Hi all,

I had a client Saturday who was just a sweetheart and wants to see me again. However! He is by far the most awful kisser I've come by in my life, and I've had some very terrible kissers as clients. While in my personal life I always have been lucky to pick amazing kissers, I have had guys who maybe don't do something else quite right and so I do the whole "I like it when you..." to gently correct them. Do you ever do that kind of things to correct clients, or do you just put up with it, or never see them again? I think this one bloke's kissing is something I can't put up with again... I might wail in dismay like a banshee. I'm quite vocal with clients usually in saying things like "oh, go more gently, go slower, change that angle..." but I'd have to properly correct him instead of a little nudge in the right direction. The terrible thing is that he told me twice I'm an amazing kisser!!! Ah the irony!!

So ladies and gents, how would you handle this one?

I do like a good kisser, but is the title not a bit of an over exaggeration. 

Well its not the first time I've been called a tough cookie but that doesnt bother me at all.  Sticks and stones and all that ............

Unpleasant, yes, horrendous, no, just get him to stop and tell him how you like it.  Tell him you like it soft and sensual rather than rough and ready.

Or get him interested in something else and keep him away from your mouth.  There are dozens of other options.

There seems to be an awful lot of threads of late demeaning clients and their actions.  Ok they are not perfect and neither are we.

As has been said somewhere "this is a support forum for us all to support one another" and not a rant and rave forum for all and sundry to come on and make it unpleasant for others.

Have PM'd you Maddie x

I can only take bad kissers up to a point then I get frustrated. I love a good snog and it really spoils the entire thing for me if they are kissing in a terrible way.

My least favourite is the random jabber. They are kissing all closed lips or open lips no tongue then at random intervals they shove a javelin style tongue right into your mouth, wiggle then retract and continue as before. You can't time it to expect it as they never do it in a set way, its 6 second, stab, 15 seconds, stab, 3 seconds, stab etc. I end up just pulling back each time they do it till they get the message and if they dont I just say something like "whoa there, calm down with the tongue' and smile and start kissing again. They usually get the message. To be honest Im not comfortable telling them if they are doing something badly as we are not there for us we are there for them and thats how they like to do something but sometimes you have too so I say it in a jokey way and keep smiling, Its worked so far up to a point. Some just dont get it full stop so I move my face away and start to kiss their neck

It is always good to keep a booking on a light hearted note but at the same time staying in control.

Lailah gave you some strategies to help you move the booking on without having to say anything which is good but if these don't work then we do have to say something and if it is said in a lighthearted way then it is usually taken in the manner it was said.

If they can't take the hint with the light hearted words or the moves, then the only mode of action is to say directly or to decline the booking but as you don't sound like you want to lose him I think that one of the three suggestions given is the only way to move forward.

In my bookings, if I had an older guy (say over 50ish) then I would steer myself away from his lips and work on him down below for many of the older guys require more attention in that department.  Your guy just sounds like he has been without female attention within the parameters of a normal relationship for a while and needs a bit of direction.  If it's an extended booking you have more time to direct him and chat with him.

If the worst comes to the worst then tell him you prefer "little pecks". Ok it's probably a lie but it's not said in a way to be deceptive.  Just to save his blushes.

Good luck with tomorrow.

iJust grit my teeth & bare it