I don't see the problem with them spending a short time showering after time unless of course they want to shower with you. They are spending their money to spend time with you not renting your facilities out for an hour. I would be very perturbed  if I had spent ?100 plus to see someone (which is a lot of money at the end of the day) for them to rush me out.

Yes an hour is an hour and a shower shouldn't take more than five mins or so   a shower is what 5 mins  or so   just  leave enough time within bookings to allow this . 
I doubt that you spend exactly 60 mins on the dot with every client - (or maybe you do ) but so what,   whats five minutes for them to shower and freshen up its good manners and good business senses to offer them a shower   


 It seems a bit petty when you consider you are probably being paid ?100 + an hour  and five minutes or so is hardly going to reduce your hourly rate
I always offer clients a shower before and after and its taken out of my time not there time and i tell them this -  as long as they are quick it hardly conclusive to getting repeat business if you refuse them a shower especially those that are visiting you in while working    ( i also

i use the time that they are showering to return calls , texts emails tidy up the room ect   

Like an hour is an hour right? This guy knew that i didn't have any more bookings so he asked if it would be alright if he took a quick shower. But still i want them out after an hour non the less. Is that skimpy or should i put my foot down, i get asked this a lot when the time flies and they don't realize it's coming up to time up.
And they always seem to ask when i say time to get our clothes on like dude that means the booking is over.

Surely you don't grudge a paying client that's just gave you good money 5 minutes to get a shower? And I don't meant to be rude, but really? Each to they're own I guess, what you do of course is your business.

I obviously know what the time is when they arrive at mine but with the amount of smelly clients I have turn up, I give them shower time at the start and the end as an incentive to use the bloody shower which of course in return make my job easier and nicer.

I can understand escorts getting pissed off if a client is still banging away after his hours up or if they try to have another go at the very end where you just think erm unless you pay for more time its not happening but getting annoyed at a client wanting a shower in my time just wouldn't enter my head.

I had a client recently who was absolutely filthy who refused a shower at the start of our booking then asked for one at the end where his time was up that really PISSED ME OFF but more at the fact his hygiene was horrendous and he didn't have enough respect for me to be clean for the booking but had the cheek to ask for one afterwards. He was in my bathroom for what felt like ages, at one point I had to ask him what the hell he was doing since he pulled my scales out and was weighing himself and everything but again I was just more annoyed at the cheek of him more than anything else.

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Quote from: rhonasg on 22 November 2013, 06:59:44 pm

Like an hour is an hour right? This guy knew that i didn't have any more bookings so he asked if it would be alright if he took a quick shower. But still i want them out after an hour non the less. Is that skimpy or should i put my foot down, i get asked this a lot when the time flies and they don't realize it's coming up to time up.
And they always seem to ask when i say time to get our clothes on like dude that means the booking is over.

I think you are giving out all the wrong signals there. If the guys who visit you feel comfortable with you they will come back, and just as importantly say positive things about you. If you constantly put them under pressure they will feel it and act accordingly. I learned that very early on. I slipped up a few times and hassled guys out the door when I'd messed up my schedule, and those are often the guys who become TW's. If you piss them off they can get you back. It's no bother to me if they take a shower, or if it's 5 mins or 15 mins unless I have appointments back to back. I do sometimes, and I make sure the guys understand that in advance. They are always regulars anyway.

I think there are nice ways to put a gentle spin on things, too. Obviously, we have to watch our time because that's our primary commodity. But the client mustn't be made to feel rushed.

I find that being sweetly honest about things goes over well. You can say "I won't rush you but I do need to pay attention to the time so that I always have plenty of time to relax and shower between bookings... I know you want me fresh and rested so I try to keep on schedule to avoid any stressful situations." That reminds him that you have a schedule to manage but that it's to HIS benefit that you do so.

Good clients - the ones you want to come back - will understand and appreciate this.

Sorry Kimberly but clients aren't as stupid as "some" of them look, I think that weather your nice/overly nice/firm or bullshitting an excuse to have them OUT the second they're time is up will still make them feel rushed.

Agreed that out time is precious but as others have said I leave plenty of time in between my bookings, if I am particularly busy where I only have a half hour inbetween my bookings then I will text my next client to say that I may be 5 minutes late, I don't think my next client is gonna be too pissed off at having to wait 5 minutes.

Yes we all need a rest but I cant rest anyway when I know I have a client coming in a matter of minutes. We're making really good money at the end of the day so feeling pissed off at a client asking/expecting 5 minutes to shower at the end is really petty IMO.

Infact I ALWAYS offer the bathroom to my clients at the start and the end of every booking, they can take that however they want weather that's to do the toilet, freshen up, wash hands, shower or whatever.

I think that the good clients, the ones you want to come back are particularly the ones you don't want to make feel rushed.

Naturally if I have a client who is horrible then admittedly I don't care if they are rushed cause I know we're never gonna see each other again and I know that its his fault for coming in and being horrible to me and treating me badly, he can blame himself for getting a half hearted service.
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I certainly have bookings that over run. I simply slipped up when he asked me if he had anyone after me, thinking he wanted to extend his time and what not. I was shattered at the time so it was just a case of no but it'll be the end of my work day. I think i need to more strategically place my clock or something because sometimes i loose track of time and don't want to look like i'm clock watching. I mean he took me off gaurd when he asked for a shower because we'd already gone over time so i was like ... well... no, that's certainly pushing it. It's just i feel that if i ask them do they want a shower or drink before the booking ends it makes them feel like that 5/10 minutes or so is rushed or like i'm, readying them to get out which i am but idk... will think of something smoother to say next time if i must keep an hour as an hour.

Why don't you have a playlist on so you know when this song plays then its time to wind down. To be honest I dont see many people a day so running over isn't an issue.

I wouldn't dream of refusing a guy a shower just because his hour was up nowadays, it just to me personally feels a bit rude. "yes mate I know you saved up for a fortnight to pay me 130 but can you bugger off now" is how I would feel. Of course if someone is an arse or has a bit of an attitude then no, I will turn on the shower, then go back in 3 minutes to ask if they have finished. Someone would have to be really shitty for me to say "no, times up".

I am always mindful of the little things that would make a guy choose me over another girl next time he is feeling horny, its not always about how many positions you can get in during the shag, sometimes its little things such as soaping them up in the shower, not rushing the out of the door etc, you just never know unless the tell you the next time they arrive and with so many other girls out there my personal feeling is that we should be looking after the guys who book us. Its getting busy again now but that doesn't mean standards will be slipping.

Just take  look through the aw pages in your locality. I was shocked when I did at mine, there used to be 4 pages behind the girls who paid to show in the local, now there are six. Everyone and her aunty, cousin, daughter and grandmother are turning to hooking and it will only increase in the future. You have to beat the competition to get the guy and the only way to keep the coming back is to treat the well, I like to treat them as friends and you wouldn't refuse a friend a shower.

Good post , competition is fierce at the mo .

 Personally i like the brew/chats , shower time  ect we have after a sesh , when you make an effort to be freindly with people they are more likely to become regular. Ive got very friendly with some of the regs ( go out on lots of meals out /day trips with some - no pressure for "freebies" or "relationships" - just mutual company ) . No , I would not stress over 5/10min over a shower . I can be a real bitch with TWs n A-holes , but I treat the nice guys very well and enjoy their company .

Men have complained about this percieved "coldness" and/or feeling rushed from some ladies and if you want repeat business rather than a stream of new/random men , then it is something to think about.

I don't think that it's rushing a client to expect them to stay roughly within the hour. If you're a hard-ass about it, that would be cold. However the ones who will take the piss are the ones who need you to be a hard ass and you don't want to see again, anyway.

I have to work rather limited hours, on weekdays, and there seem to be a couple of peak times where a LOT of people want to be seen within a narrow time frame. It's hard enough to pick which ones to see and then try to gently maneuver them into time slots where they aren't inconvenienced or made to wait around, while leaving enough time in between for everything to be fresh and relaxed for them.

Most of them are happy to be on their way, anyway. I don't think anyone ever feels rushed. But I don't think that being conscious of the time when there's another appointment due is at all cold.

And, sure... if nobody is due and I'm enjoying their company, I will just hang out with no thought for the clock.

But it's not one extreme or the other.