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chloinnyc

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Re: When they expect you to orgasm...
« Reply #15 on: 13 April 2015, 08:52:42 pm »
I fake it with every client who gives me attention down there for longer than 2 minutes, and also sometimes fake it during sex if I feel they want me to orgasm or if they're taking too long and I need to speed them up (always works).  It felt weird at first especially b/c I very rarely fake it in my personal life.  In the beginning I had to really concentrate and try to act out what I do both noise-wise and with my body when I'm having a real orgasm.  Now I'm so good at it I can be mentally creating my grocery list while singing along to a song in my head AND contracting my muscles so it looks and feels like I've completely lost control.  I find it incredibly amusing and one more trick to use at my disposal, and the clients' egos love to be stroked by thinking they can make you come.  I am not normally turned on by clients at all and even if I was I'm there for him, not myself, so almost never have real orgasms with clients b/c then I'd have to concentrate on something other than his experience.  I get really good feedback and every man loves giving a woman an orgasm, so I don't feel bad at all about faking it- like I said, I'm creating an experience and playing into a fantasy.  I think you need to have the trifecta in order to pull it off- the right amount of noise/breathing (nothing phony or over the top), facial expressions AND body tensing.

Oh, and for the muscle spasms- do your kegels and core work!  I have so many guys say something along the lines of "there is no way you could have faked that, your body was spasming" or "wow I could feel you pulsing."  The bonus is it will make your real orgasms stronger, too  ;D

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Re: When they expect you to orgasm...
« Reply #16 on: 13 April 2015, 09:15:50 pm »
I've mentally stopped myself over the years from having an orgasm, I've wanted to save it for my personal sex life, I've had the odd client who gives good oral but I never cum. It's all an act in a way? I mean gfe is an act, we are not their girlfriends or in love but we act like we are, it's part of the service they pay for. I think a lot of us deserve an oscar, all my clients get a good effort from me and 90% are regular punters so I must be doing something right and I genuinely care that they get their money's worth x
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chloinnyc

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Re: When they expect you to orgasm...
« Reply #17 on: 13 April 2015, 10:20:02 pm »
It's all an act in a way? I mean gfe is an act, we are not their girlfriends or in love but we act like we are, it's part of the service they pay for. I think a lot of us deserve an oscar, all my clients get a good effort from me and 90% are regular punters so I must be doing something right and I genuinely care that they get their money's worth x

I think this all the time.  Like during appointments I will be mentally patting myself on the back for giving such a good performance.  I've started judging actresses doing sex scenes b/c I'm always thinking I could do it so much better  ;D

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Re: When they expect you to orgasm...
« Reply #18 on: 14 April 2015, 12:13:29 am »
My advice is to "dramatise" a little! Ok fake is what I mean, it keeps them happy in my experience x

I don't think you should fake it at all. One of the common pet hates of clients is fakers. If you talk to them about it you'll soon find that. I'm the same as the OP, quiet but the client can often feel the contractions. I don't bother if they know I have or not. Some clients it happens most times I see them but they are the minority. The ones that kind of expect it I don't book again.
I think it depends how good you are at faking? I'm pretty good I think, don't over dramatise and scream the house down! If I waited for a real orgasm off a punter I'd be waiting a long time x

Completely agree nia, majority of women will not come so easily, but men love the ego stroking. It's extremely rare for a punter to think you're faking it...unless you're a bit unnatural with your acting
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Re: When they expect you to orgasm...
« Reply #19 on: 14 April 2015, 07:20:30 am »
My advice is to "dramatise" a little! Ok fake is what I mean, it keeps them happy in my experience x

I don't think you should fake it at all. One of the common pet hates of clients is fakers. If you talk to them about it you'll soon find that. I'm the same as the OP, quiet but the client can often feel the contractions. I don't bother if they know I have or not. Some clients it happens most times I see them but they are the minority. The ones that kind of expect it I don't book again.
I think it depends how good you are at faking? I'm pretty good I think, don't over dramatise and scream the house down! If I waited for a real orgasm off a punter I'd be waiting a long time x

Completely agree nia, majority of women will not come so easily, but men love the ego stroking. It's extremely rare for a punter to think you're faking it...unless you're a bit unnatural with your acting

Maybe with you, but here must be a lot of poor actresses around then. As I said before it's one of the more frequent moans.

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Re: When they expect you to orgasm...
« Reply #20 on: 14 April 2015, 09:53:53 am »
Yeah, all I seem to hear is punters moaning about the fake moans! I don't think the fact I don't fake orgasms means they're not getting their monies worth. They're having an 18 year old coming round to their house, doing all she can that she is comfortable with to make them happy. Is my fake orgasm really going to make that much of a difference? They must have small egos if the lack of an orgasm is really going to break them, again - I'm not too interested in pandering to the delusional that think I'm really there to get off, unless I do get off. I don't think it's something they should expect or necessarily deserve, for those girls that do fake it convincingly, it's a nice extra but I didn't come into this thinking it was a must-do until that feedback. It's really not my thing at all, I can feign pleasure but not an orgasm and I am already a ridiculously quiet person, it's one of the many reasons I can't do "regular" service jobs. If they want the "girlfriend experience", they can get the bit where I don't cum as well as that happens all too regularly with actual couples. ;D However, note that I did actually orgasm and that he knew, so the problem evidently isn't if I can or can't have a real or fake orgasm, it's the fact that I don't moan a lot during.

My point is that just the thought of fake-moaning is something I'm really not comfortable with, I simply don't express myself that way unless I'm with a partner. Like some of you don't feel comfortable having real orgasms on the job, I don't feel comfortable making noise. Feeling like I have to do this is just going to add yet another level of stress to a job I don't exactly love already. To be honest, I think it's getting to the point where it's expecting a bit much out of me, and with this guy in particular he got an extra ten minutes *on top of* another hour as he drove me there and back from the train station, so he was definitely getting his money's worth!

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Re: When they expect you to orgasm...
« Reply #21 on: 14 April 2015, 12:10:39 pm »
My advice is to "dramatise" a little! Ok fake is what I mean, it keeps them happy in my experience x

I don't think you should fake it at all. One of the common pet hates of clients is fakers. If you talk to them about it you'll soon find that. I'm the same as the OP, quiet but the client can often feel the contractions. I don't bother if they know I have or not. Some clients it happens most times I see them but they are the minority. The ones that kind of expect it I don't book again.
I think it depends how good you are at faking? I'm pretty good I think, don't over dramatise and scream the house down! If I waited for a real orgasm off a punter I'd be waiting a long time x

Completely agree nia, majority of women will not come so easily, but men love the ego stroking. It's extremely rare for a punter to think you're faking it...unless you're a bit unnatural with your acting

Maybe with you, but here must be a lot of poor actresses around then. As I said before it's one of the more frequent moans.

Yeah I know what you mean, I definitely don't do it unless I feel they won't quit asking or pestering then it's sometimes easier just to get them to move on, but I hate doing it too
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Re: When they expect you to orgasm...
« Reply #22 on: 14 April 2015, 12:59:12 pm »
I just say i go sensitive and wont be able to perform if i cum too soon, i'll leave it to the end of the booking. I cum within like 1 minute lol i'm an easy cummer but i hold on for that reason

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Re: When they expect you to orgasm...
« Reply #23 on: 16 April 2015, 02:00:12 am »
I haven't had a real orgasm with a client in 8 years ::) and nowadays I just shut off and save something so intimate for my husband, the thought of being that vulnerable with a client makes me feel quite sick frankly.

I am however a great faker and hear all the time "wow that was amazing, I could FEEL it!" it always makes me smirk a little. Technique and skills officially honed.

It's not for everyone though, when I was still learning my faking skills I used to be extremely quiet but I would use the excuse I was focussing on the client and how much I was loving it to put on a show for them. They eat that shit up and soon forget what they were complaining about!
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Re: When they expect you to orgasm...
« Reply #24 on: 16 April 2015, 04:33:20 pm »
Don't feel like you have to change anything just because a client said so. Stick with what you are comfortable doing.

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Re: When they expect you to orgasm...
« Reply #25 on: 16 April 2015, 04:53:49 pm »
I would never fake, makes it all the more special when it just happens naturally  ;)

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Re: When they expect you to orgasm...
« Reply #26 on: 16 April 2015, 06:04:13 pm »
Hi lovely,

We just can't keep them all happy.
I had a client complain during intercourse that I was faking it and I absolutely wasn't, I just happen to be more boisterous.
I think we have to run with what is natural
To us, which ever way we express ourselves there will be clients who will appreciate us and like us exactly as we are.

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Re: When they expect you to orgasm...
« Reply #27 on: 17 April 2015, 06:17:56 pm »
I've never genuinely had an orgasm with a client (came close, but never got there  ;)), and I tell them so..
I explain that for me personally it's about more that having an orgasm, and just because I don't come, doesn't mean I
don't enjoy it!
And they're usually totally fine and quite understanding about it.
I do make the appropriate noises of enjoyment (even when I'm bored off my tits  ;)), but I've never faked an orgasm, and
it's never been a problem..
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Re: When they expect you to orgasm...
« Reply #28 on: 17 April 2015, 06:41:10 pm »
I've had a few older ones seem put out if I haven't so I will fake it later in the booking with those ones, then they expect me to scream!  Lots of guys who cum don't exactly scream so I say to them, I did but I'm not a screamer. Most of the time they think it's genuine though.

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Re: When they expect you to orgasm...
« Reply #29 on: 17 April 2015, 06:54:34 pm »
Probably just as well I don't come with clients, especially older ones, as I swear when I have an orgasm lol  ;D
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