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When client wants a shower but time is up?
« on: 22 November 2013, 06:59:44 pm »
Like an hour is an hour right? This guy knew that i didn't have any more bookings so he asked if it would be alright if he took a quick shower. But still i want them out after an hour non the less. Is that skimpy or should i put my foot down, i get asked this a lot when the time flies and they don't realize it's coming up to time up.
And they always seem to ask when i say time to get our clothes on like dude that means the booking is over.

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Re: When client wants a shower but time is up?
« Reply #1 on: 22 November 2013, 07:26:25 pm »
I'm the same. As soon as the hour is up I want them out. I normally just let them have a quick shower though as they probably won't return if I seem desperate to get rid of them. I just make myself look busy as though I'm tidying up and this normally gets them to hurry.
I try to keep a sly eye on the clock throughout the booking too and once it gets near the end I offer them a shower x

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Re: When client wants a shower but time is up?
« Reply #2 on: 22 November 2013, 07:40:28 pm »
If you don't have another booking I think it is being rather petty.  What's another 5/10 mins?

It is up to us to be in control and watch time and if it's that important to get them out the door at "exactly" one hour then it is up to us to ask them if the wish a shower at the end and allocate the time for this in the booking.

I never let clients know if I have subsequent bookings and they certainly never know how many guys I've seen before them that day.

How do you feel about guys paying for an hour and only staying for something like 25 minutes?

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Re: When client wants a shower but time is up?
« Reply #3 on: 22 November 2013, 07:48:40 pm »
Why not try and finish the booking with enough time for your client to have a shower.I always see it as me being paid well enough to not worry about a bit of extra time for the client to clean themselves so they aren't feeling too rushed out because they have gone over time. Don't start getting frustrated over time as you will start to get annoyed over it and it will become clear to the client that you are being strict with time.

Like I said just try and get them in the shower within the hour booking if you don't want to give them extra time that way it doesn't become an unnecessary issue.
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Re: When client wants a shower but time is up?
« Reply #4 on: 23 November 2013, 09:05:30 am »
I see no issue with a guy wanting a quick shower after the hour is up. I worked in parlours in the past and despite them being top quality places the guy had to be undressed, satisfied, showered and redressed in the hour.

I love the freedom I have with being independent in that I have the say on wether a guy has to leave on the hour or if I allow him time after to get cleaned up. I even offer to jump in the shower with them. They really do appreciate the little things like that and I have had some old gentlemen remark that they have never had a shower with a lady before, the grin on their face tells me they like it. No naughty stuff, I just soap them up all over and invite the to do the same for me then we get rinsed off and jump out. One older guy visits me BECAUSE I jump in the shower at the end and he is old, it takes him ten mins to get dressed. You can't rush people like that.

I wouldn't dream of refusing a guy a shower just because his hour was up nowadays, it just to me personally feels a bit rude. "yes mate I know you saved up for a fortnight to pay me 130 but can you bugger off now" is how I would feel. Of course if someone is an arse or has a bit of an attitude then no, I will turn on the shower, then go back in 3 minutes to ask if they have finished. Someone would have to be really shitty for me to say "no, times up".

I am always mindful of the little things that would make a guy choose me over another girl next time he is feeling horny, its not always about how many positions you can get in during the shag, sometimes its little things such as soaping them up in the shower, not rushing the out of the door etc, you just never know unless the tell you the next time they arrive and with so many other girls out there my personal feeling is that we should be looking after the guys who book us. Its getting busy again now but that doesn't mean standards will be slipping.

Just take  look through the aw pages in your locality. I was shocked when I did at mine, there used to be 4 pages behind the girls who paid to show in the local, now there are six. Everyone and her aunty, cousin, daughter and grandmother are turning to hooking and it will only increase in the future. You have to beat the competition to get the guy and the only way to keep the coming back is to treat the well, I like to treat them as friends and you wouldn't refuse a friend a shower.

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Re: When client wants a shower but time is up?
« Reply #5 on: 23 November 2013, 09:18:29 am »
As others have said, I always leave enough time between bookings so that it's not an issue. Also in case they arrive late etc.

I had an outcall yesterday and the guy had already had his fun about 40 minutes into the one hour booking and when I asked for a shower he said no, sorry, his wife was due back soon.. I had just let him cum all over my body so this wasn't ok. I just said 'ok let me wash my hands' and then gave myself a quick 10 second hobo shower at his sink and left.

Unlike many of my clients I'm not ok with walking around all day with cum all over me. So many of them don't even wash their hands before they leave. ew.

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Re: When client wants a shower but time is up?
« Reply #6 on: 23 November 2013, 09:32:56 am »
Unlike many of my clients I'm not ok with walking around all day with cum all over me.

Apologies but this really made me laugh, I just imagined one of your clients going about their daily business covered in cum  ;D It's gross and hilarious all the same!
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Re: When client wants a shower but time is up?
« Reply #7 on: 23 November 2013, 10:27:14 am »
Like an hour is an hour right? This guy knew that i didn't have any more bookings so he asked if it would be alright if he took a quick shower. But still i want them out after an hour non the less. Is that skimpy or should i put my foot down, i get asked this a lot when the time flies and they don't realize it's coming up to time up.
And they always seem to ask when i say time to get our clothes on like dude that means the booking is over.

I actually allow showering time after the appointment around 15 minutes but if they shower before its counted as part of there appointment because I state quite clear they  must shower /bath before they attend...

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Re: When client wants a shower but time is up?
« Reply #8 on: 23 November 2013, 10:53:41 am »
Quick shower only takes 5 minutes, and you can jump in either just before him or whilst he's towelling dry.

If someone starts  to really hang on then I'll start changing the bed, or doing something else. If someone still perseveres then they'll get chivvied along and if it's become a habit then on future appointments I might wind up a bit early. I've rarely had a problem.

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Re: When client wants a shower but time is up?
« Reply #9 on: 23 November 2013, 11:09:08 am »
What Chloe said :). Even when I only have half an hour between bookings, a couple of minutes in the shower isn't a problem as long as they don't take the piss.

As for AME, I agree about the washing - I had a client only yesterday who said he was going straight to the McDonalds drive through after he left me; he hadn't either showered or washed his hands and had been happily poking his finger up my bum twenty minutes previously :-X. No doubt if he's indisposed today he'll blame it on the dirty prossie ::).

Everyone and her aunty, cousin, daughter and grandmother are turning to hooking and it will only increase in the future.

I don't think my nana's found AW yet, although if she wants to keep her flat at anything like the temperature it's been this last week she might have to think it over ;D.
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Re: When client wants a shower but time is up?
« Reply #10 on: 23 November 2013, 12:37:51 pm »
I actually allow showering time after the appointment around 15 minutes but if they shower before its counted as part of there appointment because I state quite clear they  must shower /bath before they attend...

There are doubtless many places that could work, but somewhere like London in the summer probably isn't one of them unless they're being driven in something with air conditioning. If they've come by tube when it's hot, or travelled during a rush hour, they're going to have lost much of the benefit of any washing they did before they set out.
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Re: When client wants a shower but time is up?
« Reply #11 on: 23 November 2013, 12:39:39 pm »
Like an hour is an hour right? This guy knew that i didn't have any more bookings so he asked if it would be alright if he took a quick shower. But still i want them out after an hour non the less. Is that skimpy or should i put my foot down, i get asked this a lot when the time flies and they don't realize it's coming up to time up.
And they always seem to ask when i say time to get our clothes on like dude that means the booking is over.

I think you are giving out all the wrong signals there. If the guys who visit you feel comfortable with you they will come back, and just as importantly say positive things about you. If you constantly put them under pressure they will feel it and act accordingly. I learned that very early on. I slipped up a few times and hassled guys out the door when I'd messed up my schedule, and those are often the guys who become TW's. If you piss them off they can get you back. It's no bother to me if they take a shower, or if it's 5 mins or 15 mins unless I have appointments back to back. I do sometimes, and I make sure the guys understand that in advance. They are always regulars anyway.

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Re: When client wants a shower but time is up?
« Reply #12 on: 23 November 2013, 01:17:05 pm »
I actually allow showering time after the appointment around 15 minutes but if they shower before its counted as part of there appointment because I state quite clear they  must shower /bath before they attend...

There are doubtless many places that could work, but somewhere like London in the summer probably isn't one of them unless they're being driven in something with air conditioning. If they've come by tube when it's hot, or travelled during a rush hour, they're going to have lost much of the benefit of any washing they did before they set out.


ahh well works for me as not in London but I guess everyone's different and has different rules and working practices

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Re: When client wants a shower but time is up?
« Reply #13 on: 23 November 2013, 03:19:45 pm »
A few minutes for a shower is hardly asking for the earth.  Its a shower. I never include it in the booking time as I think the booking starts when they are clean and fresh as I prefer them to shower first. I also prefer they shower afterwards as well as it makes me then know they are a clean person and someone I would be happy to see again.  The time they are paying for is chat and fun time not showering.  It is something we ad afterwards as a courtesy.  Same as when I go for a 9minute tan they allow me to shower afterwards if I want to.  I don't have to pay for the extra time I am in the shop.  Its a courtesy.  same when I go swimming.  My local pool charges by the hour but even after your hour is up we are allowed time to shower and dry our hair.  Its good business sense. 
If you don't do back to back bookings then it shouldn't make any difference. Whilst they are in the shower I just start tidying the room and changing the bedding for the next client and once they are finished in there and leave I am then ready to jump in myself.
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Re: When client wants a shower but time is up?
« Reply #14 on: 23 November 2013, 10:02:51 pm »
I always make sure to leave 30 mins between bookings. Any sexual stuff or chatting etc will be over by the time the booking is up, but I don't mind if they use the shower before they leave. It makes them more likely to come back for return bookings if they know they can get a shower afterwards before going about their day.

I use the time they are in the shower to tidy the room, start making my tea etc x
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