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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: Orchid on 16 April 2013, 08:56:14 am
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Please would some one kindly tell me what exactly is said during these humiliation sessions as I am finding this a struggle with clients who want that kind of chat. I did a arresting cop roleplay for a guy and really had some problems coming up with dialogue after a while .
They want me to say * you dirty little bastard coming round here seeing a hooker etc.* ... But also to help them climax
Ladies pm if you have time. much appreciated :)
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i have yet to do this with a client but my ex enjoyed it. Porn is always a good teacher, and you can get some humiliation scripts online too i found them very helpful :).
Anything degrading without being outrageously personal is great ammo so to speak. Think of it like Dominatrix, you would never hit a client with all that you've got due to scaring or too much pain, same applies to humiliation but physiologically although they do seem to come hand in hand dominatrix & humiliation
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When I client tells me that he's into humiliation, the first thing I ask him is:
what is humiliatiing for you? Because "humiliation" is one of those territories where one man's meat is another man's poison. What one finds humiliating and degrading, another one thinks it's an honour. Also, I divide humiliation in 2 types: physical and verbal. I take notes of what they tell me, and design the session according to this mindset. BDSM play (because this is BDSM), is 80% in the mind, the rest are props, it's all about the psychological play. Get in his mind, and you'll have him in your pocket.
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finding out what his 'key words' are can be useful: 'dirty little faggot' for example, finding a 'riff' that really pushes your clients buttons and that you can return to. Don't worry too much about elements of repetition... for lots of people it really is about a particular image brought sharply into focus with words.
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I like telling them to bite the pillow!! Face down ass in the air and my paddle at the ready what more humiliation do they need ha x
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I like to call them my dirty little bitch slave ( they love this ) I often ask them how naughty have they been have they been wanking their little dick, do they deserve to clean mistress bitches boots, ( i have the shiniest boots ever)
and i wrestle ( i like to challenge them to fight me and try and get me off the bed if they can they may be allowed to f... me - (no hair pulling though)but they never get me off the bed and they are always pretty impressed with my strength ;D ) then i tell them what a pathetic excuse for a man they are getting there ass kicked by a woman
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Many guys are into small penis humiliation too. Telling them that that little scrap of gristle will never, ever satisfy a woman like me drives them crazy. Incidentally, it's also the truth :D
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I succeeded in doing a corrupt cop humiliation arrest handcuffed the guy and told him
i am arresting you on suspicion of public exposure anything you say will be taken down and used against you in a court of law you pay the penalty and i verbally humilated him in my chair
what do you think.you can do to get yourself out of this predicament.
anyway ladies i am taking tips thanks Paris +miss B
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I've been asked for small penis humiliation. If anybody has seen a good guide on the net please let me know. I have agreed to other things with him but not sph until I know more.
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"I would love to humiliate your tiny penis but do you even have one? I can't find your tiny wurm, it must be smaller than a snail. It probably is as slimy and soft like a wet snail as well' ;D
My tip: join fetlife and search on sph groups, there are lots of ideas
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I call them the C word but overall just take all your anger out on him, think of all the things you want to say to someone you seriously dislike without holding back.
But first of all sit down with your client and find out what are his dislikes when it comes to it, i.e spitting on him, slapping him, putting your feet in his mouth all these things you need to consider but in my experience guys tend to like to be treated like total shits and told how pathetic they are etc.
When it comes to the scots i tend to look at their tattoo's if they have catholic religious tattoo's i tend to insult their religion and call them mommies boys, if they are football supporters of either of the big leagues up here I use that. I once made a man cry and threaten to punch me , thank god he was tied up to the door. He booked me a week later again for the same.
Whilst doing this you seduce them and take it away and make them leave without coming or touching you.
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Thanks.
Will look at Fetlife as advised. Be interesting to have a gfe booking straight after :D