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improbablecats

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When you've blacklisted someone
« on: 28 May 2012, 08:11:03 pm »
Do you tell them you won't be able to see them or simply ignore their calls?

I feel that if I decide before meeting a client that I don't want to see him he may try to find ways around my embargo (by changing his number etc.) so I tend not to say anything and just ignore the calls from 'Slightly Shirty' and 'RUDE don't answer'  :D. But some of them really don't get the message and keep calling/texting. What's your usual way of dealing with clients you don't wish to see based on their manners?

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Re: When you've blacklisted someone
« Reply #1 on: 28 May 2012, 08:12:26 pm »
Call Blocker Pro and SMS Blocker. They changed my life  :D.

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Re: When you've blacklisted someone
« Reply #2 on: 28 May 2012, 08:13:56 pm »
Simply KEEP ignoring.  They WILL eventually get fed up and stop.

If they realise you are deliberately ignoring them and you do answer a call from them from another number then your radar should pick up why you didnt want to see them in the first place.

And as Amy says BLOCK in all situs.
Beauty is nothing to do with having a pretty face.
It is about having a pretty mind, a pretty heart,
And most importantly a beautiful soul.

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Re: When you've blacklisted someone
« Reply #3 on: 28 May 2012, 08:17:36 pm »
Agree with Amy and LL. If you don?t however have these facilities, I just normally store them under DNS. The important thing is to never tell them you have no intention of seeing them in case it causes some to retaliate and make trouble. For the persistent callers and I mean persistent ? see thread on ?how to keep an idiot occupied for hours?  :D? this works a treat for me! The success rate so far is around 95%.

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Re: When you've blacklisted someone
« Reply #4 on: 28 May 2012, 08:18:19 pm »
Simply KEEP ignoring.  They WILL eventually get fed up and stop.

Its true. Back in the days before fancy phones I daresay most of us had plenty of these and you just have to be sure to never answer. I wouldn't even press the 'reject' button either, or they know you're there and you've noticed them. Just ignore them completely and they do go away.

I rarely have the sound on my phone, as I find it a lot more annoying - I generally have it on vibrate and just keep it with me (which is partly a hangover from touring a lot, where you don't want the obvious noise). If that's practical, it does seem to help make it less infuriating, although I can't speak for other people :).

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Re: When you've blacklisted someone
« Reply #5 on: 29 May 2012, 02:11:28 am »
I've had a young idiot change his profile on AW 3 times to try and book me. Then last night he tried a 4th time.
Jeez, take the hint! You're being deleted and blocked for a reason buddy!

strawberry

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Re: When you've blacklisted someone
« Reply #6 on: 29 May 2012, 07:52:51 am »
I've got the call blocker which is a God send for withheld numbers. I have had genuine, lovely clients think I'm blocking them because I can't give them an appointment, or am always busy at the exact moment when they phone.

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Re: When you've blacklisted someone
« Reply #7 on: 29 May 2012, 08:57:46 am »
Most Samsung smartphones come with both call and sms blocker. And they're not expensive phones. My current one cost ?30 from the shop, and the previous one cost ?20 from a car boot.

Now to the topic: I simply ignore them. Don't get into any justifications, explanations or arguments with them, as this would only wind them up and make them even more obsessive. Plus any arguing or explaining with such individuals tends to be never-ending.

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Re: When you've blacklisted someone
« Reply #8 on: 29 May 2012, 09:15:27 am »

I've had one guy who's in my phone as a timewaster and has been trying to call and text me the last 3 months (!) always asking for the same 9 am appointment. I've ignored his lewd texts and constant requests to see me but he doesn't seem to get the picture, I told him when he rang Sunday (haven't answered in months of him calling) I didn't want to waste any time dealing with him and his stupid texts as he didn't turn up the first time he booked with no explanation though he didn't seem to get the picture and texted me right back afterwards again asking if he could see me at 9am Monday... Think its time for a newer work phone with call blocker!

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Re: When you've blacklisted someone
« Reply #9 on: 29 May 2012, 01:04:11 pm »
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Re: When you've blacklisted someone
« Reply #10 on: 29 May 2012, 01:12:42 pm »
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Re: When you've blacklisted someone
« Reply #11 on: 29 May 2012, 01:13:13 pm »
Hahaha Lalique, he probably came from me to you   ;D 

But totally agree with you. The less you give them anything to interact and get obsessive about the better for you.  I do the same, I never tell anyone they are blocked, just tell them am ever so busy in the moment. Some guys seem to strife on all the drama they get from us getting wound up by them. It?s like our reaction is oxygen for their need for attention even if it is negative. I just treat those guys like toddlers or my dogs, I ignore their tantrums. They seem to get bored very easily and move on

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Re: When you've blacklisted someone
« Reply #12 on: 30 May 2012, 05:15:36 pm »
I don't tell callers they are blocked;
I let my app below do it.
Call Blocker Pro and SMS Blocker. They changed my life  :D.
Good but an Android app I've been raving about is: Extreme Call Blocker Droid I bought the pro version as the extra features over the free version were to me worth it. Plus it's so usable, very friendly.
You can program in a pre set message for either calls or SMS messages or both,
from blocked numbers. 
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