See also the main SAAFE.info site for more Support And Advice For Escorts

Author Topic: What would you do  (Read 3277 times)

Lady_Lust_XXX

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 6,700
  • 'nil carborundum illegitimi'
Re: What would you do
« Reply #15 on: 03 March 2017, 12:50:32 pm »

Unfortunately,  I think this happens quite a lot, we just don't get to find out about it unless it's our friend who's involved.

Agree totally with this. For every NS we get we could be the one they don't cancel on.

At least in this case the guy did cancel allowing the other girl to take another booking, they don't all do that.
Beauty is nothing to do with having a pretty face.
It is about having a pretty mind, a pretty heart,
And most importantly a beautiful soul.

Kay

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 4,535
Re: What would you do
« Reply #16 on: 03 March 2017, 01:25:55 pm »
Like VC, I'd take his booking unless I felt I had a more definite one to replace him. Some SPs do mess punters about, so while it's not great he doesn't sound a complete nightmare, and at least didn't blow your friend out with no warning.
"There is no sin except stupidity" - Oscar Wilde

Hotblondie

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 1,035
  • Google is my friend :)
Re: What would you do
« Reply #17 on: 03 March 2017, 05:42:19 pm »
The chances for him to cancel on me would be too high for my taste.
Plus him cancelling on my friend doesn`t make me fell in the mood seeing such a guy.

I wouldn`t see him and I would block him from future bookings and also tell him why.
semi retired

Green Carnation

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 410
Re: What would you do
« Reply #18 on: 03 March 2017, 06:23:21 pm »
You were a higher priority on his 'to see list', and probably saw you were in the area after he's booked with your friend. I would see him if he turns up. At least he had the courtesy to cancel your friend instead of being a no show.

Luciexx

  • Guest
Re: What would you do
« Reply #19 on: 03 March 2017, 06:29:33 pm »
So, did he turn up, Paris?  Or is the appointment tonight?

ParisB

  • Guest
Re: What would you do
« Reply #20 on: 03 March 2017, 07:13:21 pm »
Lol. 😃 sorry for not replying earlier
Yes he did turn up & was a perfectly nice guy
I didn't lose any other bookings seeing him



Linzi Dawn

  • Guest
Re: What would you do
« Reply #21 on: 03 March 2017, 07:31:34 pm »
I would have seen him.   Some of you ladies say he is messing about but I disagree he cancelled her friend.   I suspect he has booked Paris' friend then more than likely seen Paris' profile and wanted to see her instead.   

I'm glad he turned up Paris 😀😀

VoluptuousCurves

  • Defender of Ratties
  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 5,639
Re: What would you do
« Reply #22 on: 03 March 2017, 07:52:29 pm »
I don't mind guys who cancel as long (as they don't do so repeatedly. I have a guy in one tour location who has booked and cancelled twice. So he was already on my shit list. He texted for a third booking and I replied "Sure. What time would you like to come, and when will you be cancelling?")

No shows are another matter and make me want to bang them on the head with a frying pan.
And me, I am not a mess, I am a wilderness, yes
The undiscovered continent for you to undress

Braziliana

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 794
Re: What would you do
« Reply #23 on: 03 March 2017, 10:31:16 pm »
 "Sure. What time would you like to come, and when will you be cancelling?"

Ya ha ha!

Jessiegirl

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 935
Re: What would you do
« Reply #24 on: 03 March 2017, 10:39:02 pm »
Had this happen to me too. Find it totally disrespectful. A bit like thanks but had a better offer. It's a bin from me.

carachameleon

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 339
Re: What would you do
« Reply #25 on: 04 March 2017, 03:49:22 am »
Good that he showed up. I would have taken the booking but if another more solid offer came about would have reconsidered, knowing he cancelled on my friend.

I think it's a little unwise to be rah rah about the sisterhood and reject him on the basis that he cancelled on a friend. Me, I'm running a business and he's a paying punter. People change their mind and he did give notice to said friend. I think if I booked at Restaurant A and then saw a more appealing option at Restaurant B and cancelled my reservation at A, I would be perplexed if restaurant B said that they wouldn't take my booking as I had cancelled at A owned by their friend.

MissDee

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 565
  • ♡♡A whore that loves to tour♡♡
Re: What would you do
« Reply #26 on: 04 March 2017, 10:30:02 am »
Good that he showed up. I would have taken the booking but if another more solid offer came about would have reconsidered, knowing he cancelled on my friend.

I think it's a little unwise to be rah rah about the sisterhood and reject him on the basis that he cancelled on a friend. Me, I'm running a business and he's a paying punter. People change their mind and he did give notice to said friend. I think if I booked at Restaurant A and then saw a more appealing option at Restaurant B and cancelled my reservation at A, I would be perplexed if restaurant B said that they wouldn't take my booking as I had cancelled at A owned by their friend.

I second this a million times! We are totally unaware of the amount of times we have been cancelled because the client took a bit more of a fancy to some one else or the times when they cancelled some one else to see us. If i was the friend who got cancelled on i would be slightly annoyed but not to the point where i think you should turn him down. So long as they cancel within a decent amount of time.

Being plan B doesnt bother me at all lol i had a guy book last minute the other day and when he turned up he admitted the lady he originally booked with let him down was win win for both of us i filled a half hour slot that was empty and he still managed to get his end away lol
''The prostitute is not, as feminists claim, the victim of men but rather their conqueror, an outlaw who controls the sexual channel between nature and culture''
Camille Paglia

Fabulassie

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 4,141
Re: What would you do
« Reply #27 on: 04 March 2017, 08:02:39 pm »
Did he tell your friend that he got called into work? :D

Gracious

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 574
Re: What would you do
« Reply #28 on: 04 March 2017, 08:06:37 pm »
Guys are inclined to change their minds just like we are but essentially he booked 2 escorts at the same time

Maybe Im a bit old school but thats just bad manners in my eyes. Im fully aware that guys have prolly contacted several escorts before contacting but if hes made a plan with one, he should of cancelled before making plans with another.

Im glad it worked out for you in the end though Paris
Slow money is better then no money

katrina

  • Guest
Re: What would you do
« Reply #29 on: 05 March 2017, 09:05:30 pm »
This has happened to me a few times both ways (to me and a friend) Each time we have discussed it and if either of us minded we wouldn't accept his booking, if either of us didn't  mind then we would/did. After all someone has to take his money, better a friend than someone else  :)