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duskymaiden

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Re: What did you except in the early days compared to now?.......
« Reply #15 on: 07 September 2012, 01:07:32 pm »
Oh my if I had only known about this fantastic site when I first started out then I would have

a) Charged for travelling expenses
b) Not put up with overnight clients who pawed me to death and who's breath smelt of poo
c) Performed OWO on clients with nasty hairyballs( I mean they expect US to be shaven etc)
d) Not tolerated clients that jumped on you as soon as you entered the room on a 2 hour private time visit with virtually no smalltalk making me feel like a piece of meat
e) Extremely gross, overweight/foul smelling/boundary pushing types/
f) Clients with facial hair, moustaches, bad breath
g) Not stopped charging a couple of clients and gone on dates with them in the hope that they would be my 'boyfriend' one of whom the sex was unbearable as he took ages(over an hour) to come and I'm sure he had a nice good long wank before we met the selfish pig) when i look back now I sooo cringe...what on earth was I doing?

And basically pretty much the same as you ladies have previously mentioned.....


Stay safe and keep to your boundaries girls...


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orchidperfume

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Re: What did you except in the early days compared to now?.......
« Reply #16 on: 11 September 2012, 07:25:37 pm »
Well along the same lines with many ladies i certainly learnt plenty from saafe members
wish id known then what i know now!

Green Carnation

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Re: What did you except in the early days compared to now?.......
« Reply #17 on: 13 September 2012, 06:48:55 pm »
-I used to work for an agency, being paid ?50 for an hour of full service (kissing, sex, owo)
- let the agency control my life: working silly hours, phoning me when I was with my family, stalking me etc.
- took bookings from guys who had hidden their feedback
- did extreme domination meetings (i was the sub)
- took drugs with clients
- fell in love with clients a few times
- only did outcalls, loosing a lot of time
- let clients know my real name, and other personal details
- let a clinet take my naked photos, then he put them on the internet without me knowing
- had only one phone- for work and personal life
- sent my face pic to client just to get a booking
- did 3 somes with girls whom I had never met before- and it was always a pain
- overnights with really awful men, for as little as ?200 (the other half went to the agency)

Really stupid.... I have done most of these things because I didn't have much experience, but some because I was desperate for the money ( being dominated, seeing guys whit hidden
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i am sooo different now.
I don't see new guys after 8pm, unless they stay at a central, well known hotel
I am reluctant to visit new guys anyway, I prefer them to come and see me at my incall place
I don't see new guys for an incall after 8 pm, I am constantly worried that someone is going to rob or hurt me, so I am very careful and choosy on the phone
I make up my name, and personal life details
I don't do 'maybe we can grab a dinner some time' - i aways say I am very busy and sorry but no



curvygrace

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Re: What did you except in the early days compared to now?.......
« Reply #18 on: 18 September 2012, 06:24:50 pm »
-I used to work for an agency, being paid ?50 for an hour of full service (kissing, sex, owo)
- let the agency control my life: working silly hours, phoning me when I was with my family, stalking me etc.
- took bookings from guys who had hidden their feedback
- did extreme domination meetings (i was the sub)
- took drugs with clients
- fell in love with clients a few times
- only did outcalls, loosing a lot of time
- let clients know my real name, and other personal details
- let a clinet take my naked photos, then he put them on the internet without me knowing
- had only one phone- for work and personal life
- sent my face pic to client just to get a booking

- did 3 somes with girls whom I had never met before- and it was always a pain
- overnights with really awful men, for as little as ?200 (the other half went to the agency)


yup!

BevOsteen

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Re: What did you except in the early days compared to now?.......
« Reply #19 on: 18 September 2012, 06:32:59 pm »
-I used to work for an agency, being paid ?50 for an hour of full service (kissing, sex, owo)
- let the agency control my life: working silly hours, phoning me when I was with my family, stalking me etc.
- took bookings from guys who had hidden their feedback
- did extreme domination meetings (i was the sub)
- took drugs with clients
- fell in love with clients a few times
- only did outcalls, loosing a lot of time
- let clients know my real name, and other personal details
- let a clinet take my naked photos, then he put them on the internet without me knowing
- had only one phone- for work and personal life
- sent my face pic to client just to get a booking

- did 3 somes with girls whom I had never met before- and it was always a pain
- overnights with really awful men, for as little as ?200 (the other half went to the agency)


yup!

Bad experience, you must be a very strong woman hon.

VioletteUK

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Re: What did you except in the early days compared to now?.......
« Reply #20 on: 19 September 2012, 06:53:57 am »
Never patient type to begin with, and being a bit older when I started, I kind of had firm rules in place from day one. But what I have found is as I have gotten older, I have actually relaxed a bit more. Also, since I have stopped working in Ireland, I am actually a civil person on the phone, so much so my touring partner remarked on it. I used to be quite a bitch to clients on the phone, and they still visited!

I will answer texts now, within reason.
I will even answer withholds, and have gotten bookings from them.
There you go a kinder gentler Violette.
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Caledonia

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Re: What did you except in the early days compared to now?.......
« Reply #21 on: 19 September 2012, 11:31:39 am »
I did car meets, sent pics, took less than my going rate and foolishly offered BB if clients asked as thought that was only way they would book, thankfully realised how stupid that was and stopped after four clients and got myself tested, thankfully everything was fine. I still dont kiss but thats for personal reasons.
 

BevOsteen

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Re: What did you except in the early days compared to now?.......
« Reply #22 on: 19 September 2012, 02:26:16 pm »
I did car meets, sent pics, took less than my going rate and foolishly offered BB if clients asked as thought that was only way they would book, thankfully realised how stupid that was and stopped after four clients and got myself tested, thankfully everything was fine. I still dont kiss but thats for personal reasons.
 
we all started off differently but glad you reviewed your services and still happy and content. :)

mitzi

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Re: What did you except in the early days compared to now?.......
« Reply #23 on: 26 September 2012, 01:04:28 am »
wow love this thread.... you girls have already stopped me thinking how many outfits n toys should one take LOL

Not started yet, but I'm sure I will be making many of the 'mistakes' listed in this thread  ::) lol