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css3456

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Weird experience, could use your wisdom
« on: 14 June 2010, 01:25:57 pm »
Older guy, very distinguished, clearly an experienced punter. I'm new to this, and I told him so. He was trying to put me at ease, I think, saying "Don't worry, I won't hurt you" and  "Why don't you lay down and I'll give you a massage..." but it just weirded me out. Right before doing the  deed, he says, "Don't worry, I won't rape you". Is this normal? It made me feel creepy and like he might rape me (the opposite of his intention, I'm sure).

What do you guys think?

(Nothing bad happened, in fact he asked me to leave a bit early.)

sammy s

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Re: Weird experience, could use your wisdom
« Reply #1 on: 14 June 2010, 03:29:16 pm »
Obviously I cant comment on exactly what the client would have meant by "dont worry i wont rape you" as I wasnt there to hear his tone of voice etc.
What im guessing though is that he could tell you were really nervous and was trying to be sarcastic/jokey with you, maybe because you were making him feel uncomfortable?

Doesnt sound like he was up to anything dodgy, but if he was making you feel uneasy then always go with your gut feeling. Situations can sound like nothing to the other girls because we werent there to experience it, but I definitely know what its like to not click with a client and be made to feel on edge by them.

I would just advise you to only see men with positive feedback who give you a contact number. And also try and have a buddy who always knows what time your bookings are due ot finish so that if something has happened to you then they can contact the police.


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Re: Weird experience, could use your wisdom
« Reply #2 on: 14 June 2010, 04:55:27 pm »
Like Sammy said I doubt he meant anything by it but it was a dumb thing to say and would personally make me want to poke his eyes out with a knitting needle.   ;D

css3456

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Re: Weird experience, could use your wisdom
« Reply #3 on: 16 June 2010, 04:26:36 pm »
Thanks for your wisdom, sweeties!