I think that is a bit harsh nobody knows how somebody feels from a experience. 90% of my clients are white and of course i have met some absolute arseholes that happen to be white and caused me shit. I got robbed attacked very violently with a Iranian refugee who had a knife at my throat and threatened to kill me after that anybody that sounded similar to him on the phone or said they were from Iran i could not see it was too much and would throw me into panic attacks.

Some might remember a couple of years back there was constant robberies being reported on here with different young black guys robbing women in hotels and some very violent attacks. It was happening in the areas i work and not long after i was violently attacked now i could not risk another violent attack so i would not see any young black guys incase one of them was the robbers i told them straight on the phone i cannot risk it and they understood. Around that time the only black guys i would see if they could prove they were a genuine client with feedback or send me some i.d and a few did so i was comfortable they were not the robbers. Financially it never made a difference because i only get a very small percentage of black guys that call.

Just to point out if there was a white guy say with ginger hair or with a certain accent etc and was robbing women i too would avoid all white guys that looked like him or spoke with his accent. My safety and mental health has to come first and i cannot apologise for taking safety measures to keep me safe.

I am black. You are not. The op offended me. And so has your bullshit reply about not seeing ginger men. Nobody on this forum gonna stop seeing white English men even if they had a ‘bad experience’ with one. We have the right to see who we want our body our choice but don’t dress up racism and ignorance as bad experiences it fucks me off. Just say you don’t see a certain race don’t bring stereo types and generalisations into it.

You'll soon learn to gauge the voices. Mine have to have a business type voice. Race isn't an issue at all, after all, you'd probably see Denzel Washington.

But I tell ya. If there were ginger guys going around robbing, I wouldn't open the door to one.

Yep without going in to all my working history there has been certain white men i avoided in a certain county way back from reports of switching and attacking women and i have no problem doing this to anyone no matter what there colour is if it keeps me safe and having less anxiety.



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Miss Delany i already told you i know someone who will not see certain types of white men so it's not bullshit if it's true just because it seems alien to you.

To be fair EG, your friend (although I'm sure she's a lovely person) sounds as thick as pigshit, and if anything lets her down and causes her problems then it's likely to be that, or at least appearing so in her ads because it will give her away as an easy target. At least do her the kindness of telling her that calling other people 'chavvy' and 'common' is about as 'common' as it's possible to get and that the 'businessmen' she's angling for are likely office workers who have never had and will never have a business.

I am black. You are not. The op offended me. And so has your bullshit reply about not seeing ginger men. Nobody on this forum gonna stop seeing white English men even if they had a ‘bad experience’ with one. We have the right to see who we want our body our choice but don’t dress up racism and ignorance as bad experiences it fucks me off. Just say you don’t see a certain race don’t bring stereo types and generalisations into it.

I don't think anyone can blame the black women here for being offended that their fathers and grandfathers, sons, brothers and in some cases husbands and partners are basically being written off as not only all the same, but as undesirables who are likely to behave so badly that it's too much of a risk to even let them through the door. Racial profiling is at best complete laziness from people who can't be arsed to screen properly.

As an aside, if I only saw white punters I would have only had two bookings this week, and if they had to be British too only one. Anybody wanting to exclude big groups of punters and their money is fine for me if for no reason other than it means I earn more

I mean what if let's say that you really don't like the client's appearance

Physical appearance isn’t really telling. A conventionally attractive client doesn’t equal big spender/nice client.

Also just something to think about. My boyfriend is Middle Eastern but he’s half English too. He’s white and has blonde hair and green eyes. He speaks with an English accent too. I’m sure this would come as a shock to op but not all Middle Eastern men are brown and speak with an accent. I thought my boyfriend was Eastern European when I first met him as he doesn’t look like a stereotypical Arab at all.

So I mean good luck filtering all Middle Eastern men out in this case. You’d never ever even know he was. Just fruit for thought.