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Fabulassie

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Guys who contact to ask if you'll ever visit their town?
« on: 23 September 2015, 05:34:19 pm »
When I tour, I am often contacted by guys some distance away asking if I have any plans to visit where they are. Been asked a few times this week about Cornwall because I was in Bath and when I was in Glasgow lots of guys in Edinburgh and Aberdeen asked if I'd consider touring there.

Sometimes I just know that I'm very unlikely to ever go there. But sometimes it's a place I've never thought of but I would consider. What I sometimes do is ask them if they knew of any hotels popular with touring girls in their area. That gives me a starting point for research if I ever do think about visiting.

But I was wondering why these guys bother? Do they think we'll come tour just because they ask? (Personally, I wouldn't expect them to actually book me if I did try their area.) Does anybody pay them any mind at all?

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Re: Guys who contact to ask if you'll ever visit their town?
« Reply #1 on: 23 September 2015, 05:35:42 pm »
Nope.
It's like fan mail I think Fabs.
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Re: Guys who contact to ask if you'll ever visit their town?
« Reply #2 on: 23 September 2015, 06:01:13 pm »
Nope.
It's like fan mail I think Fabs.

Some will be genuine, however book a tour on specific dates and no doubt it'll not be convenient for them. Also bear in mind how many client bookings get cancelled, don't turn up etc.

Really you need to decide where you want to go based on what you know about an area, hotels, transport.

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Re: Guys who contact to ask if you'll ever visit their town?
« Reply #3 on: 23 September 2015, 08:33:57 pm »
I used to get this all the time; if you do get to their area they either book and then cancel at the last minute or you hear nothing from them at all until a day or two after you leave and they email asking when you're coming back because they 'missed' you.

As Mirror says, you need to pick according to what you know and what suits you. It's not as if there's anywhere with no punters :).

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Re: Guys who contact to ask if you'll ever visit their town?
« Reply #4 on: 24 September 2015, 11:12:46 am »
I get this all the time as well.

Nope.
It's like fan mail I think Fabs.

But as Mirror and Amy say, which i am agreement with, is I don't take any notice of it.
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Re: Guys who contact to ask if you'll ever visit their town?
« Reply #5 on: 24 September 2015, 03:00:12 pm »
I used to get this all the time; if you do get to their area they either book and then cancel at the last minute or you hear nothing from them at all until a day or two after you leave and they email asking when you're coming back because they 'missed' you.

As Mirror says, you need to pick according to what you know and what suits you. It's not as if there's anywhere with no punters :).

That's good advice.  I've often thought about booking on the basis of a few guys asking for me....but you are right, even in my hometown so many bookings are no shows or cancellations it's not worth it based on what they say.

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Re: Guys who contact to ask if you'll ever visit their town?
« Reply #6 on: 24 September 2015, 03:11:08 pm »
I say sure, if you pay x amount up front to cover my travel costs and book me for an overnight, I'll go there just to see you. Otherwise I just ask if I can save their number and let them know if I'm going there on tour. It's very rare for clients to agree to an overnight if they've never seen me in person before but does happen sometimes and collecting numbers before a tour then txting them all when I know my tour dates can make a big difference.

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Re: Guys who contact to ask if you'll ever visit their town?
« Reply #7 on: 24 September 2015, 04:05:02 pm »
I work in Manchester and some of my clients have said I should move to London or visit there...but I am quite happy in the NW - when I get more confidence I venture 'down south.'

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Re: Guys who contact to ask if you'll ever visit their town?
« Reply #8 on: 24 September 2015, 04:51:26 pm »
I occasionally get emails from really far away from where I am based asking if I will be touring there. I only ever tour in London and only around 3/4 times a year if that. I'm not really much of a touring escort. So I find these emails quite odd... do they just search the country for girls they like the look of?

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Re: Guys who contact to ask if you'll ever visit their town?
« Reply #9 on: 24 September 2015, 07:07:33 pm »
Oh, I know they won't actually book. But sometimes they are able to give information on hotels they've seen other touring girls in. (and sometimes they just tell you about the hotel they'd prefer to visit with no thought to suitability.


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Re: Guys who contact to ask if you'll ever visit their town?
« Reply #10 on: 24 September 2015, 11:04:49 pm »
I get this alot and I'm not really a touring girl.I've toured London 3 times and Scotland 4 times and Liverpool once in my 5 years as an escort yet I get asked if I will come to Ireland,Isle of White,Manchester.I either just ignore or tell them if they want to see me so badly they are welcome to come to Leeds.They just strike me as timewasters same as the ones who mail you to tell you they like your pics.They usually just want to play email ping pong.

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Re: Guys who contact to ask if you'll ever visit their town?
« Reply #11 on: 25 September 2015, 12:46:28 am »
Do NOT rely on hotel information from GUYS lol. Many of them do not have a clue as to what is suitable for working from.

Also, worked in Newcastle a few years ago. Went back the other day because two guys had seen before nagged me to.


They made appointments for my return visit and cancelled on the day. 👿
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