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sassy27

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Getting beat up by other escorts whilst touring
« on: 07 January 2014, 12:06:59 pm »
Is there a risk of getting beat up by other escorts whilst touring. A "friend" (and escort) of mine warned me about touring as other girls get annoyed that your in "their" area and taking their clients and arrange to have you done over.

At the time i was touring Birmingham which is her area. I was quite busy and she wasnt. This is when she warned me about getting done over.

I dont know if this was an indirect threat because she was jealous or not. What do you think? Has anyone ever heard of this happening?
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Re: Getting beat up by other escorts whilst touring
« Reply #1 on: 07 January 2014, 01:15:22 pm »
I have heard of jealous local escorts harassing touring girls. I would say that this girl was threatening you, yes. Or at least trying to upset you. But if she'd been able to/inclined to actually do it, she would have instead of just talking. I recommend avoiding contact with her in the future.
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Re: Getting beat up by other escorts whilst touring
« Reply #2 on: 07 January 2014, 03:14:21 pm »
Yes I would stay away from her too, there are some very vicious and nasty minded escorts around.
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Re: Getting beat up by other escorts whilst touring
« Reply #3 on: 07 January 2014, 03:46:45 pm »
Definitely stay away, she doesn't sound like the sort of person you want to be mixing with. Unfortunately in this game there are a lot of other jealous working girls that are not afraid to go to great lengths to try and destroy you :(.

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Re: Getting beat up by other escorts whilst touring
« Reply #4 on: 07 January 2014, 05:59:52 pm »
I've had loads of problems touring in certain areas with other escorts and sometimes pimps. Unfortunately if they see you as a threat, there's nothing you can do about it really.

Ive had the fake appointments thing happen to me a few times on a few different tours and was once told about it from a client who told me that a girl he see's asked him to phone me and book me but not show up and that he felt bad for me so told me about it and said he wouldn't see her again.

Ive had pimps phone me to find out where I am then cause problems and I have had issues with girls in certain areas too yet despite the fact that I use this forum for a rant when something shit has happened, I genuinely keep myself to myself so I dunno why I attract such crap.

Don't know what advice to give, hopefully someone can give me some advice on how to deal with this?

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Re: Getting beat up by other escorts whilst touring
« Reply #5 on: 07 January 2014, 07:43:45 pm »
Some girls can be just awful!

This forum just shows you that there are loads of girls who will stick together and try to help each other out. To be honest i dont think i could tour, id be terrified x

Pink Princess I could see why they would find you a threat as your a little stunner so as hard as it is, take it as a compliment.

Jealousy is an illness so it seems x

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Re: Getting beat up by other escorts whilst touring
« Reply #6 on: 07 January 2014, 08:15:53 pm »
I'm going to play devil's advocate and say it does not necessarily mean she was trying to or planning to do you over - that's not to say she wasn't - as I am sure some of the ladies commenting have a lot more experience in this game than I do.


But



I would like to think that if I could warn somebody about something that can potentially be dangerous I would  - but now I would be thinking twice because if something does happen, I could get the blame even though I am not involved but simply warned the person forehand.
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Re: Getting beat up by other escorts whilst touring
« Reply #7 on: 07 January 2014, 09:15:13 pm »
Quote from: MinxySophia on 07 January 2014, 07:43:45 pm
Some girls can be just awful!

This forum just shows you that there are loads of girls who will stick together and try to help each other out. To be honest i dont think i could tour, id be terrified x

Pink Princess I could see why they would find you a threat as your a little stunner so as hard as it is, take it as a compliment.

Jealousy is an illness so it seems x

Love Sx

Awwwww thank you  :-* Is this who I think it is?  ;)

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Re: Getting beat up by other escorts whilst touring
« Reply #8 on: 07 January 2014, 11:15:24 pm »
Quote from: LithyBony on 07 January 2014, 08:15:53 pm


I would like to think that if I could warn somebody about something that can potentially be dangerous I would  - but now I would be thinking twice because if something does happen, I could get the blame even though I am not involved but simply warned the person forehand.

Hi I wouldn't worry about giving a friend a genuine warning or to another SW as we do on this forum as friends and SW's we should look out for each other. But I think what is weird about this situation is that escorts don't go around setting each other up for a beating? What type of person would put want to plant such a thing in someones mind? I could see how that 'warning' may have come across as a veiled threat.

Friends or so called friends do do nasty things to each other out of spite and jealousy.
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Re: Getting beat up by other escorts whilst touring
« Reply #9 on: 08 January 2014, 01:33:03 pm »
Quote from: Chanel on 07 January 2014, 11:15:24 pm
Hi I wouldn't worry about giving a friend a genuine warning or to another SW as we do on this forum as friends and SW's we should look out for each other. But I think what is weird about this situation is that escorts don't go around setting each other up for a beating? What type of person would put want to plant such a thing in someones mind? I could see how that 'warning' may have come across as a veiled threat.

Friends or so called friends do do nasty things to each other out of spite and jealousy.


I think you would be surprised what some underhand and jealous workers would do when they feel threatened and undermined, especially if they are losing work (and money) to another worker. It's not a nice thing to do.

We have to remember that not all workers are helpful to others like the girls and guys on SAAFE are to each other.
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Re: Getting beat up by other escorts whilst touring
« Reply #10 on: 08 January 2014, 03:23:56 pm »
Quote from: Chanel on 07 January 2014, 11:15:24 pm

But I think what is weird about this situation is that escorts don't go around setting each other up for a beating? What type of person would put want to plant such a thing in someones mind?


It does happen.  I know of at least three girls in my area who were beat up when they first started as they were too close in area and looks to this other 'woman' who obviously felt she had rights to the area and as it turned out she didn't actually escort just met the men then did a runner with the money and she felt the guys would stop going to her if decent girls turned up. 
I was also threatened and had a pimp turn up to try and warn me off when I started working in the area, I think the only reason he walked away is because I told hi to smile for the camera (CCTV was pointed at my door).  So yes it does happen as not everyone cares about anything other than themselves or how much money they might not make if someone decent moves into the area.

There are nasty self serving people in any business so there is bound to be in ours as well.  However if you are touring and working from a hotel this is unlikely to happen due to the fact that hotels normally have CCTV as well as security so they would likely be caught and the police would have CCTV of them coming in so they could not deny it.
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Re: Getting beat up by other escorts whilst touring
« Reply #11 on: 09 January 2014, 02:31:25 am »
Quote from: Dani on 08 January 2014, 03:23:56 pm
However if you are touring and working from a hotel this is unlikely to happen due to the fact that hotels normally have CCTV as well as security so they would likely be caught and the police would have CCTV of them coming in so they could not deny it.

Well, for the most part that WOULD ward off people. But, and although this isn't related to other escorts attacking each other, there was an instance here in the US where things were occurring in hotels. One lady was killed inside a Boston hotel by a guy who was regularly robbing others in hotels. They caught him, and he later killed himself. There's a whole movie about it called the craigslist killer.

However, as a male escort competing with other male escorts...I've been around every corner of the US and thankfully I haven't had a situation as this. BUT not to say people haven't tried.

I had 1 in Miami where some girl called me and said, "I want to hire you to come and surprise my brother for his birthday. I'll give you the money and you can just go in..." Ummm...yeah, go in and get shot 5 times in the head? She must have thought I fell off the stupid truck.

Another escort girl the other day called while I was on tour wanting to "ask me some questions". I hung up on her rather quickly and responded to her texts that I don't answer questions.
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Re: Getting beat up by other escorts whilst touring
« Reply #12 on: 09 January 2014, 04:28:29 pm »
Quote from: Dani on 08 January 2014, 03:23:56 pm
Quote from: Chanel on 07 January 2014, 11:15:24 pm

But I think what is weird about this situation is that escorts don't go around setting each other up for a beating? What type of person would put want to plant such a thing in someones mind?


It does happen.  I know of at least three girls in my area who were beat up when they first started as they were too close in area and looks to this other 'woman' who obviously felt she had rights to the area and as it turned out she didn't actually escort
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