Quote from: Shewolf on 31 August 2015, 09:17:59 pm

Quote from: Leahlixx on 31 August 2015, 07:15:36 pm

Hi ladies,

Drs said due to the severity of my outbreak it was the first time I'd been introduced to the virus there is no question of this, but yes you are correct it could have equally been from someone's skin touching my VJ. It was my first day back at work in 2weeks so I can almost pinpoint the occasion

NO the person didn't have visible signs, and the idea that it can only be passed if the person has sores is incorrect as AMY mentions.

Will I continue to escort? Sadly financially there is no question of choice. The Drs said I should be ok to continue as long as I stay on anti viral (which will prevent another outbreak and prevent viral shreading) because the anti viral is making me So Ill im in between a rock and hard place at the moment. I have an appointment with the GUM Drs tomorrow, I'm hoping they have a different anti viral for me to try.
One thing is for sure if I return it won't be for at LEAST a week 

Xx

Hi Leah,

Sorry to sound so graphic but I know for a fact that a further outbreak is unlikely to happen if you are careful in terms of friction. What I mean is, make sure you and your clients are lubricated etc and go easy. This will ensure you don't spark it all off again.

I know how horrible it is but if you are careful you will get it either very rarely (and never as bad as it was) or never again. This isn't a condition that should stop your sex life. It just needs managing and for you to stop sex once you feel you are potentially triggering it again.
x

Yep. I was actually talking to a friend the other day about how pharmaceutical companies created this huge stigma around herpes, so that people consider it almost as bad as HIV. It's bullshit really, just means you have to be careful with how you have sex now you have it.

I have it and, apart from twice years ago when, yes it is like razors down below, it hasn't affected me at all. It's very like thrush, if you have too much sex (friction) you trigger it off...if you make sure you are not dry, you won't trigger it off. It's not a stigma or really any deal at all. I do, however, understand the discomfort of an initial flare up and Leah obviously had a terrible bout of it xx

God this is getting scarier by the day..    Catching herpes from RO, chlamidya and gonnorhea from OWO..
I would much rather only offer OW and not allow RO, but there's not gonna be much left and I'm really worried how it would affect my business..
I know I wouldn't give a s**t about that if it happened to me, it sounds like both of you went through hell, and it could happen to anyone!
I wish clients would be more aware too, and not be so keen on wanting these services, for their OWN health as well as ours...!

You are so right I'm dreading telling clients I no longer do reverse oral. Im tempted to get my phone out and show what it did! I also wish they watched less porn and took more time looking into what can be caught. I am the first to admit I've been naive

These might be handy for those that are worried but don't really want to give up any services http://www.  lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30469

So sorry to hear your still suffering Leah.
I so feel for you. Didn't realise it was still so painful.

Can you try massage and relief?
No sex or mutual touching required.

Hi ladies,

Drs said due to the severity of my outbreak it was the first time I'd been introduced to the virus there is no question of this, but yes you are correct it could have equally been from someone's skin touching my VJ. It was my first day back at work in 2weeks so I can almost pinpoint the occasion

NO the person didn't have visible signs, and the idea that it can only be passed if the person has sores is incorrect as AMY mentions.

Will I continue to escort? Sadly financially there is no question of choice. The Drs said I should be ok to continue as long as I stay on anti viral (which will prevent another outbreak and prevent viral shreading) because the anti viral is making me So Ill im in between a rock and hard place at the moment. I have an appointment with the GUM Drs tomorrow, I'm hoping they have a different anti viral for me to try.
One thing is for sure if I return it won't be for at LEAST a week 

Xx

Prob off topic
But my dog got the canine version herpes last year  90 percent of dogs have it by the time they are six months old
She was due to have a litter of puppies and she somehow contracted the canine version of herpes in her last three weeks.

We had given Her the herpes injection to prevent it as your supposed to if breeding. And it give them the antibodies to prevent / fight it. However because she caught it in her last 3 weeks and it was her first time she had no immune system built up to fight it off

If she had caught it when she was a pup it would have been fine but she was one of the 10 percent that never got it

We lost  a litter of 14 puppies due to it it was horrific every single little puppy died witgin 3 days of being born ive never cried so much in my life it was horrendous

There was also a baby who died age 6 weeks when his dad kissed him when he had a cold sore

So yeah it's a very serious virus and the first time is generally the worse but as your bodies build up antibodies to it the attack become less frequent and harsh

Ly- sine tablet is great for herpes  it well known that whatever is in them build up your resistance to them

I've never had a cold sore or herpes ( touch wood) but I take them every other day and if I feel a bit run down / tired then every day

You can buy them from Holland and barret for ?8 but the bigger one

If you google ly-sine tablet & herpes you will read about it 
There is also a cream that you can buy for a few pounds as well It will help with further attacks