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desert.rose

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Re: Does not offering fingering affect business?
« Reply #15 on: 27 September 2024, 11:07:22 am »
I don't offer fingering because it's unnecessary, it's not healthy and can hurt me causing me discomfort and days without work. If you leave them at ease, they really think we're plastic dolls. If that means I have fewer customers, I don't care, at the end of the day I'm the one who has to deal with pain or possible infections. In fact, I wouldn't even like to receive oral, but this is something that unfortunately I know is not possible :'(

DarcyLady

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Re: Does not offering fingering affect business?
« Reply #16 on: 28 September 2024, 08:59:24 pm »
I don't offer it either. It makes me bleed.

Anonandon

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Re: Does not offering fingering affect business?
« Reply #17 on: 08 October 2024, 01:50:51 am »
Well ladies update: I had a thorough vaginal exam.. the nurse asked if I had recently been sexually assaulted? 😱 no I told her… just goes to show you the extent of the rough vaginal injuries that medical staff see. The nurse said my vagina looked as though I had been sexually assaulted. Scary 😦 and all because of rough / violent fingering or rough sex
« Last Edit: 08 October 2024, 03:19:05 pm by Anonandon »

Peggy

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Re: Does not offering fingering affect business?
« Reply #18 on: 16 October 2024, 01:22:28 pm »
Never offerred, never will. Most guys have poor hygeine with particular regard to nails etc.

Dynamite Doll

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Re: Does not offering fingering affect business?
« Reply #19 on: 16 October 2024, 02:57:14 pm »
Well ladies update: I had a thorough vaginal exam.. the nurse asked if I had recently been sexually assaulted? 😱 no I told her… just goes to show you the extent of the rough vaginal injuries that medical staff see. The nurse said my vagina looked as though I had been sexually assaulted. Scary 😦 and all because of rough / violent fingering or rough sex

Wow. This is one of many reasons I don't offer it besides I don't enjoy it with strangers. Now in Couple Bookings I am happy for the lady Female to do it to me as we ladies are gentle and not rough. Male clients nope.

barbiegirl

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Re: Does not offering fingering affect business?
« Reply #20 on: 31 October 2024, 01:37:20 am »
No…I stopped offering very quickly after I started working

Plenty of men don’t know how to give oral properly, but it’s not painful if so
But if they don’t know how to use their fingers  :-X
They could be too rough, make you bleed
If they haven’t washed their hands properly then you could get thrush, bv or a UTI.

In my experience it’s not usually a service that makes a client not want to book if you don’t offer it, so not worth it
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