I have been on a dating site a few weeks now and a message comes through "oh you would look great in stockings, suspenders ect" to my reply "if you want that go to my escort site......." his answer" sorry I did not mean to offend you, ha it was so funny I was serious, take a look but obviously he did not get it. 

I don't think it's fair to do that on a regular website. It's quite frankly annoying, had it happen with getting random messages then turns out if for some cam website e.t.c If someone  is looking to pay the will look for the commercial part. If someone is annoying you then block them. If you do insist on using it for escorting.... take to skype, msn, watsapp... so you don't get banned.