Hi all,

I have to ask this question but would like to stress it's not because i'm trying to offend or be dis-respectful to mature ladies out there still working, I just have to know.

I have recently finished working for a woman in a private house, she's well into her 50's now and had so much work done on her face its un-real, she cant even smile properly and is soooo greedy moneywise its not even funny. Anyway i had my set day every week at her place with a receptionist which was cool, i knew exactly where i was each week and the day she offered me suited me just fine, all was going well. A friend of her's has a place in another town which is over 2 hrs drive away from where i live so i stayed over night there and worked 2 days which again was great. Anyway i came back to work this week on thursday to my usual place to find the madam of the business texting the receptionist i work with asking if im wearing hold up and make up !!!!!!!!!!! she was basically telling the receptionist that if i was'nt wearing hold ups to nip and get me some................ just so u can all keep up with this rant i was wearing thigh length leather boots etc the previous 2 days at her friends place which is why she probably thought i had the same outfit on again at her's, I did because it made a change to what she wants me wearing. This thurs we had 1 client in all day so i spend time there from 10.30am to 9pm for 1 job !!! the phone had hardly rang all day so me and the receptionist called it a day at 8.40pm and went home, within seconds of us leaving the place the madam was on the phone calling us both asking where we were because she'd just called the landline and got no reply. I was fuming that day because she now thinks she can tell me what i should be wearing and how much make to wear etc, im not having any of that, just because  i am technically a hooker it does'nt mean i have to look like one, sorry if that offends anyone out there because i was'nt trying to with that omments. This madam plasters the make up on and thinks all the women that work for her should be like her, in my opinion little is much more effective. I like my skin to breath and i do wear enough make up so she can stick that one and as for what i wear, well i think she should move with the times now, she's been in it for to long if she cant see that one surely. Recieved a text from her this morning telling me she's now changing my day next week to a sunday, she thinks i need a break, she knows all to well i dont work weekends and i knew she was going to change my day so have told her that i'm not coming to work for her again or her friend. Like i said earlier i need the money like everyone out there but not so much so that i'll let people control me in this industry.

Again im sorry for ranting on so much here but this madam has seriously ticked me off now. I guess what i'm looking for is some guidance in the future with this issue ? I think I have handled this very well already but anyone's advice or opinion on this would be much appreciated.

Thanks in advance x