Eh, the title of this thread isn't really what I mean as I actually have orgasmed in bookings multiple times (including with the client I'm talking about). Basically, I got some positive AW feedback from today's booking, but he mentioned in it that there's no "audible" feedback from me. Basically that I'm extremely quiet. It's true, I'm very anxious and can rarely even "let myself go" entirely when I'm with partners in my personal life, nevermind at work when I have to be on guard. Nevertheless, I am able to orgasm if the technique is right and when I do it's obvious. I just don't go in for all the moaning, I make some noises here and there and my breathing changes but that's about it.

I'm worried because he obviously felt it was a big enough deal to include it in the feedback, and I do remember one other occasion when a client seemed rather annoyed that I wasn't screaming with pleasure. I am rather introverted and demure, I believe this comes off as obvious on my profile and if not at least on the phone, so it's not as if I market myself as a porn-star like screamer.

I am really not into the idea of acting it out either, honestly that's just going to make things more awkward than it already was.

Anyway, am I the only one? Does anybody else not really make that much noise? Is this a complete dealbreaker? Will other clients now be put off? 

I am definitely quiet because my parents' house had very thin internal walls and I did not want to make it obvious what I was doing.

Just make a comment in your marketing that you don't fake and you hate fake noises... but when you do orgasm, they will notice.

And for the ones who don't, thank them.

I'm quiet too. Blame the porn!

I don't like to fake but... When I've had enough I'm like Meg Ryan!

Like 20 'ahhs', 20 'uuuoooh's', then arch the back...
then a wibbly-wobbly muscle contraction...
then a licking-lemons face?

Would that do the trick? 

Yep faking seems to keep them happy

I did have one who was annoyed at me for the way I made noises ( just to add I'm not at all one of the cringeworthy ones, unless that's what they push me to with their insistence)

You can't win, but fake American porn noises seems to be what they think is normal

My advice is to "dramatise" a little! Ok fake is what I mean, it keeps them happy in my experience x

I don't think you should fake it at all. One of the common pet hates of clients is fakers. If you talk to them about it you'll soon find that. I'm the same as the OP, quiet but the client can often feel the contractions. I don't bother if they know I have or not. Some clients it happens most times I see them but they are the minority. The ones that kind of expect it I don't book again.

Quote from: Nia Hope on 12 April 2015, 08:45:05 pm

My advice is to "dramatise" a little! Ok fake is what I mean, it keeps them happy in my experience x

I don't think you should fake it at all. One of the common pet hates of clients is fakers. If you talk to them about it you'll soon find that. I'm the same as the OP, quiet but the client can often feel the contractions. I don't bother if they know I have or not. Some clients it happens most times I see them but they are the minority. The ones that kind of expect it I don't book again.

I think it depends how good you are at faking? I'm pretty good I think, don't over dramatise and scream the house down! If I waited for a real orgasm off a punter I'd be waiting a long time x