Shit To Be Announced 

Anyhoo i dirgress my main point is what is STBA? and will it affect me at all or is he bullsh*ting me?

Googling STBA just brings up boring unrelated stuff, and even "STBA escort" or "STBA warning" is still nothing of interest. I've definitely never heard of an STBA escort-related site and if there is one, and it's being used by creepy little weirdos to 'warn' each other about girls who are 'fakes' (i.e. sensible women who don't want to meet them or their mad demands), then it's of positive benefit to us all.

I'm sorry you had to come into contact with this guy; the Internet generally is full of nutters and it's important we don't forget that. I doubt he's ever been or ever will be an actual client (fingers crossed, anyway!) for anyone - so I'm guessing pure 100% unadulterated Internet Freakazoid. Always unpleasant to interact with but also always best ignored because he can't do anything except try to frighten you. Sort of like a poltergeist, but less spooky and more tedious.

If it makes you feel any better, I even once had some guy I'd never met make threats to me by text because he took some sort of odd disliking to me (again, we'd never met so I can't possibly have done anything that bad to him!) - it was extremely worrying for a day or so and I shut down operations, as it were, and prepared to go into hiding or to the police should he really be a serious threat but no. He didn't know anything about me and to this day I think he just picked a random escort profile to harass rather than having anything personal against me in particular.

It's yucky behaviour. But we'll definitely keep an eye out for an "STBA" thing if it ever turns out to be real; in the meantime, try not to let this one total loser have a negative affect on your business. He's probably far too scared to ever book an escort for himself and therefore, in a twisted-logic sort of way, wants to scare you out of working so that he can feel like he's someone important! Ignore, block, and ignore some more.

Cheers for your reply's, i didn't think it was anything couldn't find it on google but i just had to be sure now i feel much better

I'm sure the Scottish Tenpin Bowling Association will be riveted by his post.

Seriously, I've no idea.

^^made me giggle

There's a lot of weirdos like this who claim they'll 'name and shame' to try to scare us. Had one threaten to tell people that I was 'racist' because I told him I didn't see clients who didn't speak understandable English (it's interesting he suddenly remembered how to speak the language when he wanted to threaten me into seeing him  ). If it's not one of the well known sites it won't effect business at all even if he does post - and even if it is somewhere major like Punternet, in my experience most men have never used review sites and client discussion boards, I doubt it'd make a noticable dent.

Hi Hollie, welcome.

Where is this STBA site?  I've never heard of it.

A quick glance of this thread will inform you that nobody else knows, either. Have you tried any Googling yourself?

Hi and thank you for your welcome

Yeah I've looked everywhere the only site I can find for complaining about poor service (and that took a lot of finding) was called something else  but you have to be a member on that to even read the forum so I'm guessing its not exactly a popular pre-booking haunt!

Strange little man - I'd text him to ask but he has banned me from texting him - 'You are listed ha never contact me again'.

I even looked inside things like punterlink to see if it was an internal name for something.

I asked one of my clients and he'd no idea and I genuinely believe he would as he is a full field report on every site type of person.

It surely has to be the same person bringing up this imaginary site over and over. 

Anyway isn't a poor service a girl/boy who accepts a booking and doesn't turn up without cancelling.  Someone who has you done over when you arrive.  Someone who texts their boy/girlfriend throughout the session etc etc.  Surely just not poor little me who provides the best service I can - should you manage to be discerning and gentlemanly enough on the phone to get to me in the first place!

His threats however won't stop me being fussy and mildly sarcastic!

Angel Hollie x

I had a client the other day send me an email saying he had reported me to STBA too so that other punters could be made aware of my lack of communication. I had been on holiday (and did have this stated on my bloody profile) so hadnt replied to a couple of his emails (shock horror).

I replied asking him what the hell STBA is.

His reply:  "That's for me to know and for you to find out pet".

errrr ok then!