Hello,

So today started off fine, saw a client in the morning, all went well. Then came the next one. It was a living nightmare. Ive seen him before (he said his name was shawn the first time) & this time said his name was james. I let that slide, idc if they give me a fake name tbh. Last time he was nice to me, perfect client this time it was different. Mid way through he tried to force bb and i stopped it then and there as he wasnt accept no as an answer. As he was leaving he said he needed the bathroom, and i just wanted him out asap so i let him so he would leave. He was in there for a good 20 mins at which point i was temtping to call a friend to come and help me get him to leave, then he strolls out and hands me my work laptop?!!!? And says "good luck". I have no idea how he even got it in there but I do have an idea of what he did on it though.

My aw account has been shut down by a mod (i told them what happened i am waiting to see if they give me my account back or not) as he sent emails to clients who have msgd me telling them i will skype fuck them if they pay me via Paypal.

Even if i do get my account back, i have probs lost the clients i get from there due to this

He also out a few ads out for me as I have been recieving calls all day asking 'is this anal alessa? ?30 an hr?' I dont offer anal nor am i ?30 an hour wtf???

So my question is ... What would you girls do in my position? I feel so drained today because of all of this. Im actually glad my family are visiting me for the weekend as it will give me time to think and try and work out what to do. I just dont know ...

Edit ... From now on im not saving another PW for it being easier imma type all those out and change everything as i have learned that lesson now the hard way

Thats the thing, i have no flipping idea how he got it in there as last i checked it was in the living room which is opposite the bathroom but i dont remeber seeing him go in there one bit?

I would have kicked his sorry arse out and let him piss himself BUT that doesn't help you.

I hope AW are understanding but it's a lesson for us to never leave anything around they can use against us. It's disgusting that he behaved the way he did, especially as the first booking went well.

It's so difficult to know what the right thing to do is in these circumstances as we are so vulnerable.

I really hope you get it sorted and post warnings everywhere about this loser.

What a nasty horrible man, at least you now have a weekend off with your family so you can take your mind off this.  If this happened to me I would do the following.

Google your mobile number, this will bring up all the dodgy adverts and then contact the sites they are on to have them taken down ASAP.
If Adultwork close your account, I am sure you can open a new one up, if you rely on that site for most of your work, put ad's up on other sites so you don't have all your eggs in one basket.

So a few clients got a dodgy email, it will make up a tiny percentage of those who see you, and I am sure a lot of them will see that something is not right.  You can always email them once your profile is back up with a short apology explaining your account got hacked.

I'm sorry this happened to you Hun god what a Assshole . In future if you feel uncomfortable ask them to go ASAP just get them out . Christ knows how he got hold of your lap top that's really creepy . I hope it all gets sorted and enjoy your time with your fam xx

I'm so sorry this happened to you! I'm wondering how the police might deal with this if you wished to involve them? Technically this is a form of harassment and assault, and even if it doesn't go to a conviction they could still find the guy and put a mark on his record. Also he may have done it to other WG's.

How would the police find this guy? Or any cock that we report for that matter as they dont provide real names etc.

Its sickening that this guy has done this to you. Thanks for sharing it with us, its certainly made me more aware of where my valuables are and can they get to them.

I hope you do get the police involved xxx

The police can at least get a description and sometimes these plums are actually using their everyday phones to book so sometimes numbers can be traced.

How did he get hold of your AW password? That is NEVER stored on the site and you get logged out after 20 mins.