Before I explain my question I have to explain that all of my bookings are initiated by text and/or email. It works great for me. They only call me once they arrive at the street address I give them.

Well, this guy emailed me in March wanting to book me for September. I told him to get back to me in August. He did ask a few questions and I patiently answered. Now the booking is near and he keeps asking if he can ask more question. This guy is getting on my nerves. It's a bloody 2 hour booking! Not a round trip to NYC via Alaska or something. It is outcall and and I have the option of an incall that evening for 1 hour. I am thinking I should do the incall. Less money, but a lot of less hassle.

In March he asked what was included in a GFE and if we would meet in the lobby or hotel room. Just normal questions and I got the sense he was nervous and new to it. He is just demanding in attention.

What would you do? And when do you think enough questions is enough? He could also do some research how these dates usually work...
The greedy me thinks: I have put too much time in this already, might as well go through and make money out of it.

It does sound like he could be a timewaster/fantasist. I would perhaps do in the in-call and save yourself a potential headache!





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Melanie do you feel he's a timewaster getting aroused and so typical early booking and lots of questions to get off on the phone. If im wrong you let me know. Ive had these time and again. Sometimes its good to back them into a corner so to speak.
ask him to email all the questions to you as v busy. Get him to complete booking  if using aw if no response then youll know. Dont tolerate it on the phone.

Text bookings is a tactic many time wasters use he could be genuine. As some clients who I see come across with the time waster traits so call them. With text speak you have no clue how they are said in what tone of voice. Some sain textes can turn out to be time wasters after verbally speaking to them. Or just ones not wanting near.

If they want to book to in advance always say to phone me a week before to make a booking. I pick up on more of the wasting my time verbally.