Hello Ladies, not a newbie but haven?t used my account in ages and had to create a new one. I love all the advice and support on here and I?m now in a position where I hope some of you can shed some thoughts on. A couple years ago I had an awkward encounter with a booking  that turned out to be a guy I went to highschool with and interacted with almost everyday. I asked if he wanted to stay and he said it was to weird for him and so left. I was upset as I've always tried to stay private. He tried getting in contact with me a few times and I finally thought what the hell he already knows and tried him back. When I rang him back, under my WG persona to ask if he wanted a booking he said no. His tone suggested he never wanted to hear from me again so it was getting a bit awkward for me . He tried a few more times but I ignored him and he stopped calling.

I wish it ended at that but I will randomly see him about town, on transit and he will stare and make me feel a bit awkward. Several years have gone buy and this guy has just added me to facebook.  I'm unsearchable so he may have found  me in a mutual highschool friends contacts. I'm so confused as to why now. We have several mutual friends. Should I ignore this guy? Is he just curious and trying to creep ?Add him and tell him to F off? I'm no longer working and in a happy healthy relationship for once.

Not sure why but this is really bothering me. Would love to hear any thoughts. Is it best to ignore these things and act on a wait and see basis?

He didn't want to see you as a client then tried to get in touch with you several times but had an attitude towards you. He is playing some type of mind games with you. Maybe he is feeling guilty about you knowing he visited you for paid sex and is worried, either way ignore him he is trouble.

I had several encounters with high school guys or friends or friends in my small town.
Some have been understanding and are discreet.. Others have tried blackmailing me.

Reasons why he may be doing this wierd behaviour
1) he thinks you will tell someone, paranoid you will tell his gf, fam, etc.
2) doing it on purpose, thinking u give in eventually and give him freebies because your old "friends"

Either way ignoire him and block him. But this could also make it worse, what ever u do, it be 60% chance at least h(from what i gather from his behavour) that he contact your friends, fam,spread rumours.

Doesnt sound nice but be prepared!.

If he wants to get like that, always have the option of playing him at his own game, like finding something to blackmail him with like a embrassing fetish.

When i was blackmailed, i had pics of the guy cross dressing & images of him with other men.. He was too concerned about his image! So i was lucky lol

What ever you do , up to you hun
Good luck xx