Older guy, very distinguished, clearly an experienced punter. I'm new to this, and I told him so. He was trying to put me at ease, I think, saying "Don't worry, I won't hurt you" and "Why don't you lay down and I'll give you a massage..." but it just weirded me out. Right before doing the deed, he says, "Don't worry, I won't rape you". Is this normal? It made me feel creepy and like he might rape me (the opposite of his intention, I'm sure).
What do you guys think?
(Nothing bad happened, in fact he asked me to leave a bit early.)