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Alana

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What do you make of this
« on: 18 June 2009, 08:37:14 pm »

 Hi, Im new to this site and Im new to trying to be an Inde I have just started to advirtise and I had a missed call today so I called the number back, thinking to myself I must of had a caller Interested in making a booking but instead this guy said to me that he was looking for someone to work with as an escort. As he is looking to make some extra and if I ever needed him if ever  as an extra on a booking could help out  I could tell by his voice he is asian , not that it matters if he is or not. he asked me if I ever thought of doing anything like this before and I told him well no. But maybe it be worth thinking about.
so he asked if we could meet up to discuss it further on how we could go ahead and work together. I told him it ok to meet up I told him we could meet up on a high street outside a cafe. he says he has a day job too so he can only meet up at certin times but he could get off early tommorow and meet up

Im not sure what to make of this and if anyone could give me some advice I be very grateful also im not sure if this is the right place to post this.  :)


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Re: What do you make of this
« Reply #1 on: 18 June 2009, 08:48:46 pm »
Don?t go, don?t entertain him. IMO when any lady is relatively new to this, they tend to get the (latches on) so to speak, guys wanting to be an escort, guys wanting to get away with things that other ladies have already wised up to. Guys like this one are just trying it on, basically to get a cheap thrill or freebie, or to push your limits and boundaries as your only just establishing them yourself. (finding your own feet)

I know my opinions are strong and they are only my opinions but I wouldn?t entertain anyone like this what so ever! If you want to ever work with a guy offering couples etc please find someone you trust and already know (preferably who is already established). And as for any cliental you may see soon I would make out that you have been doing this for a longer period of time (that way, they think you know all the ropes and wont try to take advantage in one way or other because your new).

Good luck babe, stay safe. ;D

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Re: What do you make of this
« Reply #2 on: 18 June 2009, 09:26:37 pm »
I would also put money on the fact he would suggest you trying a session to see how you get on, translated, "i am hoping you will give me a freebie"

As Jessica has said you will get a fair bit of this when first starting out, also people willing to take your photo`s, build you a site, drive for you, act as security, you name it, anything where they hope you may trade services.

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Re: What do you make of this
« Reply #3 on: 18 June 2009, 09:37:16 pm »
Yes sounds like a freebie hunter playing on your newness. Avoid.

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Re: What do you make of this
« Reply #4 on: 18 June 2009, 09:59:29 pm »
Don't go Alana. 

I echo what the others have said here.  He is a chancer for sure.  Either after a freebie or will get off on meeting an escort for nowt - even if it is only coffee, etc - he will get off on that. 

You will get a lot of this - guys saying they are male escorts (apologies here to the genuine ones that are - and post here - you know who you are!) and they profess they can make you more money or you can work together bla bla bla but in theory there is not a great demand for it, so instead pursue things alone now and don't trust anyone that comes along with these sort of offers. 

After a while in this business you will learn that there are many guys who prey on the fact that you are new to the industry and they will try to capitalise on this.  Just be on your guard and if in doubt, you can always post here for advice. 

Of course, I am not saying that there are not genuine people out there as indeed there are, but with someone like this - I would fire off questions like, oh yeah so where do you advertise?  Where do you get these bookings from ? etc etc - they usually come unstuck!

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Alana

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Re: What do you make of this
« Reply #5 on: 18 June 2009, 10:27:10 pm »
Hi again and thankyou for replying back  :) and giving your advice.  I didnt let on to him that I was new to this,  and in my ad I dont say im new to this too. I have been escorting for a few years now but with agencys which had an office where we could sit and wait so I have never really worked on my own , so now im trying to be inde. So I have a bit to learn  :-[ and Im glad I found this site so I dont completely feel alone and as I am an inexperinced inde this will help out a great deal.
 and once again thankyou for your advice and thanks for this site.  :D

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Re: What do you make of this
« Reply #6 on: 19 June 2009, 07:13:49 am »
Hi again and thankyou for replying back  :) and giving your advice.  I didnt let on to him that I was new to this,  and in my ad I dont say im new to this too.

Men like this assume any new profile is a new girl so it does not matter if you say so or not. Most girls who have changed their name will tell you that the same old timewasting idiots start calling again when their new profile goes up coz they think a girl is new. That is why it is important to store the number in your phone under the name "idiot wan+er 104" or similar so you dont bother to pick up next time they try it on.  :)


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Re: What do you make of this
« Reply #7 on: 19 June 2009, 07:25:40 am »
By the way, not a good idea to return missed calls - unless specifically instructed to.

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Re: What do you make of this
« Reply #8 on: 19 June 2009, 08:18:39 am »
Ignore, ignore, ignore.
Store his number so you know when he calls you again.
I am actually running out of names to call these fools - tool - twit - tosser.

I liken this sort of guy to the people that come around your house or phone your house trying to get you to buy something - you don't need.
You don't need him Alana. You just wait and things pick up for you. They are very good at making out this is for mutual benefit, it's not, it's for him only.

I would second the don't call a number back as well. If somebody wants to book you and you miss a call, they will call back if they are keen enough, either the same day or a couple of weeks away, they will call back ;)
Good luck and welcome along by the way.
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Re: What do you make of this
« Reply #9 on: 19 June 2009, 09:20:40 am »
Hi and welcome, Not only do as Joanna says and ignore, but AVOID AND RUN!!! I had a male escort, and established one at that-no less, contact me to offer up his services as a duo. Ok I checked him out and he was an escort in the area, but I was getting this weird feeling about him. I ignored it and, when he had a booking I offered him the use of my apartment, no problems there. I was leaving in two days to move on to another city, and he offered to drive me there, as it was about an hour away. Nice, but I was going to take the bus anyway. Well, to make a long story short, I get this phone call the morning before I was getting ready to leave, his brother has apparently taken his care without permission and crashed it, and so he was now stuck and the police were involved and he doesn't want to get his brother in trouble, and on and on it went. But during all this I was thinking when is the money question going to be asked? Heartless I know. Well it didn't happen that night, it came the next morning, again in another long convoluted and contorted explanation of something to do with his credit union and needing to show deposits of a certain amount, in order to obtain a loan to buy another car. And could I help him out?
Well, guess what, I offered my sympathy for his problem and said, I am sorry but that just isn't possible, I too need money as it was a terrible few days and I was going to ask him the same question. Never heard from him again.
I know this isn't the way most genuine male escorts operate, but just be careful, they will come at you from so many angles, it will make your head spin. If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is. Sorry for the doom and gloom, but there are some serious chancers out there.

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Re: What do you make of this
« Reply #10 on: 19 June 2009, 12:23:05 pm »


 yes your right I now know what to do and I have put him under prat.
 thanks you guys. :)

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Re: What do you make of this
« Reply #11 on: 19 June 2009, 05:46:08 pm »
Mmm, yes - some people will do anything to be sexual with someone new... except pay them.
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Re: What do you make of this
« Reply #12 on: 19 June 2009, 10:36:30 pm »
He sounds like a bloke who saw your ad and though "I want to book her but I can't afford it. I KNOW! I'll tell her I want to be her male escort partner and then she'll shag me for free!".

Good one for saving him as prat in your phone. He is one. xxx

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Re: What do you make of this
« Reply #13 on: 27 June 2009, 02:17:04 pm »
Haha, what gets me is that there are so many of them and they all think they are original and are going to get somewhere with it. Sad really.  ::)
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