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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: sugar on 07 December 2020, 12:30:02 pm
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Hi ladies
I was wondering if I am being over paranoid. A newbie, texted me today, asking if they could have a incall, but wear a mask. At first I said yes, but he will need to show his whole face outside before coming through my door, because I want to identify him, for my own safety. This guy then said not to be bothered because I am being silly, I said he can put it on once I see his face fully. He said dont worry about it, and hung up on me lol. By the way I let regulars wear masks, but newbies I need to study their face first, incase they rob me or harm me.
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From one Sugar to another - Deffo not paranoid in the slightest.
That was such a simple request - Makes me think he had nefarious intentions because he didn't want to be identified.
Personally I think this rule is entirely rational and he basically screened himself out Who doesn't want to show their face for a few seconds? People up to no good for sure.
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MASSIVE RED FLAG STRAIGHT AWAY!
It takes 2 seconds to show someone your face... You are not being paranoid!!
Super dodgy avoid!!
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Something very dodgy there. You done the right thing.
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Thanks ladies.......I started second guessing myself, thinking maybe, I was coming across as difficult. I had a bad gut feeling.
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Thanks ladies.......I started second guessing myself, thinking maybe, I was coming across as difficult. I had a bad gut feeling.
Even if you are being 'difficult' or 'picky' like its literally up to you who you see and if something doesn't feel right that's because it probably isn't!
Well done for avoiding :)
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I'd also be suspicious of someone who insists on wearing a mask, while he's prepared to swap bodily fluids with a stranger??
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I would not open the door without being able to see their full face, the same for entering their property or room if outcall.
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I had a muzzled idiot turn up the other day so I just told him to remove it before he came in with the security chain on the door & danging my personal alarm. I usually make a point to say when they book I have a no mask policy but I'd forgotten with this guy.
Expect thieves this time of year especially, tying to enter with hats pulled down & face coverings.
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Not "show" his face to you? He is a joker, hells no.......
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I’ve had loads show up wearing a mask and not thought anything of it as it seems the norm at moment.
But it would put my heckles up if the guy asked.
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I’ve had loads show up wearing a mask and not thought anything of it as it seems the norm at moment.
But it would put my heckles up if the guy asked.
I'd be asking them if they wash them regularly. Lots of people are getting bacterial infections that look like acne & bacterial meningitis is on the rise from masks. Be careful if you offer kissing.