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jasmine123

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When do I include the extra charges
« on: 11 May 2013, 03:11:24 pm »
When do you ask money for extras?
Once they have given you the cash. Or after

Please help
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sadie x

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Re: When do I include the extra charges
« Reply #1 on: 11 May 2013, 03:29:14 pm »
The beginning always the beginning unless they ask half way through, then it's awkward . This is why I don't do extras now, made my life harder I just say my discretion. But if its oral with out just ask at the beggining and if they do want charge accordingly
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Re: When do I include the extra charges
« Reply #2 on: 11 May 2013, 03:30:13 pm »
It's always better to agree the charges over the phone first, then the guy will know how much money to hand over at the start of the appointment.
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Re: When do I include the extra charges
« Reply #3 on: 11 May 2013, 07:36:25 pm »
No extras here, simply an hourly fee. I find it easy if someone is paying for my time, they can pay me initially without having to think how they would like it to pan out.

I actually thought that the majority of ladies were the same and the 'menu' was now just a parlour thing?

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Re: When do I include the extra charges
« Reply #4 on: 11 May 2013, 07:39:01 pm »
Quote from: Nobody Interesting on 11 May 2013, 07:36:25 pm

I actually thought that the majority of ladies were the same and the 'menu' was now just a parlour thing?

Yeah that was my thinking too. Guys are simple beings, they need things as easy as possible. Adding this then adding that just confuses them.  ::)
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Re: When do I include the extra charges
« Reply #5 on: 11 May 2013, 07:42:32 pm »
Part of me also thinks it is a good excuse for them to pull the 'dumb male' cards and pretend they have not got quite the right fee as they were confused...
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Re: When do I include the extra charges
« Reply #6 on: 11 May 2013, 07:45:51 pm »
Don't do extras, everything they ask for is in their booking time, pre arranged on the phone first  ...
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Re: When do I include the extra charges
« Reply #7 on: 11 May 2013, 08:23:06 pm »
Quote from: Nobody Interesting on 11 May 2013, 07:42:32 pm
Part of me also thinks it is a good excuse for them to pull the 'dumb male' cards and pretend they have not got quite the right fee as they were confused...
so soooo true! Perfect excuse, I've had guys remember year old specials I've put on on dry spells
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Re: When do I include the extra charges
« Reply #8 on: 11 May 2013, 08:49:47 pm »
Quote from: Nobody Interesting on 11 May 2013, 07:36:25 pm
I actually thought that the majority of ladies were the same and the 'menu' was now just a parlour thing?

Well you live and learn, don't you? I charge extra for anal and watersports because these bookings take up more of my time in preparation and that's what punters are paying for. If I'm going to spend half an hour to an hour longer getting ready for Mr A's 1 hour booking than Mr B's 1 hour booking, then Mr A is going to pay more (or Mr B is going to pay less, depending on how you look at it).

You need to get the money at the start - nobody wants to be asked for more cash mid-punt. If you don't get round to something by the end, give it back :).
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Re: When do I include the extra charges
« Reply #9 on: 11 May 2013, 08:56:03 pm »
If certain services are requested like watersports I will only do them in one hour bookings.  This allows me my preparation time for drinking more fluids for the service and a longer time to 'perform' (sounds like a performing seal doesn't it).

Domination is also more expensive as it is not something I cant do without psyching myself up before the client arrives.

I always make sure guys know the full costings before they arrive.
« Last Edit: 12 May 2013, 02:32:23 pm by Lady_Lust_XXX »
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Re: When do I include the extra charges
« Reply #10 on: 11 May 2013, 08:56:51 pm »
Quote from: amy on 11 May 2013, 08:49:47 pm
Quote from: Nobody Interesting on 11 May 2013, 07:36:25 pm
I actually thought that the majority of ladies were the same and the 'menu' was now just a parlour thing?

Well you live and learn, don't you? I charge extra for anal and watersports because these bookings take up more of my time in preparation and that's what punters are paying for. If I'm going to spend half an hour to an hour longer getting ready for Mr A's 1 hour booking than Mr B's 1 hour booking, then Mr A is going to pay more (or Mr B is going to pay less, depending on how you look at it).

You need to get the money at the start - nobody wants to be asked for more cash mid-punt. If you don't get round to something by the end, give it back :).
its right.. Things like anal and watersports are time consuming and they are rarely included and I don't think they should be, I used to charge extra for domination, but I haven't done that recently something this post is making me think I'm going to change back, it can be mentally draining and I think it deserves a premium
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Re: When do I include the extra charges
« Reply #11 on: 11 May 2013, 09:04:27 pm »
Quote from: sadie x on 11 May 2013, 08:56:51 pm
its right.. Things like anal and watersports are time consuming and they are rarely included and I don't think they should be, I used to charge extra for domination, but I haven't done that recently something this post is making me think I'm going to change back, it can be mentally draining and I think it deserves a premium

I agree with that too, since anything like that means you tire faster and will likely take less bookings as a result, plus it's a skill that not everybody can do.

I must admit I don't see the reasoning behind charging extra for OWO, as there's no prep involved at all and you wind up going through more condoms and therefore incurring more expense doing covered. It's completely up to the individual how they run things, but surely you're either prepared to take the health risks or not and I can't imagine what difference another tenner makes, nor is it going to make you like it if you don't (and I don't offer it for both these reasons).
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Re: When do I include the extra charges
« Reply #12 on: 11 May 2013, 09:59:38 pm »
As I said "I actually thought the majority..." is certainly the case of the majority in my neck of the woods, with the majority being 50.000001% and above.
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Re: When do I include the extra charges
« Reply #13 on: 12 May 2013, 02:27:46 pm »
Thanks guys.

I think I will charge for anal as Amy says alot on preparation needed Nd it's time consuming .

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