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Britishblonde

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Is this normal - nerves?
« on: 26 November 2017, 09:02:39 pm »
Hi all,

I've mentioned before I'm new to escorting. Well tomorrow I'm doing my first in-call at a serviced apartment and I'm just about pooping myself.

I have one client lined up from AW and only plan on taking another booking or so to ease me in.

To ease my nerves I've deliberately booked an apartment walking distance from home. I've got supplies, lingerie sorted and as I've mentioned, only plan on seeing a small number of clients (2-3).

Has anyone got any advice for newbie nerves? Does everyone else feel this way? It's kinda like big date night nerves/first day at work nerves all rolled into one!

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MsLadyV87

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Re: Is this normal - nerves?
« Reply #1 on: 26 November 2017, 09:12:06 pm »
awww, yeah I can understand this. You sound prepared, which is good :)

Also remember why you have chosen to do this work, as im sure there is a good reason for you choosing to do so.

I never thought I would settle so well into incalls stuff but I was crazy nervous too but its amazing what you get used to (as long as your being safe and sensible of course)

With some not all, I just think 'its only an hour etc, just get through it and then get the 'thrill' of counting the well earned money after they have gone.

Also one of the most common phases in any job to get you through it 'think of the money'  ;D

Wish you luck and stay safe x
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Re: Is this normal - nerves?
« Reply #2 on: 26 November 2017, 09:23:08 pm »
I was absolutely prettified the first time I did incalls!

But, I ended up having an absolutely amazing experience with really lovely clients.
The advice I would give is follow your gut, and only agree to see clients you have spoken to on the phone.  This was you can get a feeling of what they are like, and see if your service and their requirements match.

Also don?t be afraid to say no if you feel uncomfortable with anything. 
If you are unsure of anything at all, I am happy to help with any questions you may have, and you?re more than welcome to PM me.
And SAAFE is here... with so many other girls who can help guide you through your first day.
So don?t feel you are alone!

Best of luck xx
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Guiltypleasure

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Re: Is this normal - nerves?
« Reply #3 on: 26 November 2017, 10:12:58 pm »
Totally normal to feel like that ,
I didn't leave much gap between clients though so didn't give nerves time to kick in , too busy getting changed ..worrying can literally do your head in .
Good luck ;)
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Britishblonde

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Re: Is this normal - nerves?
« Reply #4 on: 26 November 2017, 11:38:26 pm »
Thank you girls! It's made me feel better to know I'm not totally alone in this!

I'll update tomorrow night and let you know how it went!

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Re: Is this normal - nerves?
« Reply #5 on: 27 November 2017, 04:27:49 am »
Hey Hun it's been a Long long long time since my first client I was working for a agency . Your doing the best thing coming on here for advice and starting as a Indie just a little tip for you I wouldn't tell clients your brand new I would say you been doing it a few months or just say your new if they know it's your first week you might get a load of mick takes come out the wood work . Remember  always take money up front xx
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Britishblonde

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Re: Is this normal - nerves?
« Reply #6 on: 27 November 2017, 03:12:44 pm »
Update: got to the apartment. Was allocated a different one to booking plus it only had a bath?! Needless to say I checked out and have been told I?ll get a full refund. The location etc would have been absolutely perfect - what an annoying first day :(
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Re: Is this normal - nerves?
« Reply #7 on: 27 November 2017, 03:36:08 pm »
So sorry to hear that.  How awful.  You had got yourself all prepared and in work mode as nervous as you were. A serviced apartment with no bath.  How strange.  Shame you didn't find out earlier and you could have maybe found somewhere else.  Well good luck for when you do start  :)
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Britishblonde

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Re: Is this normal - nerves?
« Reply #8 on: 27 November 2017, 03:40:54 pm »
Quote from: chicaboo on 27 November 2017, 03:36:08 pm
So sorry to hear that.  How awful.  You had got yourself all prepared and in work mode as nervous as you were. A serviced apartment with no bath.  How strange.  Shame you didn't find out earlier and you could have maybe found somewhere else.  Well good luck for when you do start  :)

I know  :FF

I rang the guy and he was like oh yeah we?re in the processes of getting a new on put in! I said as a guest I should have been told about this but apparently it only was reported broken yesterday and pulled out... Otherwise it was perfect for work - super discreet. No reception. Buzzer entry. I have an putcsll this week so hopefully that?ll pan out alright!

Thanks :) x
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