Ok so a few of the guys who phone me for the next stage of booking are asking me what kind of things I like. This is stumping me as surely it's about what they like and if I provide that. I have a problem telling close partners what I like, I am a bit shy when it comes to intimate details. So am finding what to say in answer a bit of a problem. What do you say to this question?

I just say oh the usually things. Especially over the phone, I'm not going to go into too much details as they may just be asking you so they have a wank!

Ok so a few of the guys who phone me for the next stage of booking are asking me what kind of things I like. This is stumping me as surely it's about what they like and if I provide that. I have a problem telling close partners what I like, I am a bit shy when it comes to intimate details. So am finding what to say in answer a bit of a problem. What do you say to this question?

I was assuming Carmel meant when they ask during bookings, not on the phone? For what it's worth Carmel, I've been working nearly twelve years on and off and I still have no idea what I'm supposed to say when I'm asked that - it's the absolute kiss of death. I don't do sexee laydee talk at all, and I've tried everything from making it jokey 'football, knitting and Thai food' to referring to my services list a bit like Cora says above. Mostly I mumble something about kissing and shagging - if anything I try to get on with the snogging as much as possible so they can't go on about it, and if they keep it up I pretend I didn't hear them. In all twelve of those years, I don't think I have ever been asked it on a booking where the sex is any good.

I don't advise anybody be quite as honest (I dropped myself in it again the other morning explaining to one mystified bloke that I wasn't going to be 'horny' at 7am because I was hungry, tired and it's not part of my job to be anyway) but on another thread somebody posted about saying that getting their client off is what they liked best, so whilst it's a cop out it sounds like one that could work, and I'll be trying it .

Ok so a few of the guys who phone me for the next stage of booking are asking me what kind of things I like.

ROFL, amy, I think this bit was the giveaway.

Up to now I have answered with ' the usual stuff and have you read my like list'. Then ask what their requirements are and tell them what I won't do. I did say one time, normal stuff, and thought that might be a bit unfair to any one who wanted unusual things. After all what's normal.

If they persist with the 'Like' part though, be polite and end the call because they're never going to book .

Yup. I can't list how many times I've had timewasters try and trick me into talking dirty over the phone using that method 

And yeah, I hate this question too xD I usually stumble over my words and say something along the lines of, "I like giving pleasure,". It is a cop-out, but it seems to satisfy most of my clients

If they ask on the phone I say I like everything that's on my profile otherwise it could turn into a free phone wank, x

Quote from: rosaley on 08 July 2014, 06:48:07 pm

they ask because they need to know things like how hard they can spank me and what are they allowed to spank me with.

i would be worried if they didn't ask because of what i do.

That's them asking what you do (and don't do), not what you like. I do sub bookings too, and confirming stuff like this is all part of arranging to booking but it's not the same thing.

I've had a reasonable sounding question such as 'your ad says you offer anal, is that right?' and answered in the affirmative only to get 'Do you like it?'

Click.

Yes as soon as I hear "do you like it?" I think here we go!