Author Topic: whats the best way to get rid of an obsessive client? (Read 7442 times)

loveamber · « **Reply #15 on:** 19 January 2009, 01:39:35 am »

Oh thank god, Ive only heard from him a few times today. I know what you mean Lexie because if he doesnt like smoking then its important to him, but its the way he was sending nice polite emails and then suddenly changed to one line 'before I tell you my address do you smoke' it just didnt seem to fit with the picture I had of his personality, if that makes sense?! I did reply I just mean that was my first inkling he wasn't all he seemed, im glad I didnt meet him because his emails after that were strange and obsessive! Ive had quite a few emails or calls lately from people I wasn't keen to meet for one reason or another, just bad vibes. Maybe im just being paranoid through lack of sleep, i have so much coursework due in so im getting ratty! Although I have had some nice emails so its not all bad.

I didnt know how to react with my client today, as he kept saying im too nice to be doing this job and should stop, and its not moral. I tried to pass it off as a joke and said 'well you cant think its that bad as you did book me' and he said, deadly serious, yes I think its immoral you shouldnt be doing it, dont you have a soul?! I didnt really know what to do or say but then when I was giving him oral he kept stopping me and saying he regretted doing this and it was wrong, then saying he was in love with me and would pay me to stop escorting! Ive had clients tell me I shouldnt be doing this before but nothing like this, I was glad to be outa there when I left!

Amber x x

lexienight · « **Reply #16 on:** 19 January 2009, 01:54:26 am »

Quote from: loveamber on 19 January 2009, 01:39:35 am

I didnt know how to react with my client today, as he kept saying im too nice to be doing this job and should stop, and its not moral. I tried to pass it off as a joke and said 'well you cant think its that bad as you did book me' and he said, deadly serious, yes I think its immoral you shouldnt be doing it, dont you have a soul?! I didnt really know what to do or say but then when I was giving him oral he kept stopping me and saying he regretted doing this and it was wrong, then saying he was in love with me and would pay me to stop escorting! Ive had clients tell me I shouldnt be doing this before but nothing like this, I was glad to be outa there when I left!

Amber x x

Fuck! Now i think your dead brave because i would have been out of there the second he started on about my immoral soul. I cant stand it when other people try pushing their own guilt on to others. I havent had anyone offer to pay me to stop escorting but i already know what i will be doing if they do. I shall be politely telling them that im a grown, intelligent woman who is capable of making my own decisions, thank them for their concern but warn them that i dont need saving by anyone. After that conversation I would then make sure he knew that i would be happy to continue seeing him on business terms but if he continued to suggest that my business wasnt valid and that i should be ashamed, i would not be so happy to see him.... if he then continued i would probably tell him to f off.

And on a sunday too! He had probably just come fresh from church. Well i hope he bloody well went back there and got struck by lightning on the way in. Bloody hypocrite twat.

loveamber · « **Reply #17 on:** 19 January 2009, 02:17:54 am »

LOL thanks Lexie

wasn't sure wether I was being over-sensitive! I was a tad offended I guess but more kind of scared, he seemed like the type who might suddenly flip and I found myself thinking of an escape route if he did turn nasty. I tried to brush it off by saying I enjoy my work and its a break from the norm etc but he seemed to get agitated by that so I said 'oh maybe I should stop' I didnt really know how to react at the time. When I tried to ignore the fact he wanted to pay me to stop and then be his girlfriend he kept bringing it up and saying I hadnt given him an answer yet $:-\$ I think he was just quite lonely and stuggling with the fact he was paying for it, I think he felt quite guilty. I won't be meeting him again, as I didnt like the feeling of having to defend myself and there was something about him that scared me a little. Oh well got home safely and guess I wont meet another client who seems a bit 'off' again! x x

UrbaneAspects · « **Reply #18 on:** 19 January 2009, 03:06:10 am »

Quote from: loveamber on 19 January 2009, 01:39:35 am

as he kept saying im too nice to be doing this job and should stop, and its not moral. I was giving him oral he kept stopping me and saying he regretted doing this and it was wrong, then saying he was in love with me and would pay me to stop escorting!

I'd be like...stop, you're making me flacid. And no I dont want your funny money.

Carla · « **Reply #19 on:** 19 January 2009, 12:03:59 pm »

Quote from: loveamber on 19 January 2009, 01:39:35 am

he kept stopping me and saying he regretted doing this and it was wrong

Oh puh-lease! The ONE thing that makes me madder than someone trying to negotiate a 75% discount on the phone, is some twat who can't deal with the fact they are paying for sex, and palms their guilt off onto the woman. HELLO?

YOU BOOKED ME. Insecure freak.

Next time just say "look, you shouldn't feel guilty, by paying me you are saving me from a beating from a pimp, and you're helping me afford my next dose of crack to share with my 8 year old daughter tonight". with any luck he'll run out of the house with his pants round his ankles and your booking will be a nice short one. Oooooooooooh, what a nob.

lexienight · « **Reply #20 on:** 20 January 2009, 12:38:16 am »

Quote from: Carla on 19 January 2009, 12:03:59 pm

Quote from: loveamber on 19 January 2009, 01:39:35 am
he kept stopping me and saying he regretted doing this and it was wrong

Oh puh-lease! The ONE thing that makes me madder than someone trying to negotiate a 75% discount on the phone, is some twat who can't deal with the fact they are paying for sex, and palms their guilt off onto the woman. HELLO? YOU BOOKED ME. Insecure freak.

Next time just say "look, you shouldn't feel guilty, by paying me you are saving me from a beating from a pimp, and you're helping me afford my next dose of crack to share with my 8 year old daughter tonight". with any luck he'll run out of the house with his pants round his ankles and your booking will be a nice short one. Oooooooooooh, what a nob.

This made me laugh and now my stomach hurts.

Carla, he had no right to palm his guilt of on you. No one has. Fuck him (except dont, you know what i mean). How you stayed is beyond me, i wouldnt have had the patience or the politness to put up with it. Good on you but know that if your ever made to feel like that again you are well within your rights to walk away. Paid or not you dont have to take that shit. xx

cassie · « **Reply #21 on:** 20 January 2009, 10:08:29 pm »

Bloody hell!

I admire you for finishing the booking, I would have said do you want this or not? If not, bye.
As for saving you I would have said: "Find someone else to save, I chose to do this, enjoy having sex with different people and don't care if this doesn't agree with your moral standards."

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