Author Topic: When a clients confesses feelings (Read 2161 times)

Maz · « **on:** 05 March 2020, 11:32:14 am »

I have just had a clients say he can't make our lunch booking today as he forgot he is in Manchester.

I said no problem and suggested early evening today. He has just come back and said he'll be honest that he has strong feelings for me and thinks it's best we leave it.

What the hell am I supposed to do or say to that!?

Mirror · « **Reply #1 on:** 05 March 2020, 11:36:27 am »

Quote from: Maz on 05 March 2020, 11:32:14 am

I have just had a clients say he can't make our lunch booking today as he forgot he is in Manchester.

I said no problem and suggested early evening today. He has just come back and said he'll be honest that he has strong feelings for me and thinks it's best we leave it.

What the hell am I supposed to do or say to that!?

Leave it is the simple answer, he has had the courage to be honest and recognises he has to stop booking.

Harriet_Lille · « **Reply #2 on:** 05 March 2020, 11:42:15 am »

Don't say anything. It's not for you to say or do anything.
He's a client, you're a sex worker.
Assuming that it's not mutual, just leave it. He said he isn't going to see you so it's not a problem. Or it shouldn't be one.

Justine · « **Reply #3 on:** 05 March 2020, 11:52:12 am »

Maz I think you dodged a bullet there. How many EAS threads have we all read whereby clients can become stalkers and not accept the wg is just that and not wanting anything deeper.

If any reply given I would just say thank you for the reply or words to that effect. Then no more responses should he decide to continue with messages/emails.

Maz · « **Reply #4 on:** 05 March 2020, 12:05:50 pm »

If I am honest I think like him just a very tiny bit and sensed he might like me. We have only met twice before though.

I feel a little bit sad and confused now after his message but know it is sensible to just let it lie. I am not sure any good could come of this.

Thanks ladies xx

Gypsy · « **Reply #5 on:** 05 March 2020, 12:23:01 pm »

That's a shame. I'm guessing he's married?

I have a similar situation with one of my clients at the moment, but he's a reg who I've known for 2.5 years.

Our situation hasn't come to this conclusion yet though and I'm praying it never does. Even though the feelings are mutual I'm able to box it off afterwards. My worry is he can't. I hope beyond hope he doesn't do what your client has done.

Maz · « **Reply #6 on:** 05 March 2020, 12:35:08 pm »

Quote from: Gypsy on 05 March 2020, 12:23:01 pm

That's a shame. I'm guessing he's married?

I have a similar situation with one of my clients at the moment, but he's a reg who I've known for 2.5 years.

Our situation hasn't come to this conclusion yet though and I'm praying it never does. Even though the feelings are mutual I'm able to box it off afterwards. My worry is he can't. I hope beyond hope he doesn't do what your client has done.

Thanks Gypsy

I'm not quite sure but think he could have a partner so maybe he doesn't need the complication of liking me too.

If you and your client can cope with things as they are then hope he doesn't stop things with you!

saltysweet · « **Reply #7 on:** 05 March 2020, 01:22:15 pm »

He left it so late in the day to lie about forgetting where in the world he is. I'd want him to pay for the booking you could have given to someone else. Loverman diddles you out of your fee! But I guess this post may be more about mutal attraction than ££.

SW · « **Reply #8 on:** 05 March 2020, 01:47:28 pm »

Honestly, I think he's messing you about and trying to fuck with your head. Who forgets where they are, sounds a bit random. I would just ignore and carry on.

Mirror · « **Reply #9 on:** 05 March 2020, 01:57:33 pm »

Quote from: SW on 05 March 2020, 01:47:28 pm

Honestly, I think he's messing you about and trying to fuck with your head. Who forgets where they are, sounds a bit random. I would just ignore and carry on.

Someone used the forgetting where I am reason with me, second booking but a regular I would doubt. Sounds like he was too afraid to tell the truth, then decided to or is just making up excuses. Either way sounds too complicated, easier to just leave it as he has suggested.

ana30 · « **Reply #10 on:** 05 March 2020, 03:00:07 pm »

"Strong feelings" after two bookings? (cough cough) I believe he just doesn't want to see you again for whatever reason (money issues, found another WG, figured out punting is not for him etc..) and this is his quick way of "breaking up" with you without hurting your feelings, the old "It's me, not you" :-)

Justine · « **Reply #11 on:** 05 March 2020, 03:26:30 pm »

Quote from: Ana30 on 05 March 2020, 03:00:07 pm

"Strong feelings" after two bookings? (cough cough) I believe he just doesn't want to see you again for whatever reason (money issues, found another WG, figured out punting is not for him etc..) and this is his quick way of "breaking up" with you without hurting your feelings, the old "It's me, not you" :-)

If they do not want to see us again they just need to NOT book us again. Excuses and waffle not really necessary.

While having many repeat clients who have booked me countless times I also have so many who were one booking then never heard from them again. A hundred possible reasons and none of them include me taking it personally.

ana30 · « **Reply #12 on:** 05 March 2020, 04:02:56 pm »

Quote from: Justine on 05 March 2020, 03:26:30 pm

If they do not want to see us again they just need to NOT book us again. Excuses and waffle not really necessary.

While having many repeat clients who have booked me countless times I also have so many who were one booking then never heard from them again. A hundred possible reasons and none of them include me taking it personally.

The client cancelled an arranged booked with the OP, she then suggested to re-schedule, that's when he came up with the "fellings excuse" . So while I agree with you that clients dissapear all the time with no explanations (and that's the way it should be), in this particular case sounds like the client felt a tad "pressured" into making another booking hence the polite it's-not'you-it's-me excuse. It's a bit like killing two birds with one stone: on one side you get rid of the girl for good and on the other you don't hurt her ego.

rae · « **Reply #13 on:** 05 March 2020, 04:10:21 pm »

I think he is probably after a freebie, and hope's you'll be flattered enough to give him one. Either way I don't think I'd be meeting him again.

Maz · « **Reply #14 on:** 05 March 2020, 04:25:41 pm »

For info, in his message he apologised, said he would be back for 2pm and asked if I could do later this afternoon, hence I suggested an alternative time.

Then his reply was delayed, then he came out with his little revelation. Maybe he did just change his mind and decided he didn't want to meet again and wasn't expecting me to suggest a alternative time, though it was only Sunday when he asked if I was free to meet him.

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