SAAFE forum
General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: TheLittleMatchGirl on 14 April 2015, 12:55:29 pm
-
Hi, just after opinions or advice on whether I'm being too harsh or paranoid
When potential clients ask what will we do in the booking etc it just screams TW after wank material. I tend to just say well my service is GFE, is there anything you have in mind you would like to include in the booking?
I try to keep it brief, i think I come across as pretty cold but I'm not entirely sure what the best way is to discuss these things without being taken for a mug
-
I just turn it back on them and ask what they are wanting in a booking out of the services I offer on my profile.They certainly don't get a detailed blow by blow account of what we will do.
-
They are phone wankers, they want to get off to a description of what sexual things you'll get up to, I generally just say well we can go over that in the booking, if they are genuine and just confused at the actual process of meeting then they will be fine with that
-
I wouldnt automatically assume they are time wasters. I would refer them to my FAQ where I have a 'what can i expect' answer for them. It's a generic GFE answer and because I don't explicitly indicate what services, I ask them if they have a particular experience they are looking for. This is when they reply and say if they want OWO, CIM etc and I let them know if what they want is possible.
If I get any hint of them wanting wank bank material, I stop replying.
-
Usually I will ask them to tell me what they are looking for. Especially my BDSM clients ask me what to expect and it is really exhausting to mail 10 different scenarios (or 1 for that matter), so I tell them to write me their fantasies per mail and I respond with what is and isn't possible.
The real wankers don't mail me back.
-
Usually I will ask them to tell me what they are looking for. Especially my BDSM clients ask me what to expect and it is really exhausting to mail 10 different scenarios (or 1 for that matter), so I tell them to write me their fantasies per mail and I respond with what is and isn't possible.
The real wankers don't mail me back.
That's a good idea, thank you. Think I'll start doing that, means they can get what they want if genuine but I'm not writing wank material
-
That's what i tend to do avery ask them to email me back with what they want, and if I'm happy with there requests i take the booking and if not i don't.
Pretty easy to be honest as i have said before you are your own boss and you should take the booking with what your happy with,if not stuff them or tell them to look elsewhere x :)
-
Usually I will ask them to tell me what they are looking for. Especially my BDSM clients ask me what to expect and it is really exhausting to mail 10 different scenarios (or 1 for that matter), so I tell them to write me their fantasies per mail and I respond with what is and isn't possible.
The real wankers don't mail me back.
That's a good idea, thank you. Think I'll start doing that, means they can get what they want if genuine but I'm not writing wank material
Most guys wanting to go into hundreds of details before the booking are for me wankers/time wasters.
I tell them I don't discuss bookings by email. Please call to let me know what specifically you're looking for/feel free to ask your questions over the phone (I'll still keep it rather brief). I tell them it's a GFE and always ask what it is THEY like/want...
Had an email on aw a few days ago from a guy asking me to explain to him what "a-levels at discretion" means. He wrote if I explain he could then see if he wanted to book me. He had tons of feedback. Wanker:)))
-
Time wasters do my box in and i don't entertain them anymore as 9 times out of 10 i can usually tell who is genuine or not x :)
-
If they want details I send them a link to my profile and ask them nicely to read it then call me when they are ready to book. This usually stops tws and genuine guys will read and get back to me.
-
Them: What services do you offer?
Me: Full service with GFE (so they know sex is on the menu and I don't like it rough and rushed)
Them: Is that it?
Me: Yep.
TW: *CLICK*
Potential Client: Sounds good do you want my address?
What more do they need to know really if they have read your site properly?
-
I've had feedback saying my service is 'very vanilla'. Thing is, the guy was singing my praises but stuck that little insult in there... lucky for me that's exactly what I want clients to know, I don't want anything rough with work. 100% vanilla GFE... cannot do the whole PSE thing, I'd end up laughing lol
-
As long as it was positive it's not that important.
Guys will think It's a joke between you and him if you give him feedback of a similar nature x :)