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UrbaneAspects

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Where do you stand on dating while escorting?
« on: 24 December 2008, 05:49:13 am »
How do some of you feel about dating while doing this job? Im on a dating site and usually end up meeting people looking for sex or are involved with someone. I have been meeting some of the most miserly, complicated men lately. And when you're used to being treated with a higher degree of respect from most clients...it can set you in a sour mood.

Im almost thinking of just getting away from dating, but at the same time feel that if I just cut off my access to the dating websites, I might start getting lonely. Not many venues out there to meet other people. Unless I just stick with meeting men at clubs again, but thats about all thats left...and they usually arent much better either  :(

« Last Edit: 24 December 2008, 06:46:33 am by JoeyR »

Sasha

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Re: Where do you stand on dating while escorting?
« Reply #1 on: 28 December 2008, 07:14:05 pm »
I don't do it. I can't be bothered quite frankly. I know I won't be escorting forever so I guess I'll date when I stop. But at the moment I enjoy being single, I enjoy my job, I enjoy not having to tell someone lies about what I do. There are ladies on this forum who do have partners so I guess they can contribute further, but thats me, and I'm happy  :)

I do totally agree with you about the respect thing though! Many of my clients treat me like a godess so I'm getting used to that lol! Especially since they're usually older than me, they have a more gentlemanly approach, that I don't find in the attractive fellas in bars. Might need to lower my expectations of men in future... ;D

Lilly1230

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Re: Where do you stand on dating while escorting?
« Reply #2 on: 28 December 2008, 08:36:40 pm »
Hi Joey,

I'm in the same position as you, I enjoy dating and would like to find "the one" but I'm definitely not accustomed to putting up with any nonsense from a guy. I do find that sex is off the agenda for me until I'm ready for a commitment with a guy, I feel as though I don't want to just give it away when I earn good money for it! Possibly a little warped in the logic but that's just what comes naturally nowadays.

Best of luck

L x

UrbaneAspects

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Re: Where do you stand on dating while escorting?
« Reply #3 on: 29 December 2008, 04:44:58 am »
Well, the other night I was thinking about it, and decided  I dont care to do serious dating right now. I dont mind to hangout with someone once in awhile, but know nothing serious will come out of it. I like what Im doing and not ready to give it up. There's no point in finding someone potential and then have a dilemma with what I do.









JENNA

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Re: Where do you stand on dating while escorting?
« Reply #4 on: 30 December 2008, 10:35:50 pm »
I did have a boyfriend but I ended it, I want too be the best escort I can and emotional head fucks along the way don't help with that !

lexienight

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Re: Where do you stand on dating while escorting?
« Reply #5 on: 31 December 2008, 12:47:39 am »
I'm with you on that one Jenna.  Also its hard enough telling lies to the people already around me that i dont want knowing what i do.  I'd feel even worse about telling lies to a new boyfriend and i think the men that are willing to accept this profession are few and far between.  Especially in a new relationship where you want to make it all about them and you and get lost in the heat of it all.  I'm sticking with singledom for now (another statement i am sure will come back to haunt me at some time lol).  Once i have reached my goal i might let the guard down but i have a very firm steel gate around me for the moment.

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Re: Where do you stand on dating while escorting?
« Reply #6 on: 31 December 2008, 10:15:06 am »
i have a g/f ant the moment but hasnt got in the way cos havent meet any clients yet dont stay with her ,does it not make that big a problem havin a pertner and doing escorting