There was this discussion on BDSM escorting over another thread.  It was mentioned that there are quite a few escorts on this forum who work under BDSM.   Is BDSM escorting similar to what dominatrix / professional submissive would do?  What do you enjoy about non-vanilla escorting or extreme escorting if you already work in this arena?   I see that there are BDSM / Domination on enjoy list over AW.   Does anybody offer this? If so, what minimum you would be expected to do? 

Thanks in advance! 

I absolutely hate GFE vanilla sessions, So intimate - Too much fucking, kissing and touching, makes me sick

In my BDSM session, it can be yes both dominance and submission and switch

Although it stands for Bondage, Discipline, Sadism and Masochism
It can be an erotic practice and roleplaying

There can be a lot of fetish involved, like body worship, foot fetish, material (leather, latex, pvc) and more


The submissive side:

There has to be consensual from both sides, nobody can just do as they please with you because you are a "sub"

All my clients worry about me not enjoying myself that they might hurt me, they ask very often when they do not know my limits

To receive or give pain.
To me it does not feel like pain, after years of "consensual torture" my pain threshold is so high I have to pretend it does hurt

The sessions don't often, at least not for me "involve a lot of kissing or fucking, it's more about me being obedient but normally end in short sex, bj or hand relief as they are so excited after playing, but sometimes they leave without even ever taking their clothes off

It can be from just roleplaying,gentle hand spanking (most are)
and to breast, body, pussy torture using clamps and implements, using implements on bottom and even other body parts. Bondage, cuffs and lots more.

If you are a newbie in spanking and BDSM, telling them about it will make them more gentle with the spanking and many enjoy training a new spanking girl or a submissive.

Domination side

I do not allow any sex in these bookings as it does not feel right to me (unless you count strap-on sex) or (allowing them to relief themselves)
I agree with Nia Hope, you cannot become domme overnight it takes allot of hard work and needs training as it's not just screaming at someone being a total bitch inflicting pain, most guys I have meet don't even enjoy pain that much
I also get less bookings as a domme without sex, not sure about the girls that do sex how many bookings they get

I found it easier going from being a sub into a dom as then you have been in their shoes

I hope some of this makes sense

but would like to make clear that if you are a newbie then always take caution when starting in BDSM  or just spanking bookings, make sure to speak to them over the phone of what they are looking for and if you get a bad vibe always listen too it x

i have luckily never had a bad client with BDSM but had many bad clients in the past when I did GFE.

Wow, great posts ! !  So inspiring, ladies.   It would take a while for me to digest, properly...

Thank you for sharing.