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Lil Lolita

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Want to get out of the sauna!!
« on: 07 October 2012, 11:47:21 am »
I am absolutely desperate to get out of the sauna now. I am doing well touchwood with the agency and they treat me with so much more respect. I met the agency owner yesterday to give him the weekly commission and he was very respectful and professional, shaking hands when he met me, asking how I was enjoying the work and generally all ok. Unlike the fecking sauna boss who thinks its acceptable to touch me every time I work there.

Realistically, I am not making much from the sauna and I dont like the environment. The owner (the leech) allows some of the girls to smoke and I think its revolting as I dont smoke and I come home with stinking hair and clothes and feel run down cos of the fog of smoke in the lounge. Then there are the punters. Yesterday, I nearly walked out when two stupid drunk men were allowed on the premises and they were loud and lairy. One of them thought it would be funny to "test my reflexes" when I was sitting down, so I nearly lost it with him.

When I was getting changed for the shift, there was this girl in the kitchen who thinks she's Gods gift because she is the perfect little escort and incredibly arrogant. I saw a customer who used to pick me all the time, and just said something like "OMG, he used to pick me all the time, I havent seen him in a while!" The bitch then turned around and said "Yeah well, stop crying about it, he picks me now so get over it". I wanted to slap her for her rudeness!

I complained to the owner (the idiot one) and he said that there is "nothing I can do" about drunks coming in and you get that in any job, plus I was like a "shrinking violet" when in the lounge which is wrong, as I am not. Before I even had a chance as well to say what shifts I wanted, he put me down on the Sunday. I am very angry because I havent seen my Mum and Gran in months from being an uni and wanted this weekend to see them, as I know they are missing me!

The guys in the sauna (punters) generally are quite, shall we say, unsavoury. Rough, quite obnoxious characters and I dont get a say in the matter. I saw two guys yesterday, the second was ok, but the first although pleasant, pushed boundaries. The pig stuck his fingers up my bum and then proceeded to put the same fingers up my pussy. I quickly managed to stop him but again, that puts me at risk of all kinds of infection. I gave him OWO (always careful with this, and never allow CIM in the sauna) and nothing came out etc. Had sex and he came in the condom, then teased him some more and wanked him.... however, he had this really weird stuff at the base of his cock which actually made me exclaim "What the hell is that?!!" I dont know whether it was smegma or "infected cum". Nevertheless, I have a spare packet of Azithromycin antibiotics in my cupboard which kills chlamydia and also need to get some Balance Activ(?) for possible BV and thrush.

How the hell can I get out of this? The other girls are nice and also have a problem with said girl, but this guy has my phone number and I dont want to get hounded when I go (god knows why he wants our numbers). With the agency, the clientele are more upmarket and tend to stay in very posh hotels given the prices the agency charge. The owner and the office say "if there is ever a problem, give us a shout", and because I am reliable etc, they always send work my way. Clients are always respectful and never yet have pushed for BB or anything. Plus, the flat is non smoking for incalls and the clients generally dont smoke so I dont risk my clothes etc getting smelly.

I want to get the hell out of the sauna; funnily enough, I have had some men comment and say "You are too good for this place, you shouldnt be here". But the one problem? The owner. My phone network are planning on charging me again for a change of number and I simply cannot afford it this month as I have already put the agency money aside for rent and priority bills :( What should I do? :/

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Re: Want to get out of the sauna!!
« Reply #1 on: 07 October 2012, 11:58:11 am »
It is quite simple. Just tell them that you no longer want to work there.  You can say you have realised that sauna work is not for you as you prefer to be able to have a say in who you see and you no longer feel safe or comfortable working there.
I would not bother saying it is because of the perverted boss as they have your number and may just be awkward about it.
Just ring them and let them know then do not go in. 

As for seeing anyone with something wrong with the base of their cock that you could not identify NOOOOO
As you gave him OWO it would be best to go and get a check up. Also if you had sex with him as a condom does not cover the base or the area around it or his balls so again testing would be advisabe.
Make sure they give you a throat swab as well. Explain you have had oral without with someone who may have had an infection of some sort.

Do not go back at all.  No one should be made to see people they do not want to.  Nor should they have to put up with drunk men or a pervert boss.  Quit now.  Then just carry on with your agency and also put up an AW profile.  You can pick who you see then and are in full control.

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Re: Want to get out of the sauna!!
« Reply #2 on: 07 October 2012, 12:07:39 pm »
I know it sounds stupid, but the pre cum was clear and there wasnt much of it. I am going to see if the GP can do a throat swab as it can take up to a month for an appointment at the GUM clinic where I am.

I dont know what gives some people the right to hassle their workers and treat them like dirt. I am fed up with this. Also, the good thing about the agency is that the hours I put in I am on "stand by" for, so whilst I am waiting, I can do uni work and be proactive. Can hardly do that with the sauna, considering some people like to have a nosey at what you are doing and then try and drop you in it. Sigh. Shame, as the guys I have seen from the agency work sometimes question me and ask if I am in a professional caring job because I am "kind and gentle" to them etc.

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Re: Want to get out of the sauna!!
« Reply #3 on: 07 October 2012, 12:15:19 pm »
Just taken the Azithromycin just now, it is to be taken as one dose of four tablets, so at least that will kill the possibility of chlamydia should I have had it.

I will also get swabbed in the throat for other things though. Does anyone know if you can get this Balance Activ stuff in the chemists or can you only buy it online?

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« Reply #4 on: 07 October 2012, 12:19:14 pm »
Not sure.  I always get mine free from the GUM clinic.  They give me tons of it each time I go.  If you are popping in for tests ask for some of this as well
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Re: Want to get out of the sauna!!
« Reply #5 on: 07 October 2012, 12:34:18 pm »
When the parlour owner touches you charge him a fiver for each grope. Then it'll become a source of steady income for you if it carries on. Treat him like a client. You dont have to work there if you dont want to.

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Re: Want to get out of the sauna!!
« Reply #6 on: 07 October 2012, 01:08:53 pm »
Get out Now, your better off having to watch your budget for a few months than being treated like dirt. These people clearly have no respect for their workers.

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Re: Want to get out of the sauna!!
« Reply #7 on: 07 October 2012, 05:33:36 pm »
You can get balance active in boots.

Also just phone tell them you're not enjoying the work anymore, hang up and block their number. I don't think it needs to be more complicated than that.

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Re: Want to get out of the sauna!!
« Reply #8 on: 07 October 2012, 05:47:18 pm »
Don't turn up again.  What can they do?  They know they are breaking the law and women leave all the time, it's the nature of this industry.  It's not like you have a contract.

Like Casey says block their number and carry on with the rest of your life without the lowlife scumbags getting you down.

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Re: Want to get out of the sauna!!
« Reply #9 on: 07 October 2012, 09:57:41 pm »
like i said in a few of your posts just don,t go back they are scum... The phone network only charge about 10 pounds to change the number done it loads of times...

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Re: Want to get out of the sauna!!
« Reply #10 on: 08 October 2012, 12:26:38 pm »
With regards to the phone network, it's not strictly true; I had to change my number last year because I was getting a guy giving me jip and I wanted it to stop. Since then, they have said I am looking at ?30-40 if I want it changed again. My bursary hasnt come in yet (not for another week) and I have already just paid off my rent and horrendous heating bills.

I wish it were that simple, but this man is DANGEROUS. There was a bit of a scatty girl working there not so long ago, nice but I dont think she thought about what she was saying most of the time! And she said something like she was going to report him and the place to the police, and he turned around and firstly said the police dont care as they know what goes on (true), but also he would "fucking kill her" if she did.

He is aggressive and horrid and when I left before, he was hounding me. My network are bullshitting saying they "dont have the facilities to block numbers". Bloody annoys me! I dont know why the agency are like 10 times more respectful, and they dont hassle me on my days off except to ask work related stuff (havent long joined) e.g. do I drive and could they have my shifts for the following week. He however, is a pain in arse, and I am so scared he will do something if I just leave and dont change my number/block in the process :(

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« Reply #11 on: 08 October 2012, 04:19:44 pm »
Most people use their phones to block numbers - if you have any form of 'smartphone' a program will exist for it which will do this, for example by 'picking up' when a number you don't want to hear from rings you then instantly hanging up. A search here may well find some recommendations.

If you want to, you can tell the one you can talk to why you're leaving, then ignore them.
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Re: Want to get out of the sauna!!
« Reply #12 on: 08 October 2012, 04:56:30 pm »
With regards to the phone network, it's not strictly true; I had to change my number last year because I was getting a guy giving me jip and I wanted it to stop. Since then, they have said I am looking at ?30-40 if I want it changed again. My bursary hasnt come in yet (not for another week) and I have already just paid off my rent and horrendous heating bills.

I wish it were that simple, but this man is DANGEROUS. There was a bit of a scatty girl working there not so long ago, nice but I dont think she thought about what she was saying most of the time! And she said something like she was going to report him and the place to the police, and he turned around and firstly said the police dont care as they know what goes on (true), but also he would "fucking kill her" if she did.

He is aggressive and horrid and when I left before, he was hounding me. My network are bullshitting saying they "dont have the facilities to block numbers". Bloody annoys me! I dont know why the agency are like 10 times more respectful, and they dont hassle me on my days off except to ask work related stuff (havent long joined) e.g. do I drive and could they have my shifts for the following week. He however, is a pain in arse, and I am so scared he will do something if I just leave and dont change my number/block in the process :(

Thats just a load of empty threats. Truth is he would never dare lift a finger against any of the women working there. Its just intimidation that's all. If you decide to leave there isn't a thing anyone can do about it. There is absolutely nothing to fear from him just say you're leaving and he'll easily just go around and find another girl to work for him.

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Re: Want to get out of the sauna!!
« Reply #13 on: 08 October 2012, 08:30:59 pm »
The fact is, if the police knew that not only was this guy running a sauna but that at least one of the girls working there was only doing so because he was intimidating and threatening her, he'd be in really, really deep trouble. Judges are really strict even on brothel-owners who have always acted with professional curtesy to everyone, so if that bloke has to stand in court and try to convince a judge that he had "no idea" that groping you and making threats to other escorts is a grossly revolting way to be acting, well, I don't fancy his chances.

Of course you don't want to go provoking someone like that, though, so you're right not to want to go telling him about leaving. I'd go with a slightly bonkers-but-plausible story like that you've been secretly dating a guy (who is obviously a bad-tempered cage fighter or something!) and have gotten pregnant so have to leave. Or that this handy imaginary boyfriend has found out about your work and wants you to stop. Make out like he's a very intimidating guy! Then the parlour owner will probably be the one telling you not to come back, because he's not going to want trouble from some pregnant girl's controlling boyfriend. Block the number or just switch to using one of those cheap PAYG phones for a bit (you should always have one of these for work anyway), leaving your main phone off, and within a few weeks they'll have forgotten all about you. Job done!
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Re: Want to get out of the sauna!!
« Reply #14 on: 09 October 2012, 10:00:55 am »
Brilliant Emily! Yeah I think the whole 'I'm pregnant to a psychopath' would fall true, as apparently one of the girls had to have a termination recently and he let her go.

I think as well I do have a good way of getting out. I went in for the shift last night, and there were too many girls on. He hadnt put me down for any shifts as he had forgotten! :) They made me stay though (the other owner), and the other silly naive girls thought I "wanted" shifts so were saying about how so and so is complaining she has too many. I'm in for Sunday but seeing as the nitwit hasnt scheduled me in, I think I am gonna offer to do another shift with the agency and maybe see about getting something started as an indie again (although I have never gone "indie indie" as did it before with a loopy ex who took 30% of my earnings!!).

Then I get my new phone allowance the next day so was going to see if I could change the number then so I wont be charged. Let's hope. But I am FED UP with being treated so disrespectfully.

I nearly lost it last night, was quite funny actually. I managed to get one guy in the end, very nice, but the guy before picked Miss Arrogant Snooty bitch who I mentioned on here before. And then he came back into the lounge after and specifically asked me to get him a soft drink. I nearly threw it over him! I think the guys who just assume they will get something and ask are rude. I think, no matter where you go, it is courteous to wait to be asked. Idiot.  :FF