Author Topic: What are your client screening procedures? (Read 26526 times)

Cat_BBW · « **Reply #45 on:** 01 February 2013, 05:38:35 pm »

Quote from: Nameless on 01 February 2013, 05:37:41 pm

Quote from: Cat_BBW on 01 February 2013, 05:33:11 pm
Quote from: aya on 31 January 2013, 10:07:43 pm

if i start doing this i may do it a couple of times but the screening thing sounds like a headache to me (http://www.ajarnforum.net/vb/images/smilies/smiley-face-whistle-2kunp.gif)

If you meet guys without screening them, you leave yourself open to timewasters, attack, abuse, robbery, rape, or worse. You will have no idea if they will be the model client or the local psycho.

Only a minority of clients are violent/sexual predetors but I for one would not take the risk. I'd rather have a headache than the possibility of ending up dead in a ditch because I couldn't be bothered to do some basic safety/security checks.

Indeed.

TeenKylie · « **Reply #46 on:** 01 February 2013, 06:29:04 pm »

Quote from: Daisy_ on 01 February 2013, 05:51:18 pm

Quote from: MissKylie on 01 February 2013, 05:38:13 pm
....there's just no way I would take a booking without speaking to the client, And I can't believe some girls do, I really do think it is much more risky.

Well good job no one is asking you to Kylie.

People have different screening methods that work for them; maybe branching out from the AW feedback system (which I hold very little faith in) will help you develop your own unique and successful methods to screen clients.

Thanks, yes I hope so too!

Hotblondie · « **Reply #47 on:** 01 February 2013, 11:09:03 pm »

I dont see the difference between a text message and a call
For me is the same, i can still tell what that guy is capable and even if I talk to him over the phone, he can still be a time waster or dangerous
Plus, I can turn down anyone after I see him downstairs, which I did few times

ParisB · « **Reply #48 on:** 02 February 2013, 08:42:03 am »

i have simple rule that has worked very well for all the time i have worked years

if someone texts me that fine but i do require them to call me at some point before they arrive - if they fuck about, make excuse then I'm not interested i wont just take a booking by text because knowing men as i do they most likely have looked at my tits and ass and not bothered to read a single word about what services that i offers So i think that just by taking booking by text your more likely to get more hagglers and time wasters who want xxx service that you might not offer So speaking to them and letting them know exactly what i do and don't do is imperative for me to work safely

if they cant follow my very simple rules that i send in a very easy to read fool proof text then i don't see them

if they cant follow my rules ( which are really only common sense for both me and them ) then i don't see them because if they don't listen to me before we meet then they will be 10 times worse when we do meet

strawberry · « **Reply #49 on:** 02 February 2013, 11:14:46 am »

Quote from: ParisB on 02 February 2013, 08:42:03 am

i have simple rule that has worked very well for all the time i have worked years

if someone texts me that fine but i do require them to call me at some point before they arrive - if they fuck about, make excuse then I'm not interested i wont just take a booking by text because knowing men as i do they most likely have looked at my tits and ass and not bothered to read a single word about what services that i offers So i think that just by taking booking by text your more likely to get more hagglers and time wasters who want xxx service that you might not offer So speaking to them and letting them know exactly what i do and don't do is imperative for me to work safely

if they cant follow my very simple rules that i send in a very easy to read fool proof text then i don't see them

if they cant follow my rules ( which are really only common sense for both me and them ) then i don't see them because if they don't listen to me before we meet then they will be 10 times worse when we do meet

Couldn't agree with this more. I say I'll happily accept and arrange bookings via text, so long as he's read my site or AW profile. If they come back asking questions which make it obvious they've only glanced at my photos I'll then say they need to either read it thoroughly, or give me a call to discuss further. Any further texts I'll ignore at that point. It's quite simple, not difficult and ensures they have the full proper information before either of us makes a commitment.

Jan10 · « **Reply #50 on:** 02 February 2013, 12:26:29 pm »

Quote from: Daisy_ on 01 February 2013, 05:26:37 pm

Quote from: Alisha on 01 February 2013, 05:15:39 pm
Quote from: MissKylie on 01 February 2013, 04:46:27 pm
I disagree as I think a client who texts is more chance of them deceiving you or being an undesirable client. Just my opinion.

I don't think a guy who prefers to text rather than call has a higher chance of turning out to be TW or "undesirable" as you put it. If you've said "no texts" and a client still texts, then I'd agree he's a probably a timewaster but not otherwise.

I don't understand how text clients are more of a liability either (as long as you don't state "no texts").Maybe it's the fact you only use Adultwork Kylie? I get a fair bit of work from there but the numpties that are attracted to that site mean that I've actually taken my number off for now.

To me texting to meet for some type of sexual service is not acceptable. I want to at least hear the voice of the person I am meeting to get an idea of his attitude. He might sound okay but sometimes what you say can give off an uneasy feeling a text doesn't unless they continue to text and give off some kind of sign that they are not reliable or potentially dangerous.

Jan10 · « **Reply #51 on:** 02 February 2013, 12:38:04 pm »

Quote from: sade on 31 January 2013, 04:10:21 pm

I ask the age, not to turn them down, but I like to know what to expect...I don't know if makes sense to anyone but me....

That makes sense to me. I usually ask their age just to prepare myself for a strong cocky jack the lad type who might try not paying or try to get things his way. Very discriminating I am sure but thats how I work.

Jan10 · « **Reply #52 on:** 02 February 2013, 12:47:57 pm »

Quote from: Orchid on 01 February 2013, 10:45:51 am

If a caller sounds nice to me and talks in a manner that would lead me to believe he was suitable, by the voice i will take his booking.
But If a caller talks in a way that i find very rude or unappealing i will not entertain him.
Lets face it if they dont like the sound of our voices when we pick up the phone to them, they arnt going to book in with us either.
The guys who sound lovely when they call me always turned out to be great clients.

I agree with this also I tend to make a little joke to test their mood and those with a certain laugh, I can't really explain it always turns out to be so nice. I tend to talk more to the clients now as I think you get more out of it. If they start asking questions about sex etc that's a little warning sign but nothing major I usually steer clear of the too many sex questions and if they keep going back to it 'one more question' etc I know they are not for me.

Kimmy · « **Reply #53 on:** 02 February 2013, 07:39:35 pm »

I don't see anyone who sounds cocky or chavvy either, likewise if they sound obnoxious and like they believe they're doing me a favour by visiting. That's why I turn down most young guys.

Gangsta types need not call either or anyone with a creepy undertone.

I also don't meet anyone who tries questioning my rate or any one with too specific needs with regards to what they want too happen and what I should wear, as I find these the most pushy and hard to please clients.

Kimmy · « **Reply #54 on:** 02 February 2013, 07:49:24 pm »

Quote from: Alisha on 01 February 2013, 05:15:39 pm

Quote from: MissKylie on 01 February 2013, 04:46:27 pm
I disagree as I think a client who texts is more chance of them deceiving you or being an undesirable client. Just my opinion.

I don't think a guy who prefers to text rather than call has a higher chance of turning out to be TW or "undesirable" as you put it. If you've said "no texts" and a client still texts, then I'd agree he's a probably a timewaster but not otherwise.

Iv taken numerous text, bookings that have been fine, usually a moron in a call texts in the same manner.

Dani · « **Reply #55 on:** 02 February 2013, 09:01:15 pm »

Quote from: Kimmy on 02 February 2013, 07:49:24 pm

Iv taken numerous text, bookings that have been fine, usually a moron in a call texts in the same manner.

I am the same. It states on my profile no text speak so the guys I agree to see are the ones who have read that and took notice and text me in proper English. I totally ignore texts like. R u free, U busy I wanna see you etc etc etc As these are the guys who either cannot be bothered to read my profile or who are just too arrogant to text me how I want them to text hence I do not see them

A twat is a twat be it by call or text

staybeautifulox · « **Reply #56 on:** 02 February 2013, 11:32:13 pm »

In honesty, you can't screen 100% anyone, that sweet gentlemen on the phone could be the next jack the ripper walking through your door!

TeenKylie · « **Reply #57 on:** 03 February 2013, 12:22:16 am »

Quote from: staybeautifulox on 02 February 2013, 11:32:13 pm

In honesty, you can't screen 100% anyone, that sweet gentlemen on the phone could be the next jack the ripper walking through your door!

I wish there was a bloody 'like' button!

Hotblondie · « **Reply #58 on:** 03 February 2013, 01:04:51 am »

Quote from: staybeautifulox on 02 February 2013, 11:32:13 pm

In honesty, you can't screen 100% anyone, that sweet gentlemen on the phone could be the next jack the ripper walking through your door!

I agree, thats why I preffer texts at first

Just had a very nice young man who just texted me, no calls at all and turned out to be lovely, as allways
Texts or calls, same for me

TeenKylie · « **Reply #59 on:** 03 February 2013, 11:23:42 am »

Quote from: hotblondie28 on 03 February 2013, 01:04:51 am

Quote from: staybeautifulox on 02 February 2013, 11:32:13 pm
In honesty, you can't screen 100% anyone, that sweet gentlemen on the phone could be the next jack the ripper walking through your door!

I agree, thats why I preffer texts at first

Just had a very nice young man who just texted me, no calls at all and turned out to be lovely, as allways
Texts or calls, same for me

Sorry Blondie but I just don't think it's the safest way to screen clients. Like you said, you have turned them down if you don't like the look of them when they get to you. I've never ever had this problem. I want to know a little bit about the person I'm meeting, and can tell a lot by the way someone speaks to me but not by a text message. Plus they could be anyone, like say a wife that has just found out her husband has been cheating and then you have just given you're address out! Definitely for me.

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