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wildthing01453

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phone call from an angry wife
« on: 22 April 2014, 07:15:32 pm »
I'm fairly new to escorting, I do it out of my house in a fairly quiet small town in Massachusetts and I use my primary cell phone which probably isint a good idea but that what I do. I got a private call today which normally I don't answer but I did anyway. It was an angry wife asking if I was a prostitute seeing her husband. I denied and said I wasn't but she said I was lying and and wasn't sure what she was going to do with my number. What I wanted to know is if she can get me in trouble or even arrested? I'm assuming she must have found an email or a text with conversations of money exchanging and most likely has my address. I would appreciate and information anyone could give me on this matter.

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Re: phone call from an angry wife
« Reply #1 on: 22 April 2014, 08:42:41 pm »
Welcome to the site wildthing.  Like many of the members here I'm in the UK where things are very different.  For a start, prostitution is legal.  I think it's a very bad idea to use your own personal phone on business so I bought a cheap pay as you go one which I top up in cash.  I'm guessing you can do something similar in the USA?  There are members here with plenty of experience working over there so I'm sure you'll get more advice from them about your questions.

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Re: phone call from an angry wife
« Reply #2 on: 23 April 2014, 10:45:05 am »
Same thing happened to me late last year, she was really upset and I did feel sorry for her, not my problem really though,
Still don't know which client it was, if I ever find out he will get a bollocking off me for being careless with my details!

This wife threatened to call the police on me but I'm not doing anything illegal so wasn't too worried, would be more worried about her telling the neighbours but don't think she knew where I was, just my name and number.
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Re: phone call from an angry wife
« Reply #3 on: 23 April 2014, 12:42:36 pm »
You've discovered why using your personal phone is not a good idea. I'd start by getting a disposable one for work. Did you use the number in any of your marketing? What comes up if you do a Google search for it?

Do you say anything in emails and texts that a court could interpret as evidence of prostitution?

If she does go to the police, and they have nothing better to do with their time than check it all out, is it possible to point to having sold something other than sexual services, be it something physical like a second-hand item or a non-sexual service?

What's the chance that this was a regular client vs a one-off?
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