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Re: Neighbours
« Reply #15 on: 19 November 2017, 10:19:54 pm »
The problem you have if neighbours take notice and clock many men coming and going no matter how discreet you are if they suspect and want to find out they will start watching. I was very discreet when i rented flats to work from but got kicked out of a fair few because neighbours caused trouble or complained.

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« Reply #16 on: 19 November 2017, 11:30:21 pm »
The problem you have if neighbours take notice and clock many men coming and going no matter how discreet you are if they suspect and want to find out they will start watching. I was very discreet when i rented flats to work from but got kicked out of a fair few because neighbours caused trouble or complained.

I wouldn't advocate working from home all the time. I tour as well.

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« Reply #17 on: 19 November 2017, 11:51:10 pm »
The problem you have if neighbours take notice and clock many men coming and going no matter how discreet you are if they suspect and want to find out they will start watching. I was very discreet when i rented flats to work from but got kicked out of a fair few because neighbours caused trouble or complained.

When all the neighbours are at uni or work during the day and that is when the clients are visiting then how perfect is that?  The odd day at home or on a weekend and they see people going in and out is nothing unusual as I see their visitors too and do not bat an eyelid.

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Re: Neighbours
« Reply #18 on: 20 November 2017, 04:17:22 am »
When I worked from my home, which was a flat, I only had an upstairs neighbour to worry about. I told all clients "don't knock the door, I'll keep an eye out the window and run to the door as you come up the steps."

I work similarly in hotels, once they call to say they're parked I go and lurk by the door and I open it when I hear their footsteps outside.
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Re: Neighbours
« Reply #19 on: 20 November 2017, 08:10:56 am »
When I worked from my home, which was a flat, I only had an upstairs neighbour to worry about. I told all clients "don't knock the door, I'll keep an eye out the window and run to the door as you come up the steps."

I work similarly in hotels, once they call to say they're parked I go and lurk by the door and I open it when I hear their footsteps outside.
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Re: Neighbours
« Reply #20 on: 20 November 2017, 08:56:47 am »
Just to add to the discussion I have had a situation in which a neighbour asked a client where he was going, others have said friendly "Hellos". Confident clients either batted it off, or in one case got roped into a conversation about something I'd been helping him with.

A few nervy types either ran off, or came in telling me 'there's a person walking past / gone in their house / at the window'.

I can't stop passers-by and some regulars actually like there to be evidence of other humans around, they've explained it gives them a sense of security ie they aren't totally isolated should anything wierd happen.

The worst incall location for discretion was a small (and in my town they are rarely large), supposedly prestigious block of flats which several clients still insisted was more discrete than a terrace I moved to.

Let's say the combination of indiscreet clients and my at the time lifestyle along with the layout and residents meant the block was anything but discrete, and I got my marching orders fairly soon.


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Re: Neighbours
« Reply #21 on: 20 November 2017, 12:24:01 pm »
Just to add to the discussion I have had a situation in which a neighbour asked a client where he was going, others have said friendly "Hellos". Confident clients either batted it off, or in one case got roped into a conversation about something I'd been helping him with.

A few nervy types either ran off, or came in telling me 'there's a person walking past / gone in their house / at the window'.

I can't stop passers-by and some regulars actually like there to be evidence of other humans around, they've explained it gives them a sense of security ie they aren't totally isolated should anything wierd happen.

The worst incall location for discretion was a small (and in my town they are rarely large), supposedly prestigious block of flats which several clients still insisted was more discrete than a terrace I moved to.

Let's say the combination of indiscreet clients and my at the time lifestyle along with the layout and residents meant the block was anything but discrete, and I got my marching orders fairly soon.

If you do not mind sharing how did that happen? Was it a landlord who gave you notice to leave and did he give definite reasons?

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« Reply #22 on: 20 November 2017, 02:58:27 pm »
one of my neighbour was kicked off...
she was escort..
agency just give notice without explanation. give back even money of caution.
nothing happens! just she moved!

many neighbours complain as was not really discreet, noise (orgasm noise), strong spanking noise and a lot of in/out..
lot of 3some and parties!

i do not if all landlord react like that...but honestly it is not so bad..you need just to move!
so my agency/landlord is like that!

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« Reply #23 on: 20 November 2017, 03:27:02 pm »
If you do not mind sharing how did that happen? Was it a landlord who gave you notice to leave and did he give definite reasons?

The letting agent told me the owners wanted their flat back, it was relet very quickly.

Prior to this a neighbour had a quiet word, told me the residents committee were aware of my visitors and she advised me to tell them not to park in the car park.

The car park was watched prior to me living there because it was sometimes used by people popping into town.

Not all my visitors were clients and some of my personal life ones were a bit of a pain - as well as clients drawing attention by shouting into their phones, parking in neighbours spaces, forgetting the door number, buzzing other numbers asking to see me in my working name. Leaving shouting back 'bye Mirror thank you'. Sound proofing wasn't great and you could hear from corridor to hall.

I was pleased to leave, and a bit later sorted out some of my life which helped!

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« Reply #24 on: 20 November 2017, 03:33:36 pm »
The letting agent told me the owners wanted their flat back, it was relet very quickly.

Prior to this a neighbour had a quiet word, told me the residents committee were aware of my visitors and she advised me to tell them not to park in the car park.

The car park was watched prior to me living there because it was sometimes used by people popping into town.

Not all my visitors were clients and some of my personal life ones were a bit of a pain - as well as clients drawing attention by shouting into their phones, parking in neighbours spaces, forgetting the door number, buzzing other numbers asking to see me in my working name. Leaving shouting back 'bye Mirror thank you'. Sound proofing wasn't great and you could hear from corridor to hall.

I was pleased to leave, and a bit later sorted out some of my life which helped!

Wow really? some people dont think do they? surely they must know being discreet is so important, especially at a home address. Glad you are more settled and better off now :)
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« Reply #25 on: 20 November 2017, 03:37:27 pm »
Honestly? I tour a lot mainly from apartments but also work from home.

The main criteria for neighbours not noticing (and this works for me on 99% of places) is to

See a max of 2 possibly 3 clients per day but sometimes 0

Screen heavily

See clients for longer appointments rather than shorter ones

If necessary tell newcomers to escorting how to behave discreetly

I have never been clocked in over 6 years of escorting, including 3 years at home at the sane address so this works for me.

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Re: Neighbours
« Reply #26 on: 20 November 2017, 05:48:24 pm »
I?m in a detached house so don?t have to worry about soundproofing but my neighbours on each side we?re having a quiet chat one day and I was super paranoid.

People have friends, family, things that need fixing. Having people come to the house isn?t that weird. Honestly I think some people need to get a life. ?We?re aware of your visitors.? So what? I think my neighbour is a drug dealer (an empty baggy blew onto my drive and lots of coming and going)but I don?t make a fuss. Makes it more discrete for me! Haha

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« Reply #27 on: 20 November 2017, 05:53:44 pm »
Honestly? I tour a lot mainly from apartments but also work from home.

The main criteria for neighbours not noticing (and this works for me on 99% of places) is to

See a max of 2 possibly 3 clients per day but sometimes 0

Screen heavily

See clients for longer appointments rather than shorter ones

If necessary tell newcomers to escorting how to behave discreetly

I have never been clocked in over 6 years of escorting, including 3 years at home at the sane address so this works for me.

as i am working! it is my balance!
if you see like 6 for day it is to be noticed! all men!
1/2 each day is fine! (for me)
for income..better more than 1 hr booking!
1 for 2hrs booking is just perfect! 3/4 time week  :)

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Re: Neighbours
« Reply #28 on: 20 November 2017, 06:54:51 pm »
I have mostly been low volume, and rarely less than 1 hour bookings with good gaps between. Currently I accept only 2 incall bookings per week and I've developed a jokey spiel about discretion.

As I say at the time I had issues my lifestyle was a bit chaotic which sort of drew attention. Don't piss the neighbours off has been my mantra for quite a long time.

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Re: Neighbours
« Reply #29 on: 20 November 2017, 09:03:39 pm »
I was always ok. Seeing 3-5 clients a day but I was outed by my ex. He sent letters to my letting agent and next door ppl about my escorting.. .

I have reported everything to the police including letters. He was arrested and I am awaiting  court hearing. Don't forget you are an escort and you have plenty of contacts! I have managed to get letter of employment and references.

When police came in to my flat it was nice and clean. Never ever let someone to be bullied!