New client arranged a booking with a few days ago. Says he's never had "full sex" before, only blowjobs (he's 28!)
Keeps texting me nonstop. I think he's nervous/excited, but it's doing my head in.
*Calls me 3 times*
Me: Sorry, did you call me?
(being all vague as I don't know his situation)Him: Yes, it's me the person who talked to you via aw, I was just gonna ask if you do phone chat? As it will make me feel better when I meet you.
"the person who talked to you via aw." Because there's only one of those. Him:
one minute later So do you do phone chat ?x
(Not mentioned anywhere in my list of services etc on AW, the only place I advertise)Me: Sorry, what's your name and username? I don't do phone chat as in X rated, but I'm happy to have professional conversations to arrange bookings and always ask people to call on the day to confirm.
Him: Yeah my username is [username] and yes you told me to call you to confirm the booking on the day.
Me: Ah, [name]! Hi there
Him: Hey lol
Me: I just messaged you on AW
(a message saying he doesn't have to do anything he doesn't want to do, we will take things at his own pace, but equally there is nothing to be afraid of)Him: Yeah, I guess you right
Him: Its the feeling of me wanna try it really bad but at the same time it feels weird lol
Him: Is there a limit to how many times I can cum lol
Him: Sorry, tell me if you not ok with me talking to you at the moment
(all these texts within a minute)Me:
(about 45mins later) No there isn't. Sorry, I was busy.
Him: Its alright no worries x
Him: So how many times can I cum !?
(I just answered this in my last text?!?!)Me: As many times as you like in the time you've booked?
I know it shouldn't be, and it is business related, but it's frustrating. The calling over and over again annoyed me - I could have been in a booking, or with civvie friends. The texts coming through one after another and then adding "let me know if you not ok with me talking to you at the moment" got to me. The asking about services I don't offer annoyed me. And why the fuck would someone say "the person who talked to you via aw"
?? Does he not understand how this works?
Got another one this morning from someone else.
03:04am Him: hey jess it's [username],
how are ya hun x
08:40am Me: What's up? You're already confirmed for Monday?
I don't understand why someone would think it is okay to contact a service provider with a bland text at 3am that isn't even business related??? The mind boggles.