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What are your cancellation policies, if any?
« on: 29 January 2014, 07:39:50 am »
I am considering implementing a cancellation policy. One would be that anyone who books me and then cancels on the same day...will not be allowed to book again. I actually blocked 1 guy over the weekend because he was texting me saying he wanted to book that afternoon, but then was being vague and didn't even say what hotel he was in. Then, he said he was being tied up with family and couldn't see me. Then, for people who cancel advanced bookings, I'm considering to maybe suggest that they pay more on the next visit, or make a paypal deposit if they want to see me again.

What do you think?

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Re: What are your cancellation policies, if any?
« Reply #1 on: 29 January 2014, 10:52:32 am »
If its a new client then I ALWAYS give them the benefit of the doubt first time providing they send me a cancellation text, a cancellation text is always appreciated. Its the ones who don't text you to cancel and don't show up and don't respond to my texts that get blocked cause that's obviously just a timewaster.

Sometimes things do happen where a client has to cancel, its the same with us. I am not in the habit of cancelling clients but it wasn't so long ago I had a client waiting in his car while I was putting on my stockings so we're talking about last minute here where I had 3 men at my door (2 plumbers and 1 of the factors) saying that the neighbours down stairs were flooded so they had to come in and check my bathroom, kitchen and boiler which meant I had to postpone my client by 10 mins or so (the water wasn't coming from me) but if the water was coming from me then I would have had to cancel at the very last second and it was hardly my fault.

So as I say, I always give a new client the benefit of the doubt, if they cancel again then I will be much more likely to then think they are at it and then block them.

When a client cancels, it is a pain in the arse but its life, its the rude timewasters you want to avoid.

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Re: What are your cancellation policies, if any?
« Reply #2 on: 29 January 2014, 11:03:23 am »
I think you know there are lots of threads about this already.

I also think you know that using PayPal for sex work is a Bad Idea.

In both cases, you know how the search facility works.
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Re: What are your cancellation policies, if any?
« Reply #3 on: 29 January 2014, 11:11:07 am »
I am considering implementing a cancellation policy. One would be that anyone who books me and then cancels on the same day...will not be allowed to book again. I actually blocked 1 guy over the weekend because he was texting me saying he wanted to book that afternoon, but then was being vague and didn't even say what hotel he was in. Then, he said he was being tied up with family and couldn't see me. Then, for people who cancel advanced bookings, I'm considering to maybe suggest that they pay more on the next visit, or make a paypal deposit if they want to see me again.

What do you think?

You seem to post a lot of frustrations with your business. You sound almost grumpy, to be honest. Just thought I'd point that out.

I give polite legit cancellers another chance. No shows are dead to me evermore.

There are other ways to take deposits than Paypal. I've never done it but I would entertain such ideas as UKash vouchers (which I use on AW) and even iTunes gift cards (I have an iTunes habit...)

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Re: What are your cancellation policies, if any?
« Reply #4 on: 29 January 2014, 11:16:48 am »
P.S I think you'll have major difficulties getting a deposit from clients. Personally speaking I think the only way a deposit should be expected is if its an "out of town" booking. I live and work in Glasgow so if a client wanted to meet me for an overnight in London then I'd obviously expect a deposit as it would be silly of me to pay for my own train/plane ticket and spend all that time travelling without a decent deposit.

Taking a deposit for a booking is a big no-no IMO. Not only that but how awkward would your client feel if he didn't want to see you again and your asking him for a deposit towards next time?

I always say thank you to my clients and that I hope to see them again when they are leaving but I know for a fact there will be some who don't want to meet with me again as my service list doesn't appeal to everyone but I'd hate to put them on the spot and ask for a deposit for next time. It just wouldn't work.

The sex industry has time wasters as does most service businesses. Look at taxi drivers for example on a busy Friday nite when people go on a nite out and phone about 5 different taxis and just jump in the first one that comes, that means the other 4 taxis have wasted time and money on a booking that isn't there. Its one of the downfalls of the job, its massively frustrating but you cant really avoid it.

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Re: What are your cancellation policies, if any?
« Reply #5 on: 29 January 2014, 11:26:30 am »
Taking a deposit for a booking is a big no-no IMO. Not only that but how awkward would your client feel if he didn't want to see you again and your asking him for a deposit towards next time?

I don't think anyone thinks that saying 'Oh, please give me some money towards your next booking' as one of you heads out of the door is a good idea, and it's not what's being talked about here.

Some escorts want deposits, at least some of the time, and some don't. But they're only asked of people going 'I want to book you'.
'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

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Re: What are your cancellation policies, if any?
« Reply #6 on: 29 January 2014, 11:29:00 am »
Sorry have I read this bit wrong then.........................

I'm considering to maybe suggest that they pay more on the next visit, or make a paypal deposit if they want to see me again.


The way I read that was that he was going to either ask for a paypal deposit OR going to ask his client for more money when he see's them towards next booking? Which I think would put the client in an awkward position.

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Re: What are your cancellation policies, if any?
« Reply #7 on: 29 January 2014, 11:31:09 am »
It may work differently right enough in the states and I have only just realised he's in the states with another post he made about charging $200 or more or something along those lines.

I would just never dream of asking for a deposit unless it was for another part of the country.

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Re: What are your cancellation policies, if any?
« Reply #8 on: 29 January 2014, 11:53:41 am »
You missed the start of the sentence:

Then, for people who cancel advanced bookings, I'm considering to maybe suggest that they pay more on the next visit, or make a paypal deposit if they want to see me again.

Some people would never dream of doing some of the things you do, of course.
'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

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Re: What are your cancellation policies, if any?
« Reply #9 on: 29 January 2014, 12:54:59 pm »
If they book and they confirm and don't show up they get saved on my phone under time waster. If a regular confirms then keeps cancelling giving no notice I ban them if they do it more than 3 times . Ive had it 3 times this year where men have just wanted to pop in for a look and a chat and Ive said no sorry this aint a brothel Im a independent ladie you ve booked time with me your going to pay me a 40 pounds time wasting fee and I got it each time . x

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Re: What are your cancellation policies, if any?
« Reply #10 on: 29 January 2014, 02:55:27 pm »
No shows get an immediate block.If a guy cancels onces thats fine,twice and he's in murky water 3 times and they get blocked.Whatever you charge and wherever you are you will always get timewasters but also people do cancel for genuine reasons.

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« Reply #11 on: 29 January 2014, 04:27:36 pm »
Attempting to get any money out of the situation will just waste your energy. I think the best thing to do is just roll your eyes, mutter a bit, and then block (if they're out of chances or a no show.) Just let it go and get on with positive thoughts and making money.

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Re: What are your cancellation policies, if any?
« Reply #12 on: 29 January 2014, 06:38:51 pm »
No shows get an immediate block.If a guy cancels onces thats fine,twice and he's in murky water 3 times and they get blocked.Whatever you charge and wherever you are you will always get timewasters but also people do cancel for genuine reasons.

that sounds good...but i find most guys don't even want to mess someone about 3 times. Sometimes they'll want to mess you about a couple times. In the case of the guy I blocked who cancelled same day...I did it because the day prior i was set up on a fake outcall by a different guy, and when he couldn't give me the hotel name, I got suspicious.

My thing is this: Why would a guy contact me, asking to book for later that afternoon...if they haven't sorted/figured out family stuff. You get that together before you call me. Don't call me talking about um, ah well...family is here, not sure when I can get away. Sounds like someone is just bored and using me as some cheap text entertainment. That's why I blocked him.

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Re: What are your cancellation policies, if any?
« Reply #13 on: 29 January 2014, 09:19:54 pm »
Obviously you have to go on your gut instinct and use your own discretion.For example I blocked someone last night who I have seen before with no probs but he was umming and aahing saying he couldn't ring cos he was on the train but wanting to have a short notice booking but then after a few texts he said he wanted to go home for a shave then he did ring and book in only to then text and say something had come up.I felt he was messing around and told him so.Noone is criticising you for blocking the guy but I really don't think asking for a deposit the next time works.Chances are they just won't book but I guess for persistant cancellers it might just give them a message.

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Re: What are your cancellation policies, if any?
« Reply #14 on: 29 January 2014, 10:50:35 pm »
I am considering implementing a cancellation policy. One would be that anyone who books me and then cancels on the same day...will not be allowed to book again

I think you should charge:

50% if they cancel between 4 - 6 hrs before the booking
75% if they cancel between 1 - 4 hrs before the booking
100% if they cancel under an hour or do not show....

I have guys that often do not turn up or cancel, I still take bookings from them as it is what they are happy with, to argue with them and get stressed would be pointless, I just go along with the plan. Occasionally they do actually turn up...

Sarah x x x