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Alyssa Dream

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What should I do about this guy? When simply ignoring him is making things worse
« on: 03 April 2016, 02:44:20 am »
Stalking, Harassing not only me but every guy who had written an review on me. He started emailing and PM`g trying to start trouble, to ruin my reputation. I saw this man twice, then he begins to text and call up to 20-30x a day. I explained to him I have a life and children, I can NOT speak to him 24/7. He can make an appointment and I would see him then. Then he begins to tell me, no one has ever made him feel the way I did and he fell in-love. I try in the nicest way possible explain to him, I do NOT feel the same. I am a HOOKER, and the psychological effects of even trying to make a relationship work meeting someone in the hobby, at this point in my life I am NOT ready for. There is no way to make him understand, that he needs to join a dating site or find a girl that is willing to just see him. No, he didn't`t even ask to make an arrangement etc (If anyone is wondering). So, He begins to PM the guys who written reviews on me in the past, making trouble for me immediately. Wanting me all to himself, while he has a wife and children. Threatening emails to damage my reputation etc. I find out I am not the first one this has happened to also, I wish that girl would have blacklisted him. I am still not sure when this is going to end, or how. But this guy is beyond emotionally unstable, stalking and even harassing gentleman I have seen in the past, making up stories claiming I am spreading rumors about them? I have tried to explain why I would not, then I blocked and ignored him. Now he is is reaching out to anyone I he can find that I have seen...  This has gotten Out of control..  ???  :FF
Thanks in advance to anyone, who may have some advice to offer in this situation..
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Re: What should I do about this guy? When simply ignoring him is making things worse
« Reply #1 on: 03 April 2016, 03:10:44 am »
Best advice anyone can give is .... Go to the police and report.
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Alyssa Dream

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Re: What should I do about this guy? When simply ignoring him is making things worse
« Reply #2 on: 03 April 2016, 03:23:49 am »
And out myself in the process, of others because they'd ask for proof . I can't do that. :/ Guess I will tough it out. The police here wouldn't take so kindly to an escort showing up, reporting a hobbyist stalking and harassing her. :/
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Re: What should I do about this guy? When simply ignoring him is making things worse
« Reply #3 on: 03 April 2016, 07:19:27 am »
Hi Alyssa,

See you are in the States so understand you can not just go to the police.  The best thing to do is to continue ignoring this man, he will eventually give up and move on, you should never engage him or try and explain yourself as it will only make matters worse.  Block him on your phone and email if you are advertising on AW you will be able to block him on there too.
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Re: What should I do about this guy? When simply ignoring him is making things worse
« Reply #4 on: 03 April 2016, 09:13:46 am »
I agree ignore him even if it takes a while for him to go away, I went to the police over a guy like this and they rang him and warned him but their main advice was to totally blank him.
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Re: What should I do about this guy? When simply ignoring him is making things worse
« Reply #5 on: 03 April 2016, 10:09:12 am »
I would ignore him completely and hope he gets fed up and gives up. If he doesn't, and you don't want to go to the police, I would message him asking him if he carries on you will expose him to his family and friends and work colleagues without much trouble.

 :-* what a complete bastard he is
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Re: What should I do about this guy? When simply ignoring him is making things worse
« Reply #6 on: 03 April 2016, 12:12:17 pm »
You could always call his bluff and pretend you are taking it to the police and are keeping all evidence.
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Re: What should I do about this guy? When simply ignoring him is making things worse
« Reply #7 on: 03 April 2016, 12:28:24 pm »
Did you made a warning about this man on the warnings section? If not I think you should do it in order for WG's to avoid this psycho.
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Re: What should I do about this guy? When simply ignoring him is making things worse
« Reply #8 on: 03 April 2016, 12:39:48 pm »
Quote from: Ana30 on 03 April 2016, 12:28:24 pm
Did you made a warning about this man on the warnings section? If not I think you should do it in order for WG's to avoid this psycho.
I think he's in America?
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