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Bluetits

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Re: When they expect you to orgasm...
« Reply #30 on: 17 April 2015, 07:00:00 pm »
When it's especially intense I swear too! and bite the pillow. Might try that one time when wriggling and breathing heavy and moaning isn't enough for them. They might love it.  ;D

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Re: When they expect you to orgasm...
« Reply #31 on: 17 April 2015, 09:46:18 pm »
Well I have changed my approach a bit and incorporated some noises I can manage (okay I mean a sort of heavier breath and a happy sigh), they seem happier but then generally I've had some bloody wonderful clients lately!

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Re: When they expect you to orgasm...
« Reply #32 on: 24 April 2015, 04:35:08 pm »
I find a lot of guys get annoyed when i don't orgasm which I never do, I generally fake just sometimes my body can naturally be stubborn but does anybody else find that some guys get about funny about you not reaching climax?

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Re: When they expect you to orgasm...
« Reply #33 on: 24 April 2015, 04:52:38 pm »
The ones that ask or rather expect me to orgasm (bloody annoying) get my Oscar Award treatment in that it's fake fake fake all the way (incredible how a bit of writing around and loud moans and groans can work oh and not to mention YOU MADE ME CUM SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH! .............

However.................. on the other hand I have a few lovely incredible regulars who are very unassuming, almost humble in some weird way and they make me orgasm every time!  I actually look forward to those bookings because I think, yes, lucky me!


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Re: When they expect you to orgasm...
« Reply #34 on: 24 April 2015, 05:45:09 pm »
I have a few clients who have made me orgasm but I actually resent this happening and don't really enjoy it. It makes me feel weird that I don't really enjoy being intimate with them but my body responds to it  :-\

I HATE when during sex a client will whisper 'I want to make you come' or 'I want you to come first' so I fake it because I don't want them banging away for ages and holding back when it's not ever going to happen. I don't EVER orgasm through penetration. I don't know if some men are really so ignorant to not know that about 1/3rd of women CAN'T orgasm through penetration or if they just want the ego boost and don't really care much if you fake it ::) Like others I use my pelvic floor muscles, arch my back and shudder a little, also if they're touching me I grab their hand and hold it against my clit and afterwards I pretend my clit is oh so sensitive like it is if I have a genuine orgasm.

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Re: When they expect you to orgasm...
« Reply #35 on: 24 April 2015, 08:11:37 pm »
I wish I could cum everytime with every client. I have no issue about not wanting to or holding back, it's just that I physically can't. I'm just as bad in personal relationships. I'm too used to only wanting to make sure I give pleasure. I find its way too much pressure if a guy wants or expects me to cum n I never fake it. I don't believe in that. I've cum twice with clients n I would never have expected it. Had a handful of surprise squirts which is odd as I'm not a squirter. I'm more interested in them coming n enjoying themselves then leaving me to get on with it later on my own if I fancy it, no pressure. And I can take ages to come at times n wouldn't want them getting bored anyway. Some get me close but it's rare I organ.

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Re: When they expect you to orgasm...
« Reply #36 on: 24 April 2015, 08:56:49 pm »
I am definitely quiet because my parents' house had very thin internal walls and I did not want to make it obvious what I was doing.

Just make a comment in your marketing that you don't fake and you hate fake noises... but when you do orgasm, they will notice.

And for the ones who don't, thank them.

Exactly this.

I'm pretty quiet...I don't generally orgasm with clients but even when they are doing something terrible I'll oooh and aah a little and heavy breathe...only one guy has ever mentioned it but I just said 'I can say oh fuck me baby and harder, harder like a porn star if you want, but I think that's too fake'  I said it in a nice, laughing way.  He just laughed too and that was the end of it, it went well from there.

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Re: When they expect you to orgasm...
« Reply #37 on: 25 April 2015, 08:34:29 am »
I wish I could cum everytime with every client. I have no issue about not wanting to or holding back, it's just that I physically can't. I'm just as bad in personal relationships. I'm too used to only wanting to make sure I give pleasure. I find its way too much pressure if a guy wants or expects me to cum n I never fake it. I don't believe in that. I've cum twice with clients n I would never have expected it. Had a handful of surprise squirts which is odd as I'm not a squirter. I'm more interested in them coming n enjoying themselves then leaving me to get on with it later on my own if I fancy it, no pressure. And I can take ages to come at times n wouldn't want them getting bored anyway. Some get me close but it's rare I organ.

It happens with me when I feel relaxed which I do with some regulars. I get what Alice842 says about your body reacting to it. That's what happens to me. I used to try and resist it sometimes, but it's best to go with the flow. It's one of the aspects of this work I like these days.

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Re: When they expect you to orgasm...
« Reply #38 on: 25 April 2015, 08:49:58 am »
I find it very difficult to fake it, just not a very good actress. Most of my clients are three decades older than me so its hard to be turned on to orgasm. Have managed it once though with a lovely 55 year old. his tongue was just out of this world  ;)

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Re: When they expect you to orgasm...
« Reply #39 on: 26 April 2015, 03:51:03 pm »
I see a regular who always makes me come twice in one hour. He is amazing in bed and much better than any of my ex partners.
Often others make me come too. Those ones who think are so good, but do really nothing for me and have no idea how to please a woman, I just can't wait for them to finish, I 'pretend' just to encourage them to come. 

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Re: When they expect you to orgasm...
« Reply #40 on: 26 April 2015, 04:45:30 pm »
I have a few clients who have made me orgasm but I actually resent this happening and don't really enjoy it. It makes me feel weird that I don't really enjoy being intimate with them but my body responds to it  :-\

I HATE when during sex a client will whisper 'I want to make you come' or 'I want you to come first' so I fake it because I don't want them banging away for ages and holding back when it's not ever going to happen. I don't EVER orgasm through penetration. I don't know if some men are really so ignorant to not know that about 1/3rd of women CAN'T orgasm through penetration or if they just want the ego boost and don't really care much if you fake it ::) Like others I use my pelvic floor muscles, arch my back and shudder a little, also if they're touching me I grab their hand and hold it against my clit and afterwards I pretend my clit is oh so sensitive like it is if I have a genuine orgasm.
^^^this, 200%!  I don't think I could have said it any better, alice842!  It irritates me to no extent when a client will think it's "their job" to make me come.  Then, I have to go through the most dramatic acting job to make them think that I do, otherwise, they won't stop or get all bent out of shape.  Most of them think that your privates are like a fricking scrubbing board and when you tell them to go more gently (even showing them with your hand), they *still* keep it up!  WTF?  It's like they're so utterly dense and don't even speak English?!!  Idiots...

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Re: When they expect you to orgasm...
« Reply #41 on: 27 April 2015, 01:10:09 am »
I say 'It'll take 2 hours'...
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Random idle thoughs...Can I manage 100 sit ups a day for a year...?

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Re: When they expect you to orgasm...
« Reply #42 on: 27 April 2015, 08:21:05 am »
I can only have an orgasm or two a day (with a few hours in between.) Sometimes a customer can get me off and that's nice. But in order to do so they have to what actually gets me off - nothing weird or anything, it's just that I like to be touched a particular way.

I don't really bother to fake it very often because it seems unnecessary for most clients. But you do get the ones that state a desire to see me cum. Sadly, they're often the ones who aren't very good lovers (and the least likely to take hints or directions.) So, I put on the spasms and kegals and try to mimic what I actually do when I orgasm. They do seem to be convinced. I guess because the ones that are naive enough to expect it are the most gullible or something.

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Re: When they expect you to orgasm...
« Reply #43 on: 27 April 2015, 08:56:08 am »
I had an orgasm recently when an oldish guy was rubbing his thigh against me. That's done it for me before, when we're wriggling around and I've rubbed myself on their thigh  :) I don't think to do that often but thinking about it makes me horny. How strange.

Sometimes when I've had one with someone I don't fancy, I wonder if it's because they're so unlikely to be ones I'd go with outside the job that it makes it seem more taboo and that turns me on :-*, the dirty old man types but again the touch has to be right. It's not often that happens though.

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Re: When they expect you to orgasm...
« Reply #44 on: 27 April 2015, 09:01:43 am »
It's like we're damned if we do and damned if we don't. They want us to cum - on their schedule, according to their techniques - and if we don't we're cold miserable money-hungry wretches. But if we fake it we're, cold and dishonest miserable money-hungry wretches.

To hear some of them, anything other than genuine nymphomania is unacceptable and we should all go stack shelves at Tesco if we're not "cut out for this." Imagine if they were to get their way... they'd all be in a very long queue to visit the scant handful of prossies who are genuinely enjoy sex with every client.