Anyhoo i dirgress my main point is what is STBA? and will it affect me at all or is he bullsh*ting me?
Googling STBA just brings up boring unrelated stuff, and even "STBA escort" or "STBA warning" is still nothing of interest. I've definitely never heard of an STBA escort-related site and if there is one, and it's being used by creepy little weirdos to 'warn' each other about girls who are 'fakes' (i.e. sensible women who don't want to meet them or their mad demands), then it's of positive benefit to us all.
I'm sorry you had to come into contact with this guy; the Internet generally is full of nutters and it's important we don't forget that. I doubt he's ever been or ever will be an actual client (fingers crossed, anyway!) for anyone - so I'm guessing pure 100% unadulterated Internet Freakazoid. Always unpleasant to interact with but also always best ignored because he can't do anything except try to frighten you. Sort of like a poltergeist, but less spooky and more tedious.
If it makes you feel any better, I even once had some guy I'd never met make threats to me by text because he took some sort of odd disliking to me (again, we'd never met so I can't possibly have done anything that bad to him!) - it was extremely worrying for a day or so and I shut down operations, as it were, and prepared to go into hiding or to the police should he really be a serious threat but no. He didn't know anything about me and to this day I think he just picked a random escort profile to harass rather than having anything personal against me in particular.
It's yucky behaviour. But we'll definitely keep an eye out for an "STBA" thing if it ever turns out to be real; in the meantime, try not to let this one total loser have a negative affect on your business.
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He's probably far too scared to ever book an escort for himself and therefore, in a twisted-logic sort of way, wants to scare you out of working so that he can feel like he's someone important! Ignore, block, and ignore some more.