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monday08

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TURNED DOWN
« on: 03 December 2007, 05:10:51 pm »
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I had a booking...........he turned up.............we chatted and all seemed fine until the mention off money.....then he said " sorry your not what I was looking for".....gave me some money for wasting my time and left...Slightly depressed.Im always honest on the phone. Im clean , presentable, young and attractive.
What went wrong? please tell me!! Does this happens to other girls!! before I start  raiding the cuboards for chocolate  ???
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xw5

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Re: TURNED DOWN
« Reply #1 on: 03 December 2007, 06:32:03 pm »
Yes, this happens, even to the most gorgeous. Sometimes they even moan about giving you "some money for wasting my time".

Can you think of it as being better than him having a bad time and then complaining about it all over the net?
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Louise

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Re: TURNED DOWN
« Reply #2 on: 03 December 2007, 06:39:11 pm »
aww Monday take heart i once had a client walk out cos i was wearing the wrong shade of tights
your not alone xx
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monday08

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Re: TURNED DOWN
« Reply #3 on: 03 December 2007, 09:02:05 pm »
Thanks ladies ;D

I think the conclusion might b to advertise over the web... :-\

and not keep a yrs supply of choc in the house....very dangerous
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brandy@saafe

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Re: TURNED DOWN
« Reply #4 on: 04 December 2007, 02:50:38 pm »
Personally I think it was a bit of a cheek keeping you talking therefore wasting your time before he told you you weren't what he was looking for. It's something he should've admitted to as soon as he walked in the door. I guess it could've been that he was nervous and was finding the best possible way to tell you.

It's not an uncommon occurrence. I remember reading about an escort who the client wouldn't even let into his hotel room. She said she knocked on the door but there was no answer, but she could definitely hear him behind the door. I don't know if he looked through the peephole and decided that she wasn't right for him, or that he was just a complete timewaster. But either way it's not nice when that happens. And she got nothing for her troubles.
Welcome to the world of escorting.
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tasha

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Re: TURNED DOWN
« Reply #5 on: 05 December 2007, 04:09:57 pm »
What a creep.........He's the loser, don't let it get you down........Take care,Tasha.
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monday08

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Re: TURNED DOWN
« Reply #6 on: 11 December 2007, 12:03:25 am »
Thanks to all xxx

 :D

I think it was also down to lack of sleep and suger ! The first word I thought of this morning was.." next " !
they say during sleep you shed skin but I think over the past 24 hrs it's got thicker! !!! .......sorry if you've just eaten :(
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brandy@saafe

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Re: TURNED DOWN
« Reply #7 on: 11 December 2007, 08:58:00 am »
Quote from: monday08 on 11 December 2007, 12:03:25 am
Thanks to all xxx

 :D

I think it was also down to lack of sleep and suger ! The first word I thought of this morning was.." next " !
they say during sleep you shed skin but I think over the past 24 hrs it's got thicker! !!! .......sorry if you've just eaten :(

Absolutely. That is one thing that I have developed in this job, and that's thick skin. It's good body armour to have.
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Louise

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Re: TURNED DOWN
« Reply #8 on: 11 December 2007, 12:37:23 pm »
very true i have a skin like a rhino now but when i started i didnt
i used to worry about the slightest thing
now i dont ...I just go with the flow
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aging hooker

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Re: TURNED DOWN
« Reply #9 on: 20 December 2007, 08:37:41 am »
sorry to hear that - but it is part and parcel of the job though less so with the internet than it was with classified adverts - I always insist on a tw payment and on the plus side he did volunteer the payment.

I did have one guy that did not want to pay the tw payment only to be told he had read my site, seen the pics and he had already informed me he had read my reviews so knew what he was booking and as he had crossed the threshold payment was due. or of course my minder would ask.

I went on an outcall one evening got to the door on a winters evening only for him to say no thanks to which I said call out charge please.  You do harden up on these

Beth
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exquisites

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Re: TURNED DOWN
« Reply #10 on: 31 January 2008, 01:33:35 pm »
Your post was like an entry from my own diary. Every time I think I understand the clients, I meet someone new who teaches me I don't know everything. Remember many men don't really know what they want and just expect someone to know for them and provide it. They can be sooo rude if things are not the way they fantasize. Keep your spirits up.:-\
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