Well, if nothing else, you've got the basis of a film script there. I wonder who else he's been proclaiming undying love to?
As has been said, it looks like you already know what you need to do, but don't beat your self up too much about this. You're not the first woman to be lied to - even just by him - and you will not be the last.
Men are educated into being "providers" and their wealth is very strongly linked to their male identity. or their "value" as a man in society.
While I'll happily agree with your last sentence, I think this one is a bit of an over-generalisation
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I get the impression that he doesn't see what he's doing as wrong. Bits of it maybe, but not the whole stupid picture.
Yep, it's 'man behaving like a toddler' time... and it's not your toddler.