Hi All,

I am very new to this, I am a mature lady and am really enjoying the experience so far.

I am starting very slow, with no more than 3 men this week, I have seen two so far, and after last night, I am feeling a bit sore!  I make sure I keep myself very clean and dry down there, but I wonder whether this goes away after time or if not what you do to combat it?

I am seeing someone for two hours tomorrow so hopefully it will have worn off by then.

Thanks a lot, I am loving reading the stories and posts and feeling like I am part of a community.x

It's water based one I got from LoveHoney.

 

If I feel sore I've found using a balance activ at night helps a lot

Don't know how "mature" you are, could it be dryness cos of age?

Could the "soreness" be something like allergy to condoms?

Is "soreness" just generally a lot of banging during the bookings, if so, slow down and take things easier ... Unless of course you are offering PSE service.

Thanks for your advice, I think it is more a friction issue and maybe a bit of muscle ache at the top of my legs!  So I will use more lube tomorrow and I always use a ph natural product to wash with.

I'd recommend trying a silicone based lube (my favourite is Pjur Woman) too; it doesn't dry or go sticky and a little goes a very long way although it can be hard to get off and it stains fabric badly, so don't let punters have the bottle as they'll make a shocking mess.

It might well be that it's just natural soreness if it's more action than you're used to - it sounds like it if your legs are aching too. If that's the reason, you'll get used to it.

As above, don't underestimate how sore latex condoms can make you either if you're not used to having them rubbed briskly against your bits for lengthy periods. It's worth trying a few different kinds .

I find if I haven't has sex for a while it can be sore the next time. I try changing positions, more lube, after about 10-15mins I suggest we take a break. I don't think I've ever had a client who's wanted to go for longer than that though - I advertise as more girlfriendy, kissing, cuddling than porn-stary. I don't really enjoy penetration that much anyway though so always need to use quite a lot of lube unless I'm with a partner I like.

Thanks all for your suggestions.

I put a bit of cream on last night and is much better today.  I agree that it is probably a combination of friction and my body getting used to the action again!

I am offering GFE so will take things slow and easy today and hopefully this will wear off given a bit of time.

Thanks again. x

I use lube, but when especially busy I can still end up getting sore. The only thing I have found to work is taking a day or 2 off rather than trying to work through it and making it worse.