from the bible , didnt bother inviting him again , im overweight too and hate it but if you dress nicely it makes you feel a bit better ☺️

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Re: Do you actually like this job ?
« Reply #52 on: 06 March 2022, 10:18:22 pm »
I've returned to escorted as I'm broke !

Welcome back to the world of full service workers  ;D
I'm sure you look absolutely stunning in your sexy dress, and probably in your work clothes too at your day job!

I hope you are having some lovely clients and enjoying a great time of it xxx
A woman, especially, if she have the misfortune of knowing anything, should conceal it as well as she can. - Jane Austen

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Re: Do you actually like this job ?
« Reply #53 on: 07 March 2022, 10:23:17 am »
I used to see a punter a churchgoer who after we finished be reading parts of stuff from the bible , didnt bother inviting him again , im overweight too and hate it but if you dress nicely it makes you feel a bit better ☺️

an exorcism perhaps?
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Re: Do you actually like this job ?
« Reply #54 on: 05 May 2022, 06:38:19 pm »
I absolutely love this job, i feel like its the best job in the world. Its pretty well paid and although i don't rely on it 100% for income it gives me extra money which enables me to travel abroad. Its is also extremely flexible, i love that i can fit my job around other things that are important to me such as choir and wheelchair rugby. Most of all i love meeting my clients from all walks of life, having a chats with them, having cuddles in bed and some of them are nice enough to even pleasure me and/or bring me gifts too.

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Re: Do you actually like this job ?
« Reply #55 on: 05 May 2022, 09:34:26 pm »
Welcome back to the world of full service workers  ;D
I'm sure you look absolutely stunning in your sexy dress, and probably in your work clothes too at your day job!

I hope you are having some lovely clients and enjoying a great time of it xxx
Yes  lady frog thankyou  so much 😊I am now loving work again
Feeling better within myself and less self conscious .
Some lovely new clients too

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Re: Do you actually like this job ?
« Reply #56 on: 07 May 2022, 12:54:22 pm »
Still new to it but mostly loving it so far. Really enjoying being able to set my own hours, choose what work I do, meet a variety of people, wear sexy outfits to work, and have some fun sexual experiences. I get insecure sometimes which can be difficult, but I channel all my confidence into my work persona and it's a massive boost when clients say how attractive they find me and how much they have enjoyed our time together. The money is pretty good too!  :D

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Re: Do you actually like this job ?
« Reply #57 on: 07 May 2022, 02:38:16 pm »
For someone with commitment issues (hi it's me), it's great to have a job where you can choose your own hours, take days off/ holiday whenever you want. There are a lot of downsides and setbacks of course, that revolve around being self-employed and the stigma for this industry such as living a double life/ hiding your job and having to lie to your family and friends, complicated to have a love life, difficulties getting a loan and a mortgage, not having the benefits of being employed (sick pay, career progression, bonuses, health insurance, fixed income, etc.). It's like working in customer service which is great if you like working with people but that means you need to be top of your game at all times, you cannot hide behind a desk if you don't feel like doing it. But I find it exciting, I like having a secret no one knows about (except for 2 very close friends and my therapist), it's fun to dress up, do photo shoots, wear lingerie and cute dresses as your uniform, finding new ways of entertaining your clients, etc.

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Re: Do you actually like this job ?
« Reply #58 on: 08 May 2022, 09:13:03 am »
I guess its like any job really, you have good days and bad. It pays the bills and keeps a roof over my head.

I suffer with adhd and ocd so this job works pretty well for me most of the time. I have a routine and I keep active with it.

I am always busy doing something whether its emails, texts, calls, sorting out hotel, doing laundry, actually doing the physical side of work, emotional labour, chatting, cleaning and tidying hotel room ect. I can organise myself so well and I love the consistency of my routine. I cant always predict the client flow but I've got the system I use to run my business down really well and I try and prepare extensively for every outcome.

Then on the flip side when I get overwhelmed, get sensory issues with clients or start wanting to go on rampage on all the 'hi' message guys I can do a half day or even take as much time as I like because I can afford it.

I have tried other jobs but I have never done well, I like being able to control what happens in my own life and I don't like being told what to do and have that fear of losing my job due to speaking up.

I guess the one thing I really like most about it is being able to treat and look after the people closest to me, it makes me really happy.
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Lushblossom

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Re: Do you actually like this job ?
« Reply #59 on: 09 May 2022, 03:38:17 am »
I luv the free time. Quick route to the money. It means I can spend time doing other things. Bringing up my teenage son. Hobbies sorting the house out and socialising.

Self employment is also much better for my health.