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tasha

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ok to enjoy?
« on: 03 December 2007, 11:28:11 am »
Just picking up from what Imogen says below about enjoying the job too much. I am the same but an older woman I work with says its unprofessional to cum with clients. I think its OK to enjoy what we do but I can see a husband or boyfriend might feel unhappy about it but how can you control these things anyway? I'd love to hear what other girls think......Tasha.
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Richard

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Re: ok to enjoy?
« Reply #1 on: 03 December 2007, 12:26:16 pm »
Everyone has boundaries. For some 'enjoying it' is one of them - if they enjoy it / come, then it crosses the work/pleasure line they want to keep inviolate.

If all the professional sex you have isn't enjoyable, it must be quite hard to keep working.
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Anika Mae

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Re: ok to enjoy?
« Reply #2 on: 03 December 2007, 12:49:57 pm »
There's no need to be a bitter old whore. If you have a partner it may be different, but if you enjoy it and that doesn't make you feel uncomfortable, you're going to be a much happier and healthier person. Just try not to fall for a client, that tends to end badly.

This industry doesn't really have rules. As long as you conduct yourself with common sense and common decency, you're probably doing it right.
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brandy@saafe

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Re: ok to enjoy?
« Reply #3 on: 04 December 2007, 02:41:22 pm »
What Anika Mae says. In six years I've never heard that it's unprofessional to cum. Personally I think that's a load of nonsense. It's one thing having boundaries, it's another being told that "to cum" is unprofessional.

If you don't enjoy yourself in this job, it can do mental damage to you. Some escorts turn to drink and drugs to help get them through each booking, simply because they don't like their job. If you can do this job without having to turn to that kind of sustenance, then that's as professional as you can be.
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